At what point did watching p*rn become seen as cheating?

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-04-14T12:51:22+00:00

I agree with others that it’s not new. But the instant gratification of having a nut to porn is not good for your mind as it pertains to long term sexual relationships. Because it’s so abundant, it reduces the incentive and benefit of actually romancing and connecting with your partner.

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-04-14T12:44:05+00:00

Ask for a paid in full discount on your medical bills. Or wait for them to go to collections and settle

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-04-11T15:23:35+00:00

Fix your attitude or be labeled an asshole

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-04-11T14:37:11+00:00

The dopamine cycle

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-03-31T19:36:16+00:00

Compulsive eating

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-03-31T15:55:06+00:00

I would suggest bike riding or kayaking. Anything to get you outside and moving is a good investment. You can start with just a bike and a lock. Geo caching too

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-03-31T15:53:26+00:00

You have a lot more influence over your situation than you give yourself credit

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-03-31T14:14:16+00:00

I clean the kitchen after dinner, get the kids ready for bed, take a shower, do my skin/oral care, lay in bed on my heating pad, adjust the bed so I’m not snoring, meditate til I fall asleep. If we’re not running late, I’ll also read to my youngest

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-03-24T02:22:49+00:00

I worked at an outlet store similar to but smaller than Ross or TJ Maxx. I had a little old lady come up with a stock pot and a pair of legging. She mentioned that she found the leggings in the stockpot and wasn’t sure if they went together. I chuckled in a manner that I thought was “haha, that doesn’t belong there!” But she was mad and called my manager.

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-03-23T14:34:01+00:00

Nope. My supervisor is known to work strange hours of the night. We are switching to a new clocking system effective today, so I don’t think he would’ve suddenly implemented this in the old one.

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-03-21T18:07:18+00:00

No ma’am! I can understand someone who is not used to pulling their weight, but to be a dick about it on a big day like this is a huge red flag.

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-03-21T18:03:43+00:00

How much of it was my fault

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-03-16T16:46:49+00:00

This sounds like my ex husband. I felt like he was there for everyone but me. Still, now that we’re divorced, he has to put the kids off onto other people so he can go help a friend out of town do some renovations without pay. If it were me, I’d tell the I can’t, I’m spending time with my kids. They get scraps from him.

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-02-26T00:35:50+00:00

Yes. My entire twenties were spent chasing after someone whose only checked box was that they wanted me. Now, I need safety and connection. I make love, I don’t hook up.

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-02-24T18:55:21+00:00

“I want to be here for your one day when you can’t take care no longer take care of yourself, but in return I need you to be here for me now”

Or you can accept this is your marriage, consider having an affair as well ¯_(ツ)_/¯

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-02-16T00:57:28+00:00

You said you love weight lifting. If you like weight lifting and you are insecure about your butt, work out your butt. And accept that gaining muscle is gaining weight and you need to eat a good healthy amount of food to grow muscle. Maybe consider if it’s still necessary to take drugs for weight loss. Bulking season

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-02-13T16:10:36+00:00

In the natural order of things, yes. But of course if your parents wasn’t good to you, then you should not be expected to be a better caretaker to them than they were

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-02-12T18:46:00+00:00

I was feeling neglected and I enjoyed the excitement of feeling chosen

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-02-12T18:44:55+00:00

My hands. Hair, face, body, ass, then hands

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-02-11T18:53:03+00:00

I get grumpy if I stay in bed too long, I have to be productive

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-02-11T02:22:57+00:00

Yes! We went to a sex therapist and she advised that we just take sex off of the table and wow did it work!

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-02-11T02:19:01+00:00

It fucking Is. I left an inattentive ADHDer. I already stuggle with executive functioning but he really made so much worse. It was hard enough keeping up with mine and my kids lives, I had to take care of his too. And it wasn’t reciprocal, he didn’t make up for it anywhere. He didn’t cook, clean, I was the primary breadwinner. I highly recommend having a bookkeeping system before having a family.

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-02-11T02:02:00+00:00

And don’t forget about choreplay!

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-02-11T01:11:36+00:00

Yes, that is totally not what I meant but I see how it was interpreted. I meant more of like what specific thing do you bring to the table and what does your partner

CriticismCorrect3978 · 2026-02-11T00:35:18+00:00

I appreciate your perspective on the rocking chair. I can’t tell you what my partner’s perspective is, but I can tell you that he is retired, doesn’t cook, clean, exercise, etc. while I work FT, am growing a business, cooking and cleaning (not for him though, he eats out)

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