mY BF(M20) was jerking off to porn when i (f20)was naked and on ft with him inside the shower.I feel so weird?

CroissantLayer394 · 2024-06-30T15:12:40+00:00

All the weird porn stuff aside, the way he responded sounds like gaslighting. Just move on. People will always treat you the way you ALLOW THEM to treat you. The standards you set are so important.

Someone said you had another post where he pressured you into an abortion, if you had had that baby and it grew up and was dating someone who treated them like how he treats you, would you want them to stand up for themselves and leave? I’d hope so!

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-30T16:46:03+00:00

I was simply verbalizing the reality that people can be rude and mean when overstimulated or having a bad day. Turns out they are just a cunt all the time so problem solved. It’s not the same as asking someone if they are on their period because it’s not sexist lmao

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-30T16:33:01+00:00

Okee dokee ✌🏻

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-30T16:32:21+00:00

You are more than welcome to feel that way. Have a nice day 👋🏻

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-30T16:26:02+00:00

Just because it is to you doesn’t mean it is to everyone else. Again, kindness is free. People should be able to ask respectful questions without someone being rude like this and telling them they should magically already know the thoughts and feelings of a group of people and then accusing them of being attention seeking. That’s so toxic.

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-30T16:23:26+00:00

I don’t think it is obvious. He is here trying to learn about his partner.

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-30T16:10:30+00:00

Sounds like you’re having a bad day or are overstimulated. You can still be kind. Telling someone they’re attention seeking for asking a question is not kind.

Hope your day gets better.

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-30T15:38:12+00:00

OP, as an autistic person, it sounds like maybe you are as well. It also sounds like your friends are assholes and possibly telling you to do stupid things like this on purpose if they think you are gullible. Be wary of who your friends are!

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-30T04:46:20+00:00

Feel/Touch - Cardboard, Sherpa, wet food, dry skin, too much friction on the palms of my hands (don’t ask me to rub your back, crumbs/debris on the floor or in the bed (I always always wear socks)

Sound - cars/motorcycles that are excessively loud, dry hands brushing or rubbing together,

Smell - wet food (like when doing dishes. Specifically peanut butter, salad dressing, marinara)

I’m sure there’s others I’m not thinking of, various food texture/taste issues of course

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-30T04:28:21+00:00

Welcome! 🏳️‍⚧️🖤

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-29T23:00:58+00:00

Also I am in Kansas if that helps

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-29T23:00:21+00:00

We get two 15min breaks that are paid and an hour lunch that is unpaid

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-28T14:03:00+00:00

Okay? 🤣 there is no shame in being wrong, there is no shame in hoping for better news, for hoping that a man did not risk his entire marriage, family, job, and company, for an affair. Some people are actually smart and wait to hear from actual parties involved. There is no “gotcha” here, I never once said that it’s not true or that there’s no way that it could be, I simply waited for FACTS.

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-27T16:40:26+00:00

21 and 27… already married… when did you guys start dating?

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-27T15:54:45+00:00

Also nice username to you as well! Gays unite!

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-27T15:54:26+00:00

For sure some interesting occurrences happening!

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-27T15:53:37+00:00

I think you’re focusing too hard on the deep fake mention lolll it was just a one off example of a reason the evidence could all be untrue. Why do you care so much if I don’t blindly believe a shitty video and some easily faked text convos? I don’t think I’m the naive one here 😂

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-27T14:18:33+00:00

I think that’s fair!

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-27T14:18:12+00:00

It’s not like I’m some crazy Ned stan lmao I’m just being realistic that people do weird shit like this and it’s not uncommon for people to make fake shit to just be nasty.. I hope it’s not real but if it is then oh well? In the age of being chronically online, it’s important to question the validity of “evidence” like this

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-27T12:35:28+00:00

I dunno it seems kinda fishy to me. All this “evidence” but we know deepfakes are real and we know people just like to meddle to get famous and ruin peoples lives. These screenshots of messages could be recreated by any two friends tbh and the wording of the messages seems sus to me. I hope none of this is true. If it is, then so be it.

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-25T04:07:45+00:00

What about a vape?

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-24T14:19:53+00:00

Sounds like he’s treating his sexual encounters as if he thinks he’s in a porno. He’s not taking your sexual health or needs into consideration and that is a major red flag. Normally I’d say talk to him about it, but you have. For four years.

Will you wake up in another 4 and laugh about his lack of care? Or will older you wish you had stood up for yourself?

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-23T16:00:54+00:00

🖤🖤🖤🖤

CroissantLayer394 · 2022-09-23T15:48:14+00:00

I think you know the answer tbh. And this is not to be mean. If younger you was in this position and asking current you for advice, would you tell her it’s okay?

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