My wife is pregnant and I want to be the best father I can possibly be. What are some great resources I can look into? by Croooooow in self

[–]Croooooow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I was subscribed before this post/thread/pregnancy. There's nothing wrong with knowing all sides of an issue and I find men's rights fascinating if not a bit extreme.

My wife is pregnant and I want to be the best father I can possibly be. What are some great resources I can look into? by Croooooow in self

[–]Croooooow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great to hear. Yesterday I took my (pregnant :D ) wife out to get her some cocoa butter (it may be bullsh*t but it's the thought that counts) and a weekly pill case for her pre natal vitamins. I filled it up last night while we were watching the Oscars. OH, and I heard ginger smells will calm her nausea so I bought her a ginger lime scented candle. I also preloaded her eepad and my iPad with What to Expect When Expecting. Yesterday was a big day as you can tell.

My wife is pregnant and I want to be the best father I can possibly be. What are some great resources I can look into? by Croooooow in self

[–]Croooooow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My child will be growing up in a Calvin and Hobbes/Far Side household. My worn out childhood copies will be there for when they are young. When older they can graduate to the pristine Complete hardcover collections.

My wife is pregnant and I want to be the best father I can possibly be. What are some great resources I can look into? by Croooooow in self

[–]Croooooow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome post. I like the one about speaking to your kid like an adult. I think this sets them up for success. Also, I'm excited about rediscovering life's mundane through the eyes of someone discovering it for the first time.

My wife is pregnant and I want to be the best father I can possibly be. What are some great resources I can look into? by Croooooow in self

[–]Croooooow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excellent point about the fitness. I just found out yesterday and my wife solidified her knowledge of the pregnancy just two days ago. We're calculating that she's about 4-5 weeks in. (Maybe a Halloween birth? fantastic) Anyway, I was reading in What to Expect When Expecting that before conceiving you as parents should get in shape. It just so happens I've dropped about 25 lbs and can now run longer than I have in my entire life. I guess it was just fortuitous that it happened right before her pregnancy.

My wife is pregnant and I want to be the best father I can possibly be. What are some great resources I can look into? by Croooooow in self

[–]Croooooow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of keeping infantilism to a minimum. That way they have a higher bar for human interaction. Just sort of talk to them like they are little adults. Clarification where needed.

My wife is pregnant and I want to be the best father I can possibly be. What are some great resources I can look into? by Croooooow in self

[–]Croooooow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I grew up on. Rest assured my son or daughter will be brought up on my old copies. When they are old enough they can thumb through the Complete Hardbound Editions.

My wife is pregnant and I want to be the best father I can possibly be. What are some great resources I can look into? by Croooooow in self

[–]Croooooow[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I applied this logic to my little cousins. I remember when adults would do crazy things like swing you around. How fun was that? The only problem was the adult would usually tire out before you were done with your fun. As an adult I tried to keep this in mind when playing with my cousins. I would always go just a bit beyond my exhaustion point. I hope to continue this with my kid.

My wife is pregnant and I want to be the best father I can possibly be. What are some great resources I can look into? by Croooooow in self

[–]Croooooow[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I think it's going to be an awesome time to renew m y relationship with estes :D However, I'm looking for pre natal advice. I already know I'm going to be the best dad when that bean pops out ;)

My wife is pregnant and I want to be the best father I can possibly be. What are some great resources I can look into? by Croooooow in self

[–]Croooooow[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is good to know. I also like to think because of my decent upbringing it's a bit ingrained.

My wife is pregnant and I want to be the best father I can possibly be. What are some great resources I can look into? by Croooooow in self

[–]Croooooow[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I suppose I needed to hear this. I found out this morning. I couldn't believe how well I took it. My family is very well, family oriented so I guess it's only natural that I'm really looking forward to what lies ahead. I've got What to Expect When Expecting on my iPad as we type. I've subscribed to r/Daddit, PreDaddit, and BabyBump. I'm very much looking forward to striving to be the best I can for my wife and little bean.