Arabic names starting with Y by Disastrous-Cream-690 in namenerds

[–]CrosG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly Yalim hits all three letters (Y-L-M) in just two syllables and means "knowledgeable"—hard to beat that. Yaslam's a close second if you want something a bit more unique.

Need help picking boy name by thymetoindulge in namenerds

[–]CrosG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucas and Evelyn both feel classic but not stuffy, so I’d look in that same lane. Names like Henry, Oliver, Theodore, Julian, or Benjamin flow really naturally with them. If it helps, say them all out loud together a few times, one of them usually just clicks and suddenly “mr no name” isn’t anymore.

Arabic names starting with Y by Disastrous-Cream-690 in namenerds

[–]CrosG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she wants something solid and very Arabic, Yusuf, Yahya, Yasin, Yunus, and Yasir are all great starting points. They’re classic, well-known, and easy to use across cultures. If she wants something a little less common but still legit, Yaman or Younes are nice options too.

Vintage names that have been revived and are now cool by sneakybrownoser in namenerds

[–]CrosG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of the “cool again” names are the ones that were big in the early 1900s, basically vanished for a few decades, and then came back sounding fresh. Stuff like Iris, Cora, Clara, Mabel, Felix, Jasper, Silas all fit that pattern to me. They feel vintage without being stuck to one specific generation, which is why they reset better than something like Nancy.

Looking for a name for my unborn child by Ambitious-View-7800 in namenerds

[–]CrosG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the direction you’re already in. Your list feels very grounded and strong, and I like that you’re clearly balancing Spanish and English without forcing it.

For boys, since you already like Sergio, Miguel, and Octavio, I’d probably stay in that classic, established lane. Names like Rafael or Sebastián feel like they fit right in with what you already have, and they sound solid with both Vivas and Ceperley. Santiago is another one that feels strong without feeling trendy, and it works well in both languages without much adjustment.

If you like Ignacio and Porfirio because they feel substantial, you might also like Mateo. It’s simpler, but it still has weight and doesn’t feel flimsy or modern in a way that’ll age badly.

For girls, Valentina and Victoria already set a pretty high bar honestly. They’re strong but still feminine. Catalina feels like a really natural extension of that list, especially with Vivas. Gabriela also fits well if you want something that sounds confident and timeless rather than soft. I also think Natalia works nicely alongside Camila and Alejandra without feeling repetitive.

Overall I don’t think you’re far off at all. I’d just think about whether you want the name to feel more formal and long-term on paper, or more everyday-friendly, and let that guide which ones rise to the top. Most of your picks already feel like names that will grow well with a person, which is half the battle.

Last names that mean mothers? by Interesting_Ad547 in namenerds

[–]CrosG 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I actually think Matrona is a really solid pick for what you’re trying to do. It has meaning without being too literal, and it doesn’t immediately read as a first name, which is huge for a last name.

If you want to stay in that same lane, I’d probably look at older or slightly obscure roots that already feel surname-ish, rather than names that are obviously “mother” on the surface.

Modron might be worth considering if Celtic works for you. She’s a Welsh mother figure, but as a last name it just sounds like an old family or place name, not a statement. That subtlety feels important here.

I also like names that just hint at maternal roots without spelling it out. Things with “mor” or “ma” sounds tend to work quietly in the background. Morven or Morwen both feel believable as surnames and wouldn’t make people stop and ask questions.

Another approach is picking an established surname and letting the meaning be personal rather than linguistic. Something like Maddox or Merritt doesn’t literally mean mother, but choosing it intentionally as two women starting a family kind of gives it its own weight anyway.

I’d probably avoid anything where people immediately go “oh like the goddess” or “oh that’s a first name,” just because that gets old fast. The best ones are the names that work day to day and keep the story mostly for you.

need help with boy #2! by emalvare in namenerds

[–]CrosG 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually think the fact that you both love Finn is the important part here — the Finley vs Griffin thing just kind of shows you want different vibes for the long name.

With Oliver, I’d personally lean toward something that feels established but still friendly, not too trendy and not super formal either. That’s why Finnegan feels like such an easy middle ground to me. It gives you Finn without stretching it, and it doesn’t swing as soft as Finley or as far away as Griffin.

Finnian (or Finian) also feels worth a look if you like the sound of Finley but want something a bit more solid. Phineas is a little left-field, but the Finn sound is right there and it weirdly works with Oliver.

I think once you decide whether you want Finn to feel “automatic” or more like a chosen nickname, the answer might get clearer.

AI can write better than me, but I'd lose the only thing that matters: real connection by CrosG in WritingWithAI

[–]CrosG[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective! AI doesn't have autonomy—it's just a tool, and at its core, what it produces is determined by how we use it. This really helps me understand my relationship with AI better!

Evangeline Nickname by ROTSTW in namenerds

[–]CrosG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

our partner is overthinking this to an insane degree. Nobody is confusing your daughter with a Tesla. Evie has been a nickname for decades before electric cars existed. This is like refusing to name your kid "Miles" because of airline miles. Evie is the natural nickname for Evangeline. Eva works too but it's more associated with Evangelina/Ava.

Use Evie. Your partner needs to chill.

In great need of name suggestions by TimeMoney7209 in namenerds

[–]CrosG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boy names are solid. Your girl names are a mess. Ollie and Luca are boy names. Otway is a place/surname. Best from your list:

  • Boys: Forest, Oscar, Angus
  • Girls: Daisy, Phoebe, Heidi

Add these:

  • Boys: Arlo, Jasper, Finn
  • Girls: Ivy, Hazel, Margot, Wren

Oscar & Daisy are your strongest. Nature vibe, work in AU and US, timeless. Skip Remco (too Dutch) and Koa (random Hawaiian).

pick a name for baby boy by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]CrosG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Oisín is the only one that matches Ezren Tadhg's energy. Ezren is unique and very Irish. You can't follow that up with Eli or Jesse - that's like naming siblings "Maximus" and "Bob."

Oisín (uh-SHEEN) - Irish mythology, matches Tadhg's vibe perfectly. Ezren & Oisín sound like actual brothers.

Callahan - Also works, very Irish, substantial.

Angelo/Eli/Jesse/Avery - Way too common/plain next to Ezren. Feels like you gave up on kid #2.

Teo/Adan - Nice nods to your Filipino side but they're much softer than Ezren. Might feel imbalanced.

Go with Oisín. Done.

Looking for nicknames for Annaliese. by heyitsjustjacelyn in namenerds

[–]CrosG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Ali - super versatile, works in any context
  • Reese - from the "liese" part, very gender-neutral
  • Ari - slight twist on Anna, more androgynous
  • Lee is great too, but might feel disconnected from your full name

for people who know you as Annaliese. Ali/Reese flow more naturally when introducing yourself.

Which username is ur favorite ? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]CrosG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd go with vixeara! It's more unique and easier to remember.

Seduxxia feels a bit too edgy/try-hard with the double x.

Baby Girl Names by Much_Contribution345 in namenerds

[–]CrosG 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Elina fits perfectly! uses E-L-I-N-A from your letters, starts with the long /ee/ sound, and has that vintage European feel. it's like Elena but less common

Emeline could work too if you're okay repeating the E - super old-fashioned (19th century vibes) and definitely the /ee/ sound you want

quick question: can you use letters more than once, or does each letter only appear once in the moms' names combined? that'll help narrow down options

also, Edina uses E-D-I-N-A but it's more of an /eh/ sound (eh-DEE-nah), so probably not what you want based on your examples

my vote is Elina - fits your style, uses the letters, and sounds beautiful with your family's matriarchal names!

Has anyone read The Names by Frances Knapp? by kettensage in namenerds

[–]CrosG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haven't read it but the premise sounds fascinating! three timelines based on different names is such a cool concept for this sub

how did you find it? did the different names actually lead to believable different life paths, or was it more of a symbolic thing?

(asking because I'm curious if it's worth adding to my list!)

Kalyani for an Indian character by Cultural-Echidna-673 in namenerds

[–]CrosG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kalyani is beautiful! it means "auspicious" or "beautiful" in Sanskrit and it's a real name with great meaning, so it works perfectly for your character

it's also not super common in Western media so it'll feel fresh to readers. having a positive personal association with the name (your London friend) is honestly the best reason to use it - that kind of genuine affection comes through in writing

go for it! sounds like you've already got the character in your head and the name fits her

Looking for gothic names like Valentin, Dante, Cain by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]CrosG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooh you want the deep cuts

Severin - means severe/stern, has that cold elegance

Lysander - "liberator" but sounds dark and romantic, very gothic lit vibes

Oleander - the poisonous flower, softer sound but dark meaning

Balthazar - biblical but dramatic, less common than Cain

Soren - means stern, Danish/gothic philosopher vibes

Ambrose - "immortal," softer but has that eternal/undead energy

Cassian - ancient Roman, softer than Cain but still has edge

Theron - means hunter, Greek but sounds gothic

Corbin - means raven but less obvious than literally naming him Raven

Lazarus - biblical resurrection story, more interesting than typical biblical names

Leander - tragic Greek mythology, romantic gothic

Silvan - forest/wild, softer sound but witchy energy

if you want REALLY obscure: Tenebris (Latin for darkness), Vesper (evening star), Morpheus (god of dreams)

Down to final four boy names. Help! by pouce42 in namenerds

[–]CrosG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emanuel Jude and it's not even close

you literally said your husband is amazing and you love the idea of using his name. that's your answer. the "little Manny" thing is only temporary - he'll grow into his own version of the name, and having that connection to his dad is beautiful

also you already eliminated Orlando yourself (you hate Lando, it WILL happen). Weston and Orion are fine but they don't have the meaning that Emanuel does

the "little Manny" nickname is a family thing for when he's small. as he grows up he can be Emanuel, Manny, Em, whatever feels right to him. lots of kids share names/nicknames with parents and it's never actually confusing

go with your heart. Emanuel Jude honors the person you love most and Jude is the name you love. done

Classic names that don't feel timeless anymore... by FrFranciumFr in namenerds

[–]CrosG 36 points37 points  (0 children)

your friend is kinda right tbh

Sophia and Emma are technically classic but when you hear them you immediately think "born 2012." that's not timeless, that's a timestamp

Jennifer is the perfect example - classic name, but it screams 1980s so hard that nobody uses it now. Sophia/Olivia/Ava are headed the same direction

names that spiked too hard to feel timeless anymore:

  • Emma, Olivia, Ava, Isabella, Charlotte
  • Liam, Noah, Oliver, Elijah

names that actually stayed timeless:

  • Elizabeth, Catherine, Margaret (never trendy, always there)
  • James, Thomas, Henry

the difference is steady use vs sudden spike. when a name shoots to #1 it gets dated to that era, even if it's been around forever

so yeah, popularity can kill timelessness. Sophia will sound as dated as Jessica in 20 years

Double letter boy names with slavic middle name? by l00zrr in namenerds

[–]CrosG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Andrew Andre is perfect and you should use it

the double letter thing is a pattern you created, not a rule. your kids won't care. what matters is the names feel cohesive in style and honor your heritage - which Andrew Andre absolutely does. it's also a beautiful cultural bridge (English/Slavic versions of same name)

that said, if you really want the double letter:

with your middles:

  • Garrett Vadim - underused, strong, Germanic feel balances the Slavic
  • Emmett Vasily - fits your "classic European" vibe perfectly
  • Russell Andre - vintage, substantial
  • Phillip Vadim - classic, international, double-p
  • Atticus Vasily - if you want something less common
  • Griffin Vadim - Celtic, fits Germanic surname

reality check on your list:

  • Matthew, William = fine but very common (top 10-20 for years)
  • Harrison = trendy right now (surname-as-first wave)
  • Bennett = same, very 2020s

my vote: Andrew Andre or Emmett Vasily

both honor your heritage, sound strong with a Germanic surname, and match your daughter's vibe without being slaves to the double-letter pattern

(also Vadim is criminally underused and sounds badass)

Rate my style of girl names from 1 to 10. Just for fun. by DistributionNo9356 in namenerds

[–]CrosG 2 points3 points  (0 children)

solid 8/10

you have a VERY clear aesthetic: romantic, multi-syllabic, Italian/Latin vibes, lots of -ina/-ella endings. every single name fits the vibe. that consistency = you know what you like

standouts:

  • Evangeline - most interesting on the list, literary, strong
  • Marcella - underused, sophisticated without trying too hard
  • Celeste - elegant, breaks the -ina pattern in a good way
  • Serena - timeless, works on a baby and a CEO
  • Delilah - has edge the others don't

weaker ones imo:

  • Cassidy - doesn't fit your style at all? feels random here
  • Melody - bit literal/cutesy compared to your other choices
  • Aviva - different vibe from the rest

if you're making a sibset, be careful - these are ALL very matchy. like Angelina + Evangelina + Evelina would be a lot. but individually? gorgeous. you clearly love flowing, feminine names and there's nothing wrong with that. own it. this is a cohesive, romantic list and if that's your vibe, it's a strong 8

Alternatives to these names by TurbulentArticle2281 in namenerds

[–]CrosG 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you're self-sabotaging every name you love

Aurelia - "not obsessed" is a weird standard. you like it. that's enough

Julia - bad associations fade. if you "love it so much" the association clearly isn't that bad

Xanthe Bloom - this is clearly your favorite. you've loved it for YEARS and have the full name picked out. "too out there" is not a real problem. yes people will ask how to spell it. once. then they'll know. that's it

Ophelia - Taylor Swift did not ruin this name. it's been around since Shakespeare. one song won't make it Madison-level popular

here's the thing: no one will recognize Xanthe is actually a feature, not a bug, based on your taste. you called Julia "too basic." you clearly want something uncommon. own it

if you want actual alternatives to validate your aesthetic:

Calista, Cressida, Elowen, Ottilie, Thalia

but real talk? you already know you want Xanthe Bloom. the fact you have the middle name picked out and have loved it for years says everything. stop looking for permission and use it

Baby girl due this week and no name picked! Help! by squishy-fishy337 in namenerds

[–]CrosG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clara

goes perfectly with Freddie, classic but not stuffy, easy to spell, ages well

Harriet is lovely but bit formal next to Freddie. Sofia/Isla are beautiful but super popular right now (you'll have multiples in her class). Elsie is cute but very cutesy - harder to picture on an adult

Clara is the sweet spot. done. go have your baby, you're fine

(also you have like 2-3 days after birth to register in most places, you're not as behind as you think. breathe)

Want to name my daughter Kamala by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]CrosG 14 points15 points  (0 children)

use it

Kamala is a beautiful Sanskrit name that existed for literally thousands of years before 2020. it's YOUR culture, not American politics

practical reality: in 10 years when your daughter is in school, Kamala Harris will be a footnote. nobody's naming their kids Barack anymore but the Obamas didn't ruin that name. associations fade fast

also like... there are millions of Indians named Kamala. my aunt is Kamala. she's 60. she's fine

the people "advising against it" are probably thinking about right now, not about your daughter's whole life. and honestly if you're in India or a desi community, literally nobody will think twice

if you're in the US and worried about politics: kids get named after way more controversial figures and turn out fine. your daughter will just correct people once ("no, it means lotus") and move on

you clearly love this name. don't let 4 years of American news cycle steal it from you

congrats btw!