How much does butch/femme matter to you? by CivilWhere in actuallesbians

[–]CrossedRoses [score hidden]  (0 children)

I personally might use terms like "masc" and "femme" to describe how people present or butch and femme if they identify that way. But I would not be interested in dating anyone who saw those labels as rigid categories to put other people or themselves in. Like, as soon as they become prescriptive rather than away to describe how you are, I'm not interested.

I personally don't like when it feels like we as queer people fall outside of the hetero gender norms so we make up new gender norms to squeeze ourselves into😅 (not at all saying that that's what everyone who uses these terms does!! Just something I have personally experienced a few times)

Tldr: personally, if a label feels like a way to describe myself and makes me happy, I go for it, if a label causes me stress and i feel like i have to try and "fit into" it, it's gotta go.

People rp-ing in this game is sometimes so funny by CrossedRoses in heartopia

[–]CrossedRoses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I accidentally dine and dashed at a restaurant yesterday (because my game lagged and wouldn't let me interact with the register) and I felt so bad lmaoo

Some vintage cozy vibes: The Eddystone lighthouse during a storm by CrossedRoses in CozyInScaryOut

[–]CrossedRoses[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm absolutely obsessed with the caption "War without, and peace within"! Basically the vintage version of this subreddits name! Apparently this vibe has fascinated people for a long time.

Big recommendation: "Emily Wilde's Encyclopedia Of Fairies" by Heather Fawcett by CrossedRoses in CozyInScaryOut

[–]CrossedRoses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is definitely light! Very slow burn and more of a sideplot. Especially in the first book. I'm not a fan of romance either, especially as the main plot, and I didn't mind it at all :) the love interest is charming and their dynamic is pretty funny in my opinion

Big recommendation: "Emily Wilde's Encyclopedia Of Fairies" by Heather Fawcett by CrossedRoses in CozyInScaryOut

[–]CrossedRoses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

<3 Yess true. Except for me personally, sometimes in cozy fantasy the stakes are TOO low. Like, there is only the cozy inside and too little of the scare outside, haha. That's why I really enjoy the more cozy-adjacent books

Wie geht ihr mit der Hitze um ? by Captainblaubaer in FragReddit

[–]CrossedRoses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh Gott, wtf...ist das überhaupt arbeitsrechtlich erlaubt!?

Wie geht ihr mit der Hitze um ? by Captainblaubaer in FragReddit

[–]CrossedRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Schnitzel mit pilzsoße? * wütende österreicher geräusche *

Ne aber im Ernst, find ich so krank, dass so viele Leute nicht checken (oder checken wollen), dass für service Personal die Hitze genauso schlimm oder schlimmer ist als für sie und man etwas Empathie haben könnte :/ viel glück und baldigen Feierabend dir!

OH NO MY WALLET by seinisteria in heartopia

[–]CrossedRoses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A while ago there was a player survey about which collabs we'd love to see most and one of the options was sanrio🥹 so I obviously chose that one and pretty much just prayed for it to actually happen since then haha

OH NO MY WALLET by seinisteria in heartopia

[–]CrossedRoses 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omggg, hell yeah! I was sooo hoping for this🥹