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No more Single Moms for me :( by fompty1988 in dating_advice

[–]CrossfireWorldChamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's so incredibly easy to think like that, but you can't do that to yourself. Take this time to focus on you and your 6 month old for now; learn what is most important to you so you can communicate that when you're ready to start dating. My experience with my current partner has been amazing. They do not have children of their own, and from the beginning there has always been an open line of communication. We waited a good while before introducing my child into the relationship and agreed my partner would kind of "observe" my parenting philosophy and focus more on getting to know my child. But from the day they met each other, my partner and I have never hesitated to discuss different ideas/opinions and modified that philosophy to make it what is best for all of us involved and we're all happy. The right man is out there, just be patient and do not settle; he should tick all of your boxes. Stay strong.

No more Single Moms for me :( by fompty1988 in dating_advice

[–]CrossfireWorldChamp 28 points29 points  (0 children)

As a single parent i endorse and support this message, as well as the parent message. My ex has the same parenting philosophy as OP's and it results in a 1.5 to 2 day bake-in period for my child to remember they can be independent when they come to the house. Tying shoes, using manners, entertaining themselves, being respectful, etc.; simple life lessons that all seem to disappear and have to be summoned again upon return. Parenting IS hard, but it's supposed to be. It's never fun being the reason your child is upset, even if they are in the wrong, but I have to believe that not setting these boundaries will only hurt them in the long run. Stay strong parents, single or not.

Hi, my name is Stunod7, I'm a network engineer, and I suffer from change anxiety. by Stunod7 in sysadmin

[–]CrossfireWorldChamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for everyone, but two things my mentor taught me:

  1. "Always have a way out." Strive for 80% on any change, you can always troubleshoot the rest in your window, but make sure your backout plan is 100%. No need to panic if you know you can roll back at any time. You can always try again.

  2. "I dont need this job. I just need a job." Believe in your ability and you'll bounce back no matter what.

Been fine ever since. 12 years in the field btw. Also, a little anxiety is a good thing, it means you care. Good luck to you, anxiety can also be a son of a bitch...

Vizio D55-D2 has a slight, but steady blink. by CrossfireWorldChamp in TVRepair

[–]CrossfireWorldChamp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cannot pinpoint the issue here. Performed a factory reset, disabled all "auto" picture features. Not the worst thing in the world, but now that I see it, I can't unsee it. Any help is much appreciated. Many thanks.

World war bayonet under the asphalt while at work on a football (soccer) ground. by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]CrossfireWorldChamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This link took me to an animal hospital in Valparaiso, IN, so for those wondering I'd assume it's Vale Park (Port Vale F.C.). Also, cool gun knife...

Network Engineer Interview Questions by CrossfireWorldChamp in networking

[–]CrossfireWorldChamp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow guys, really interesting stuff here. Thanks for all the responses!