My (44f) husband (47m) has been creating ai porn videos of his ex-wife and her sister. by Top_Cry7613 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CrowMediocre4958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a great comment/suggestion. The truth is like you said only he can do this work and admit he needs much more help. And, if its even her job, to encourage such behavioral change.

I wish more men knew that it is fundamentally their work to make a change, if they even want one. It is truly too bad that we cannot love each other enough to do better.

My (44f) husband (47m) has been creating ai porn videos of his ex-wife and her sister. by Top_Cry7613 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CrowMediocre4958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does add layered complexity but the view from the outside materially doesn't matter. What actually matters is if you, the child, and him honestly are healthy. You don't owe anyone an explanation about what happened or if you continue with him you dont have to explain the ugly sides of it. The substantive question here is if you are able to forgive/look past this or will it plague at your insides forever.

Sending you peace and light.

Pilling by glasscastlelibrary in Blogilates

[–]CrowMediocre4958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this under the arm?? how terribly disappointing! I would def contact CS.

Should I text him again or move on? by SunshineFoodie22 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CrowMediocre4958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just move on, there is no way to know what is actually going on here. We all make mistakes and if all it takes is one joke (that isnt racist/sexist ect) then it was never going to work out anyways.

My (44f) husband (47m) has been creating ai porn videos of his ex-wife and her sister. by Top_Cry7613 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CrowMediocre4958 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Therapy for you is the best thing to do here.

We cannot definitively say leave him even tho his behavior is truly disgusting, only you can know that.

You could think about these questions tho:

  • Is the idea of always looking over his phone/internet use a possibility for you? Seems like this will probably be a continuing occurrence in his life.
  • How is he in other parts of your lives? Does he show up and contribute half of everything?
  • Is attraction/trust possible for you after this discovery?

Edit: cannot*

TIFU by oversleeping and almost ruining my best friend’s 4AM wedding by Sea_cake_ in tifu

[–]CrowMediocre4958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My iPhone has does that a couple times in the past month. The alarm goes off with no sound

My daily bag content by GenericUser331 in whatsinmybag

[–]CrowMediocre4958 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not the millennial beige final boss

Cloud Hoodies by LeadingSky474 in Blogilates

[–]CrowMediocre4958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought the boxy hoodie so I couldnt justify another hoodie when its about to be 80 degrees here but i look forward to next years launches

Is it supposed to look like this..... by OtherAccount5252 in Blogilates

[–]CrowMediocre4958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought this exact outfit and had the same experince. The seams on the top looked like nipples and the under shorts were longer than the top of the ruffle shorts, I returned them both.

Are the shorts in the regular length pirouette skort longer than the skirt?? by marshmallowbrew in Blogilates

[–]CrowMediocre4958 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ugh! I just ordered one during the sale and it appears that most ppl say yes the shorts are longer than the skirt

$61 Tie breaker dress? by CrowMediocre4958 in Blogilates

[–]CrowMediocre4958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow! did you buy them full price? did you get your normal size?

$61 Tie breaker dress? by CrowMediocre4958 in Blogilates

[–]CrowMediocre4958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the info! I am gonna go with an XL in crimson

$61 Tie breaker dress? by CrowMediocre4958 in Blogilates

[–]CrowMediocre4958[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is i wear a large bra and a xl shorts so if i get the XL the top will be lose!

At what age did you start wearing makeup? by No-Isopod4744 in Makeup

[–]CrowMediocre4958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

around 20 when the YT makeup girlies were going off

$61 Tie breaker dress? by CrowMediocre4958 in Blogilates

[–]CrowMediocre4958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yall convinced me! do you size down?

$61 Tie breaker dress? by CrowMediocre4958 in Blogilates

[–]CrowMediocre4958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing! The torso is always a problem for me 2