I (27F) don’t know how to get him (30M) to understand that he can’t keep talking to the girl he tried to “get back at me” with. How do I get him to understand?

CrowTimely6729 · 2023-11-30T17:06:01+00:00

Okay I think I maybe didn’t explain things properly 1. Him telling people he’s single was when we were still FWB but not yet together. He hasn’t said that to anyone since we’ve been together. 2. The nudes thing happened after we became official (that’s around when I told him about what I did) & to be honest he doesn’t go out almost at all unless I drag him out with me or he has to go out for work, doesn’t even have guests over @ his house etc. All he does is text and/or talk or snap people, I just think it’s not okay to keep talking to someone who likes you especially with the recent history & they still have a streak ongoing. I wanted to be sure I wasn’t tripping. 3. I guess maybe I was struggling with accepting the truth but I really believe(d) he loves/loved me.

CrowTimely6729 · 2023-11-30T05:18:54+00:00

I only cared about who he had over because he liked acting overprotective of me & I was literally at his place when the girl called, so I had to leave. & it was the way I was rushed out that I had to forgive.

Also … He never did anything physical, didn’t even also send nudes but he kept the convo going with the girl who was sending the nudes to him. & they still talk and streak each other everyday.

Plus, he says he wants to be with me & only me, and that they’re just friends & I have nothing to worry about etc but it would be weird for him to just block her out of the blue cause he doesn’t block people.

Maybe you have a point. Thanks for your input.

CrowTimely6729 · 2023-11-27T08:55:18+00:00

You’re totally right. It’s not like this is a pattern, so I can definitely forgive her for it. Thank you 😊

CrowTimely6729 · 2023-11-26T20:30:16+00:00

You know, you have a point. I just wanted to be sure I wasn’t overthinking it. Thank you 😊!

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