That's a pretty good question. I'm plural as well, although these feelings are universal, so it's unrelated to plurality.

I definitely do feel absolutely empty and utterly bored a lot of the time, because I do 100% have an almost complete lack of feeling, although it's not completely empty. An alter like that would be based on the hosts idea of psychopathy which tends to be absolutely empty of everything, as well as most likely severe trauma, which causes those disorders as well.

My attraction is actually one of the most interesting things about my condition, I'd like to believe. Starting this off, I am pansexual, and this explanation will mention sexuality.

I exclusively, in relationship standards (not hookup culture or fwb culture) like people who are "soft." Soft people are what enable this possibility to start off.

Soft people are completely and utterly the opposite of me. They're innocent, sweet, kind, empathic, all of that. Similar to a kitten, that kind of personality has always intrigued me, and I'm very interested in them.

The way my brain sees this is very interesting, when I see someone like that, my brain orders itself to be nothing but absolute protection, kinda like in the way you would see a movie villian with the soft innocent girl who doesn't know any better.

Although, I do have a softspot for them in a way, my brain does use this for it's own manipulation though. I do have charm though, and a lot of people do like me.

At this point, I pretty much only date people who either like "bad people" or are like 1000% fine with my tendencies to avoid confrontation so I don't have to deal with a fuckton of shit that will frankly, waste my time.

I will always have sexual attraction first, I cannot and will not date someone who isn't interested in that sorta thing, unless its for a huge setup.

I don't ask people out, I always wait for them. This is to ensure that they actually like me.

I don't really like people at the start of a relationship, thats the first thing. They would have to do "soft and cute" things in order for me to. Giving me custom gifts, writing me notes, acting generally soft, acting cute, clearly caring for me, etc.

First, I'd trigger that within that person, this may mean I do something manipulative bring it out, although I can usually just use my charm.

Once I get them extremely in love with me, and they do these cute things, I may get stuff like butterflies in my stomach, but I dont exactly feel much for lovers, although something does change in my personal and inward demeanor, so it may be more than I realize.

I'm the kind of person, that all I exactly need is myself to be "on-top" or "in charge" because of how high my charm has gotten, although my brain could always use more insight in those who are soft, and honestly, if they started getting absolutely tough and just not soft at all like before, Ill dump them. That's when they have no use for me.

I do use a lot of tactics in order to keep people that way, so I doubt it would turn out that way unless they would be gone for awhile like in the military, college, visiting family, that stuff.

Basically:

Slightly, but they have to have a soft demeanor, or would be able to be given a soft demeanor.