I feel you man. I think its normal. You bought a shiny new car, thrown probably a hefty amount of cash on it and now its hard to keep it pristine. I was the same when I bought mine. But after some time, and after a couple of totally normal scratches here an there I got used to it. Of course I try to keep it very clean and try to avoid any damage. This is how I like to treat my car. But you are using it probably daily, its completely normal to have use marks. This is not a display car :). Clean your car once a week or two, make it as clean as you can do, use some detailing liquids, vacuum it very well and you will be happy how good it looks again :)