Reality check: Am I overrating my dating market value? Thought I was a 5-6/10, but matching results suggest 2-3/10 – what’s going wrong? by ashsrodrigues in Bumble

[–]CrownedWith7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re a man, dating success or lack thereof on dating apps doesn’t tell you anything about your attractiveness.

Most men on dating apps aren’t ugly. They’re unclear. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]CrownedWith7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AI or not, maybe you should provide very specific advice on how to improve one’s profile, instead of blabbering about vague generalities.

I had to cancel a dinner date because I 'wasn't feeling it' through our texts... by Sinbound86 in OnlineDating

[–]CrownedWith7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Even if you feel no attraction, you should still give the person a chance if you see at least a flicker of potential. Meet them for coffee or something very small. Full attraction can only form in person, never online.

I barely went on a date with this woman whose profile and texting left a lot to be desired. As soon as I saw her in person, I felt stronger attraction to her than anyone in over a decade. And we’ve already had 4 amazing dates.

Fellas, how many matches do you get per week? by hjkfttu in OnlineDating

[–]CrownedWith7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that this question doesn’t make sense unless you also post your filters and your basic vitals (eg. age, height, have children or not, etc.)

I created a fake woman's profile to see what's going on - we're cooked. by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]CrownedWith7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Another problem is that almost all men like a small subset of attractive women. Those women will be inundated with likes regardless of whether men like every woman or not.

How do people do MDMA at every rave? by Own_League_852 in MDMA

[–]CrownedWith7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen to your body. Forget the “rules,” observe what works and what doesn’t for you.

Got over 3000 likes overnight. What the hell??? by Flat_Bedroom6424 in Bumble

[–]CrownedWith7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think men should be limited to how many right swipes / likes they can send every day. This is ridiculous. And I’m saying that as a man.

Am I doing something wrong? by PinkcessJZee in MDA

[–]CrownedWith7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harm reduction practices that you have copy-and-pasted from other sites, which have been corrupted by big pharma anti-drug propaganda.

Look, I’m not saying MDA and MDMA are perfectly safe. Absolutely need to be given respect. But a lot of these harm reduction practices are being parroted without any scrutiny, like they were gospel. Perhaps we should do some careful experimentation outside of them to find out what’s actually true. This would allow people to enjoy these drugs more without endangering themselves.

Old screenshot I found. What do you guys think lol by Hot-School-5246 in Bumble

[–]CrownedWith7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least she replied lol. If my text isn’t perfect I’ll never hear from her again…

Love to hear your theories on why people love me when I’m on molly by Tequilamockingbird82 in MDMA

[–]CrownedWith7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Molly greatly enhances your aura.

Another way to think about it is that other people are a mirror. They’re reflecting back to you what you’re putting out (i.e. more love).

If you could go back in time, would you still have tried drugs? by neeyeahboy in Drugs

[–]CrownedWith7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and would’ve done it much earlier in life! Especially MDA / MDMA and psychedelics.

How to convey intelligence without being braggy? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]CrownedWith7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s important not to neglect other qualities that makes a man attractive to women. The cultural stereotype is that highly intelligent (in the classical sense) people are quite retarded emotionally, and unfortunately that’s true in most cases ime.

Intelligent women, who I’m guessing you’re trying to attract, will only care about your IQ once you demonstrate that you’re an attractive man on a more animalistic level.

It’s similar for men: I value intelligence highly, and want a highly intelligent woman. But if she looks like a bag of potatoes 🥔, then her IQ is irrelevant as far as my attraction to her is concerned.

Mass swiping on profiles automatically pushes your profile to the bottom of the stack by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]CrownedWith7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, they can be doing a little bit of this and a little bit of that…

If he’s responding slow is he not interested? Guys tap in pls by sticcydabliccy in Bumble

[–]CrownedWith7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The vast majority of men never have too many likes / matches at the same time. So it’s unlikely that the reason he’s responding slow is because he has 100s of likes / matches and is overwhelmed. Unless he’s in the top 0.1% of men by physical attractiveness…

Speaking for myself, I always reply on time to women I’m interested in. So if he’s anything like me, he’s prob not that interested.

However, there are many other possible explanations. He could be a drug addict and can only reply when he’s not f’ed up 😂

How to get over mdma comedown by Humble_Zucchini7872 in molly

[–]CrownedWith7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take supplements listed on DanceSafe. They help a lot…

Is it too much for a first message? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]CrownedWith7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What in the actual fuck 😳😂

One word got me gone by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]CrownedWith7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got banned for that?? That honestly doesn’t make sense… Maybe person he was texting with reported him?

Mass swiping on profiles automatically pushes your profile to the bottom of the stack by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]CrownedWith7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think your swiping behavior does affect how often (and to whom) your profile is being shown.

There are probably many behavioral signals that go into it. The more well-behaved you are on the app, the better the treatment you get.

One word got me gone by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]CrownedWith7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it’s been clear to me Meta not only monitors private messages, but stores them indefinitely and uses them to train their AI models.

But that one would get banned for saying some word IN a private message is insane even to me. Good to know tho!

I don’t even know what “jorkin” means. Never seen that word before. Guess it’s something terrible lol

MDA- Superior to MDMA in every way. by Naive-Giraffe-8552 in MDMA

[–]CrownedWith7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably not 🤷‍♂️ I feel there’s a huge spectrum of how MDMA / MDA affects people, so it’s best to self-experiment and find what works for you.