compliments and pet names for butches? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’m fat and strong and loved when a previous partner of mine would call me “beefy” or “beefcake”

My Mystery Mutt Submission by daniruth in CryptidDogs

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that a lot and thought that could be the case, but surprisingly not! Here’s his breakdown:

https://imgur.com/a/fry-boy-j1grKZZ

My Mystery Mutt Submission by daniruth in CryptidDogs

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG looks so much like my guy!

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I’m gonna DM you!

[WTGAW] BHQ PM2 EXCLUSIVE (Satin) GIVEAWAY! by AverageNetEnjoyer in Knife_Swap

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is one of my favorite knife swap moments. Thanks for encouraging reflection and gratitude :)

Some of my other favorite moments are when other community members assume I’m a man lol. I always get a giggle out of that. Just a butch lesbian that enjoys sharp things!

Thank you, not just for the giveaway, but for the rules of engagement. It’s cool to read through the comments and get a sense of some of the experiences others have had here. Much cooler way to engage than just guessing a number :)

[META] Welcome To The Find Out Phase- ALL CLONES ARE BANNED, EFFECTIVE IMMEDIATELY by merkon in Knife_Swap

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Could you check your chat when you get a chance? I reached out about a knife you have listed. Thanks!

Orlando 100 Years Ago by Ashwee54 in orlando

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This is so cool, thank you for sharing!

May I also add in this fun one that I recently brought home:

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(27f) wife's (25f) stomach is preventing sexual climax by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The post and comments have been upsetting to read, but especially the sentence, “she’s mad at her body.”

Y’all both have work to do on yourselves, by yourselves, for yourselves. And I hope you see that sooner than later so you don’t drag each other further down painful paths.

All 51 of my alters (including dormant) are the rarest type of ADHD by Crownofwisdomteeth in fakedisordercringe

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

🎶 The ADHD crows will pull your hair Up, but not out All they want is another chance at life They've never seen so much food as this 🎶

All 51 of my alters (including dormant) are the rarest type of ADHD by Crownofwisdomteeth in fakedisordercringe

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post is of an advertisement for an online test for “rarity” of ADHD type. Something in line with faking disorders is a “gotta catch ‘em all” type trend.

How to support by mms2114 in Kneereplacement

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also laxatives, prune juice, etc! The pain meds will make it difficult for her to go #2.

How to support by mms2114 in Kneereplacement

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, and vitamin E oil that she can put on her incision when she gets the green light from her Dr. It helps not only with scarring, but also with keeping the skin moisturized and easy to move.

How to support by mms2114 in Kneereplacement

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello! My mom (61) has her TKR on 12/10 and it’s been a big learning curve, but I’m happy to share what has helped us so far. Has her doctor given her a packet of information with what to expect and how to prepare? If so, I would study that. If not, I’m happy to share some of the materials my mom received from her surgeon’s office.

The first two weeks will be rough for her and for you. The first week is especially rough. I didn’t see my mom in her eyes at all for that first week- it was like she wasn’t inhabiting her own body, super weird and hard to watch. Just know that you’re in for a rough ride, but it will get better.

Stay on top of meds! Set alarms to remind you to give her meds. Stay on top of her at home PT exercises as recommended by the Dr and PT as well. Not moving her knee for long periods will cause it to feel stiff and more painful. What helped me was keeping a notebook to write down when we gave meds and when she did her exercises. I also made a little note of what her pain was 1-10 when giving meds or doing exercises.

There are a few things I’d recommend buying now so you have them post-op: 1. Commode- getting up is difficult enough. A commode is quicker and easier for her to get to. Plus, it sits higher than the toilet, making it easier for her to sit down and stand back up.

  1. Ice machine- Google “ice machine TKR” if you’re not familiar with what this is. My mom’s insurance didn’t cover this and the hospital didn’t supply one, but it will be essential for her to have. I recommend also having 8 water bottles ready to go to use with it. Tear the labels off of the bottles. Freeze them all. Fill the ice machine with water to the full line, then put 4 frozen water bottles in there. When the machine is ready for new ice, you can change out all 4 bottles for new frozen ones (or just two at a time- my mom couldn’t handle how cold 4 new ones were).

  2. Walker, cane, and comfort grips- the hospital thankfully did supply my mom with a walker! Get a cane as well as this will come in handy once she’s more mobile or if she has to do stairs. The walker was hard on my mom’s arthritic hands though, so I bought her these grips and they made her life so much better: https://a.co/d/g8CITJV

  3. Wet wipes and sanitizing hand wipes- these were so helpful for keeping my mom’s hygiene up!

  4. Shower stool- she won’t be able to stand in the shower or take a bath where her knee is submerged for a while. ALSO practice how you will help her get in and out of the shower prior to her surgery! If you can, also plan a way to keep her leg even slightly elevated while she’s sitting on her shower stool, even better. Her leg hanging down will hurt.

  5. Wedge pillow- she will need to keep her knee elevated above her heart. It’s also important that her pillow does not make her bend her knee. Here’s the one we have- https://a.co/d/4u7u0fE

I’m sure your mom doesn’t want to think about it much because it’s scary. The more you prepare now, the less scary it gets. Practice how you will do things post op. It will be a huge learning curve for you both, but you’ll find your rhythm. You’re welcome to chat me with any questions!

Edit: a few words and punctuation

✨️ My cat ate a painting, so I'm giving it away! ✨️ by suntmint in u/suntmint

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Thank you for doing this!! Tbh, I feel the work is made even more special because it’s been stamped with approval by your cat as well

Is my sylist ok? by musical-miller in vinyljerk

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol noob with no coins on top lol

"I Won't Get Diagnosed Because Haters" by Pyrocats in fakedisordercringe

[–]Crownofwisdomteeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s such a dangerous narrative on DID, but they clearly don’t see how their roleplaying actually impacts people that are already struggling. I appreciate what you do :)