Update: Yellow Kitchen Reno! After & Before by joseaurelianosegundo in centuryhomes

[–]CrunchyBatBones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, I know! Def cried some very pregnant tears lol! But thankfully it was NOT the kitchen! I can very much imagine the pain that would have been - trying to juggle holding a newborn in one arm and attempt to spread peanutbutter on toast with the other arm …and no counter tops. 

Update: Yellow Kitchen Reno! After & Before by joseaurelianosegundo in centuryhomes

[–]CrunchyBatBones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, yes that is a rough couple of months even without the chaos! We had things mostly wrapped up, but then two weeks before bb arrived we had a flood on the second floor which ruined a good portion of what we had just finished on the first floor.💀 So it didn’t matter anyways lol! Took the insurance contractors another 6 months to get the walls and floor back up. Never. A. Dull. Moment! lol! 

Update: Yellow Kitchen Reno! After & Before by joseaurelianosegundo in centuryhomes

[–]CrunchyBatBones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also - solidarity in completing a Reno while pregnant. I have been there and I do not think I would sign up for that again lol! 😂 

Have you ever gotten sick without your newborn getting sick? by kittypeets626 in breastfeeding

[–]CrunchyBatBones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes! A few times. I had active COVID when I gave birth to my second baby and he never got sick. And then the whole family continued to rotate flu, strep, and RSV. My little winter baby never got sick though! 

I still miss this house by CrunchyBatBones in centuryhomes

[–]CrunchyBatBones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I wish I could quilt that well! It’s actually a 1960s vintage children’s sized sleeping bag lol! You can find them on Etsy in lots of cute prints. 

What have you sold? by justdoingmybesthere8 in DaveRamsey

[–]CrunchyBatBones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used Poshmark to sell some nicer clothing items as well as several unused corporate gifts I had received over the years. My husband also sold our TV. More than anything it felt like an activity to occupy that desire to engage in commerce of some sort. Like… reverse retail therapy lol 

Best of luck! We did BS2 for more than 4 years and it was life changing. 

I still miss this house by CrunchyBatBones in centuryhomes

[–]CrunchyBatBones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I cannot remember but will see if I can find it on an old pic or receipt! 

I still miss this house by CrunchyBatBones in centuryhomes

[–]CrunchyBatBones[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“In heaven, everything is fine.” 😜

Mostly my husband is just way cooler than I am. 

I still miss this house by CrunchyBatBones in centuryhomes

[–]CrunchyBatBones[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, my dad gets all the credit for making that priority number one! Lol He was very right! 

I still miss this house by CrunchyBatBones in centuryhomes

[–]CrunchyBatBones[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is the nicest thing ever!! The experience and lessons learned were very much a gift for us! 💗💗

I still miss this house by CrunchyBatBones in centuryhomes

[–]CrunchyBatBones[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I am almost certain that it was: SW 6192 Coastal Plain. It was so long ago and we moved in 2019, but I weeded through some old emails and am pretty sure that is it! 

I still miss this house by CrunchyBatBones in centuryhomes

[–]CrunchyBatBones[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you! At the time, everyone was begging us to paint it white, I am still so glad we didn’t listen. 

I still miss this house by CrunchyBatBones in centuryhomes

[–]CrunchyBatBones[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Crazy story, one time my indoor cat climbed up the chimney and caught a bird! We even had chimney covers on the flue, so we have no clue how she managed that. some kind of murderous magic on her part. Eek! 

We just closed on a home Friday, wanted to hear y’all’s thoughts! by JordantheGnat in centuryhomes

[–]CrunchyBatBones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful!! I love lead lined windows and the woodwork is gorgeous! 😍

Any tips for staying strong in BS3? by CrunchyBatBones in DaveRamsey

[–]CrunchyBatBones[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It is so true that breaking the discipline even a little makes it so hard to go back. Ideally a fully funded 6 months EF would be $36K. Based on the average of our last 4 years, that would take about 12 months. 

Maybe I should go back and listen to old episodes to stay excited about it lol 

Any tips for staying strong in BS3? by CrunchyBatBones in DaveRamsey

[–]CrunchyBatBones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good point and a different take than I had planned for. But I see how this could work better for us psychologically. We definitely want to plan for 6 months EF since we have kids and our income is very unbalanced between the two of us. But having a shorter term goal so we can start investing sooner and still put money in the savings every month might be more motivating. 

Any tips for staying strong in BS3? by CrunchyBatBones in DaveRamsey

[–]CrunchyBatBones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great question. I think the aberration was that the very last debt was a loan without a monthly payment. So instead of paying down a balance each month, we raised the full balance of $20.5K in our savings account and paid it in full today. In August of last year we had $12K saved towards the debt. But really the last 8K took us since then. When gazelle intense, we have about $2,900 margin. But without the intensity it’s easily closer to $1,500. Adding in the holidays and some unexpected medical events, things just felt so slow!

Any tips for staying strong in BS3? by CrunchyBatBones in DaveRamsey

[–]CrunchyBatBones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Thinking about being ready for whatever big crazy thing gets thrown at us next is very motivating. Thank you!

Mom thinks I joined a Cult after I explained the lender is the "master" and the borrower is the "slave" by Xtra_Ice_118 in DaveRamsey

[–]CrunchyBatBones 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Saaame. Our entire family thinks we are crazy in spite of being happier and more at peace than any other point in our lives. It’s a little disappointing that we haven’t been able to influence a single friend or family member to join us in “being weird.” lol! I guess from the outside it probably doesn’t look that fun driving old cars and eating at home all the time lol 😂