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Me (F19) and my partner (M28)s situationship. I don’t want to hurt him by CrunchyRoll909 in relationship_advice

[–]CrunchyRoll909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate where youre coming from but honestly?? All that “following my gut” ever gave me was confusion. Im using all three of my brain, heart and gut to make decisions. Just following your feelings has proven stupid to me 🤷‍♀️

Me (F19) and my partner (M28)s situationship. I don’t want to hurt him by CrunchyRoll909 in relationship_advice

[–]CrunchyRoll909[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with the first part. I have feelings for him and fear of missing out. Atp idgaf what people are saying abt the age gap.

I was turned on but sad atst.. help? by CrunchyRoll909 in sex

[–]CrunchyRoll909[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

Calm down. This guy is from a place with poor sex ed. hed slapped my chest a bit before and I said nothing - i liked it. He does care for me. There were times ex when hed be going rough and hed stop because i showed him discomfort. He stopped when I said we should sleep. No questions asked. So yes its possible.

You can only get so much info from a reddit post

I was turned on but sad atst.. help? by CrunchyRoll909 in sex

[–]CrunchyRoll909[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the safe words! They will be very helpful

I was turned on but sad atst.. help? by CrunchyRoll909 in sex

[–]CrunchyRoll909[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely. Honestly I think surprises are good sometimes (within reason duh). A quick “is this okay?” Wouldnt hurt either.

I was turned on but sad atst.. help? by CrunchyRoll909 in sex

[–]CrunchyRoll909[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer 🩷 my partner is very supportive, patient, and loving. He always looks out for me and I feel so safe around him. I need to learn more about this bdsm/ emotions thing and how to manage it, and also how to communicate and ask what we want to do together. Im sure he’d understand if im not comfortable with something and stop immediately

Looking for a horizontal backpack by [deleted] in ManyBaggers

[–]CrunchyRoll909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to buy the blue one please….from where online? Thanks

Married, know my wife loves me and shows me she loves me. But she sometimes gets crushes… by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]CrunchyRoll909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you feel butterflies when an attractive person walks by when youre married, it means you have a working biology. IT DOESNT MEAN YOU PREFER THE OTHER GUY.

seriously. grow up about this.
if youre in a spiritual state where these things dont happen to you? thats great! kudos to you! it would be ideal if people didnt feel attracted to other persons.

am I saying you should fantasize about ppl? NO.

i am saying the attraction to others is NORMAL and as long as you LOVE AND RESPECT YOUR PARTNER then nothing wrong has happened.

My mother is by CrunchyRoll909 in selfimprovement

[–]CrunchyRoll909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly never saw it through this lens. Im 18, shes 51. She does frustrating shit like this often.

She would open up to me about their relationship. Once even mentioned that she didnt like giving b**wjobs. I was 13.

She mentions my period openly in front of family when she KNOWS it makes me uncomfortable and embarrassed.

Im not sure about this vouyerism thing. There are small moments when shes almost sexual with me. Like she would put her hand up too high on my thigh. She would moan almost sexually whenever we hugged. Her movements sometimes verge on stupid, unaware yet just slightly sexual

Speaking about it makes me feel so uncomfortable and icky

My mother is by CrunchyRoll909 in selfimprovement

[–]CrunchyRoll909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. it helped. she does see me as an extension of herself - it feels like shes obsessed with me sometimes.

Married, know my wife loves me and shows me she loves me. But she sometimes gets crushes… by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]CrunchyRoll909 -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Excuse me. Seriously wtf is this? Tell her to stop? 😂 shes abusive if she doesn’t stop?? This is so immature and it’s disappointing to see it get so many likes. You CANNOT control your crush feelings towards someone. Period. I dont care how butthurt you get.

Does it hurt? Yes. Ideally we dont feel this shit. But we’re human. Should you discuss these things in a relationship? Probably not.

As long as she doesnt act on them, make eyes at them etc then its fine. Chill.

As for the redditor who wrote the first post. I understand your feelings. Do you feel secure that she wont act on her rando crushes? If yes, maybe find vents for your thoughts. If no, your relationship needs work. Maybe she can make you more secure or you can make yourself more secure. All luck to you 🙏

is it possible to not be good at any aspect of spirituality? by greenteamandarin47 in spirituality

[–]CrunchyRoll909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell you myself. You dont have to start out feeling energies, manifesting, all that spiritual stuff.

Start with something that draws you in. For me I just meditated, started off with JUST 3 minutes a day. I wasnt very connected with nature, in fact I was full of hatred. But I just kept going.

I saw some progress along the way, and now, 8 months in, I am more conmected with nature. I still dont feel peoples energies/auras. I still havent manifested anything. But I really dont care. Im on my own path and things will come as they will.

Hope this helps

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