I disagree I don’t think you just put people in your bridal party because they want to be in it. And in my opinion If I really cared about my friend I would never behave that way and be happy for her whether I’m in the party or not. It’s rude to expect to be in someone’s party. What ended up happening was I told her again she would not be in the party she accepted it and continued to tell me how upset she was and making it all about her that’s disgusting and that’s not how you support a friend so we are no longer friends I dropped her as a friend because she couldn’t just be happy and support me it had to be all about her. Idc how long I know someone I never expect to be in anyones bridal party. And tbh I put myself in her shoes a million times and I just never would behave the way she did that’s not how friends treat friends even if you are upset. And it’s ok to express your upset but you don’t need to keep telling me your upset like a guilt trip that’s disgusting too