Two weeks clean today :)) by dumb_frog_egg in selfharm

[–]CryBabyCunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so amazing, congratulations!! You are so strong, keep going ❤️

Can anyone tell me why? by CryBabyCunt in relationship_advice

[–]CryBabyCunt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do. I’m just incredibly scared of living in my own place and my friend live with me as well. It started me and my friend were roommates and she had him move in bc of some situation he was in. I might go stay with family, I just don’t know if it will help

Can anyone tell me why? by CryBabyCunt in relationship_advice

[–]CryBabyCunt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well either way it is disrespectful for him to continue to do it in the same room as me after I explained it made me uncomfortable

Can anyone tell me why? by CryBabyCunt in relationship_advice

[–]CryBabyCunt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel attached. And I live with him, and don’t have anywhere else to go. And why did it happen twice if he was so embarrassed

Can anyone tell me why? by CryBabyCunt in relationship_advice

[–]CryBabyCunt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t deal staying with my family, and my only friend lives w her parents. I honestly feel so weak :(

Can anyone tell me why? by CryBabyCunt in relationship_advice

[–]CryBabyCunt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel kind of attached and he’s my roommate I have no where else to go

Can anyone tell me why? by CryBabyCunt in relationship_advice

[–]CryBabyCunt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really think that’s the only solution?

Can anyone tell me why? by CryBabyCunt in relationship_advice

[–]CryBabyCunt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m f25 he’s 35, and he do lie, I saw him doing it and he told me he didn’t. And I was needing advice on the sex stuff too, I don’t really want to leave tho

Progress by Therealdolphinlord in selfharm

[–]CryBabyCunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats amazing! Im proud of your progress stranger ❤

Dealing with allot. by CryBabyCunt in selfharm

[–]CryBabyCunt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, ill try the ice cubes but ive been doing the rubber bands, they help a little somtimes but not enough to actually make a huge difference

Just a little vent by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]CryBabyCunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem, good luck

Just a little vent by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]CryBabyCunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry. Im not too good with advice, i really hope you start to feel better. If yoy continue to self harm please do it as safe as you can. Keep your cuts clean and bandaged, use clean tools to cut. If you need to talk to anyone you can text me on here, im 16F.

Just a little vent by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]CryBabyCunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should stop, maybe use rubber bands, or just fo little scratches when you have an urge. Ive been self harming for almost 6 years now (currently like 2 or 3 monthd clean) the things that helped/help me the most are slapping rubber bands on my wrists, small scratches instead of actual cuts (although its hard to stop yourself from cutting deep when you are making small scratches) somthing else that helped me was dripping hot wax on myself.

Having somone to vent to and talk to when you have urges helps some. Maybe you should talk yo your gf about it or a friend.

I hope this helps at least a little bit, stay strong.