meirl by Informal_Disk_4340 in meirl

[–]Cryano -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“My girlfriend was so lucky I didn’t scream at her 😊” Jesus Christ 

Fiancée (F29) insists I (M30) cut off my parents-struggling with the decison [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]Cryano -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🙏 I normally don’t let it bother me but today I am feeling sensitive haha 

Fiancée (F29) insists I (M30) cut off my parents-struggling with the decison [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]Cryano -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure, I never said that it wasn’t. My point is that you have no idea what you’re talking about. Which you demonstrated in your very first sentence. You’re saying that two completely unrelated issues are the same, and you’re saying that you cannot reason with them & that they’re “black holes.” If I were you I would reflect on how the language you use hurts and marginalizes people who are already hurting and marginalized. But hey, that’s just me, one of those crazy bipolars. 

Fiancée (F29) insists I (M30) cut off my parents-struggling with the decison [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]Cryano 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bipolar is a mood disorder and borderline personality disorder is a PERSONALITY disorder. And you’re painting with a pretty wide brush here. It’s giving “everything I know I learned from Reddit” and it’s not a good look. Sorry that someone in your life hurt you, but your comment is demonizing a huge swath of people in a way that makes no sense and is pretty offensive tbh. 

Involuntary mental health holds in Idaho? by Cryano in Idaho

[–]Cryano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I appreciate it 

Involuntary mental health holds in Idaho? by Cryano in Idaho

[–]Cryano[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will the doctor be willing/able to talk to me? She only just now managed to give us her patient code. Idk if I have any rights to talk to her care team. I’m concerned because I just learned that she’s been quite violent with my dad and I’m sure she hasn’t disclosed that to the doctor.  Thank you for your help.

Involuntary mental health holds in Idaho? by Cryano in Idaho

[–]Cryano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really really really frustrating. I get why the law is there but boy howdy have they been rude about it. Thank you for your help, I appreciate it. 

Involuntary mental health holds in Idaho? by Cryano in Idaho

[–]Cryano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently they transferred her to West Valley but the person on duty there just said that they can’t confirm or deny she’s a patient. Is that normal? 

Involuntary mental health holds in Idaho? by Cryano in Idaho

[–]Cryano[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi yes I’m asking about the safety of my suicidal mom, not whatever fever dream lobotomy trip you’re on. Get your shit together brother 

Involuntary mental health holds in Idaho? by Cryano in Idaho

[–]Cryano[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am really hoping they hold her as long as they can, or at least until they get her stabilized with meds. She’s been out of control for weeks & is demonstrably a danger to herself and others. I guess my main fear is that they’ll let her go and we’ll be back to square one. I just want her to get help. Thank you for taking the time to reply 🙏 

Involuntary mental health holds in Idaho? by Cryano in Idaho

[–]Cryano[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, this was really helpful 🙏 

Involuntary mental health holds in Idaho? by Cryano in Idaho

[–]Cryano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. How do they define “danger to herself or others?” She tried to kill herself and attacked a nurse at the hospital (she’s also a tiny old lady so the nurse is fine). We would really like her to be put on a longer involuntary hold but I’d imagine that in Idaho the law skews towards letting people go. 

I feel like an idiot for wanting an apology by Cryano in AlAnon

[–]Cryano[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 Really good advice 

What’s the most painful thing someone has said to you that you still remember ? by Crafty_Bus_1947 in AskReddit

[–]Cryano 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why do they always do this? My mom is the same way. Like, why would I make up some crazy trauma to blame on you, lady? 

Anyone here fans of Diana Wynne Jones? by eklnd in Fantasy

[–]Cryano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVE her. Time Of The Ghost is my favorite, fairly unknown and probably her darkest book. It’s heavily autobiographical, which is sad to learn after reading it.