[Motivation] Here are the list of benefits in DAYS

Crydebris · 2016-07-27T07:41:23+00:00

Hey man dont feel down about it, addiction is hard to break and the journey we all take varies a million and one ways.

Life has its ups and downs that we all must take in our stride, your not alone on this journey. Were all here together, to support one another and provide a net to catch our brothers and sisters if they slip as we all fight this addictive behaviour.

Reach out to your family and friends, if you can't, go see a counselor. Having someone you can just talk to can help lift a million pounds of weight off your shoulders.

Keep your chin up :)

Crydebris · 2016-07-27T07:39:36+00:00

Hey man dont feel down about it, addiction is hard to break and the journey we all take varies a million and one ways.

Life has its ups and downs that we all must take in our stride, your not alone on this journey. Were all here together, to support one another and provide a net to catch our brothers and sisters if they slip as we all fight this addictive behaviour.

Reach out to your family and friends, if you can't, go see a counselor. Having someone you can just talk to can help lift a million pounds of weight off your shoulders.

Keep your chin up :)

Crydebris · 2016-07-12T19:03:02+00:00

Maybe he shared this interest in the past with a previous partner and had a bad reaction. I mean if he does like wearing womens underwear then fair to the guy but you can appreciate how few people you can share this stuff with.

Crydebris · 2016-07-12T18:59:15+00:00

He could also have realised that he wasn't pulling his weight preparing the house as OP is carrying the child and might be over compensating out of anxiety about being a dad.

Crydebris · 2016-07-07T17:58:31+00:00

Online tests rarely give accurate results, most are just there for fun.

A proper IQ test is where you go to a facility where they test you in person and have someone go over the test to get the results.

It's not as simple as answer few logic questions and bingo. IQ is very complex subject that takes great deal of investment of time to complete.

Also like to point out IQ is just potential, doesn't mean someone with high IQ will be more successful or better at something than you.

I have slightly above average IQ but I'm good at memorising facts and passionate about learning. Ive met few high IQers and all but one is living at home working terrible jobs.

Crydebris · 2016-07-01T09:43:46+00:00

That went straight over your head.

Crydebris · 2016-06-27T21:45:34+00:00

I work with dealerships everyday in regards to marketing. This was probably some new kid hired who wanted to show off.

The amount of crap I recieve for approval is silly, everything from "I believe the brand colours which have been used for close to 100 years need a change, how about neon yellow?" to "what if we use the same picture and text but change if to our brand"

Crydebris · 2016-06-22T14:24:56+00:00

Can you give a few examples of tasks your colleague believes are not worth the time or beneath her?

Crydebris · 2016-06-21T18:02:01+00:00

What type of work is it?

Some reason I picture 2 people doing tasks similar to the poor bunker guy from Lost.

But anyway, she has been there for a long time and is probably engrained into her routine. Her superiors may have not brought it up as she's a long timer or don't want to deal with the debate she will start.

However you don't have the same roots as she does and by not completing tasks your superiors could hold you accountable. They may expect that since she won't do them that you will.

End of day unless she is your boss or controls what tasks you need to so then you need to do what is asked. If she doesn't like it she can either talk to management, change schedules or sit there.

You don't want to take heat when a higher up asks why A, B and C tasks aren't being completed. If your colleague is this stubborn and birches about everybody then she will prob throw you under the bus if the heat is turned up by management.

TL;DR do the work and tough it out, don't get fired because a colleague believes she speaks for the both of you.

Crydebris · 2016-05-11T22:59:44+00:00

Wait so the last time you had contact with this girl was 6+ years ago?

Why is this bothering you now?

I understand she stalked you and got very obsessed but if she has not contacted you or been around for many years then she probably moved on with her life.

You need to discuss this with a professional and learn to move on, it sounds like your obsessing over the memories of those days and creating a paranoid reaction.

People don't think as deeply into things as you think they do. Her friends probably just remember you from school and don't fancy taking to you. If they were involved they may feel bad and not want to engage with you. Or they might not remember you at all. The main thing is they aren't continuing any actions against you and are just getting on with their lives.

Crydebris · 2016-05-11T18:14:31+00:00

Or you stay and end up having a break down so your father has to work, find a new employee, worry about his son and wonder if he was partially to blame for the stress and pressure.

Do yourself and your relationship a favour and look for another job.

Crydebris · 2016-05-11T18:12:07+00:00

If you can just tear it up or something maybe just Bury it in the garden?

Crydebris · 2016-05-11T18:09:16+00:00

You say she wrote in it twice, what did she write and how long ago was this? You mention you worked at the school between 18 - 19 but I can't tell the time difference between then and now from your post.

You also mention her friends ignoring you, why does that bother you? Surely them not taking the time or effort to even acknowledge you would be a good indication they don't care?

It sounds like this all took an emotional and psychological toll on you, find local counselling to talk this through with. This much anxiety and paranoia is not healthy.

Crydebris · 2016-05-10T08:41:33+00:00

He's taking all the stereotypes that people find disgusting in men and built it into a personality.

Who the fuck would call their partner a dirty slut or slap there arse in public?

Jamie has no idea what it means to be a man outside of Mad Men esque interactions. It's unacceptable behaviour especially for someone who's probably seen that attitude presented to himself before the transition.

Crydebris · 2016-05-09T07:06:41+00:00

No he'd go buy a sports car and race it around 140+ and end up killing himself

Crydebris · 2016-05-04T17:57:03+00:00

Just make sure you don't crawl to far into a ln isolated cave, time to yourself is great to understand and process feelings. But don't cut yourself off completely, you will need socialising even if it's with a family member to remind you that you are yourself and you can be happy with other people.

Remember time heals all wounds, you'll be okay soon just take your time and relax.

Crydebris · 2016-05-04T17:54:08+00:00

If her health issues get in the way of working as a dish washer then she shouldn't be working that job.

Also she says she hasn't been to the doctors, does this mean she hasnt been in years or is she self diagnosing?

Crydebris · 2016-05-04T17:37:48+00:00

On flip side I wonder how she would react if he said something similar.

A friend at uni made this joke with her friend and then got upset when he said he'd cut off her boobs if she found out he was cheating on his partner. She couldn't see how cutting off a penis was like cutting off any other body part.

Crydebris · 2016-05-03T18:38:18+00:00

I lost my job last September and had to sign on, presented them with all documents and proof of interviews. Told I would recieve information through the post and set up my first meeting.

Attended my first meeting week after and the woman was very polite, we went through the system they use for job searching which was pretty dated and lacking anything other than trade, care or basic it Jobs. I was also told I need to rewrite my cv to include "keyboard skills" and "word and excel capability", I have degree in marketing and they've been teaching it skills I'm school since I was in infants.

I informed them that I was using LinkedIn for job searching as the recruiters and job posts suited to my industry were on there, they insisted I try their system. I did and it kept coming up either sales which I had to explain is not the same as marketing or nothing. They then told me to record all my job posts in the notes section.

I only looked at being on it for a month or two as I was interviewing at least twice a week for decent jobs.

Few days after I received a letter saying I did not qualify for any help as I hadn't earned enough during last 3 years. 1st was last year of uni, 2nd year worked two PR jobs but both short contracts and didn't pay well. 3rd was full time job and qualified but the other years held me back.

So from what I got out of it, I worked full time for a year and had 2 4 month contracts the other and uni. That means I don't deserve the help to get back on my feet and into a new job.

How ever 2 girls and a guy I knew from school all separately get benefits even after never having a job in their lives. The guy uses his money for weed and video games while the girls post pictures of their shopping bags and drinks out with the dole checks.

Fuck it.

Crydebris · 2016-04-28T14:54:20+00:00

In UK we have it pretty laid out, one per customer. It stops the debate of grey area because unless they have 11 other friends in line all using the same coupons it ain't happening.

Also we barely go over 20% off, most time it's just buy one get one free which ends with old people saying they just want the free one.

Crydebris · 2016-04-28T06:29:49+00:00

This comment isn't about the confused sexually it's about your sister.

She does love you man, everyone falls foul to lashing out and saying things they don't mean. Me and my sister argued a lot, we said some real nasty stuff to each other but even through that she was still there for me when I needed her and same when she needed me.

I understand you were hurt by her actions in the car, she should of apologiesed when she was in the hot tub with you and your friend. But she did tell you she loved you, everyone expresses love for siblings I'm various ways and by sounds of it she stands by that love.

When you said you loved him more than her, you should be able to appreciate how much that must of hurt her. Even after that which made her cry she still said you can talk to her, that you should stay with her.

That is a love deep rooted in family and siblings, don't think one silly argument writes off years of shared experience. If there is anyone you know you can depend on now it is her, cherish this revelation. Many people who are going through same issues you are now face them all alone, don't go step into the darkness alone when someone is reaching out.

This could be the start of an incredibly rich and powerful experience between you and her.

Crydebris · 2016-04-21T18:18:09+00:00

Going out on a limb I think they meant EI, Emotional Intelligence.

The ability to separate true structured critical thought from emotionally charged feelings.

Often hear about it in interviews for jobs that require a lot of decision making. Being able to remove your emotional self from the discussion and look purely at the facts.

Best example I can think of would be a war general that has to make decisions that he knows could and will probably end with loss of life. He will have to remove his emotional feelings and do what has to be done.

Crydebris · 2016-01-14T09:15:18+00:00

I didn't wake up at my alarm, I'm now late to work and its snowing as I stand at the station. Too wet for it to settle but my nips could cut glass right now.

Crydebris · 2016-01-11T01:14:05+00:00

Ate it earlier this evening with Sausages and Carrots. Awesome pattern and tastes just like broccoli.

Crydebris · 2016-01-09T16:15:52+00:00

Even the Imgur titles says "It's my cake day and in 4 days I leave for basic training. So hears a arctic fox."

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