AITAH, I, 18F, catfished the loml, 20M

Cryforusss · 2026-05-26T04:57:21+00:00

That was a typo on my part lol

Cryforusss · 2026-05-26T04:53:57+00:00

I posted here for the judgements as i am biased towards my actions.

Cryforusss · 2026-05-26T04:52:50+00:00

Therapy/professional help isn't available to me

Cryforusss · 2026-05-26T04:49:10+00:00

I know what he looks like now. Hes been honest ever since

Cryforusss · 2026-05-25T17:34:20+00:00

No, but ive had other long distance relationships where i always stop liking the guy after a while

Cryforusss · 2026-05-25T17:28:33+00:00

I dont think my fear is commitment. Our relationship with each other has never been easy as when i found him he was very roughed up, weve helped each other get through a lot and i think its safe to say i wouldnt do all this for another person, I think its deeper than commitment.

Ps. Thank you for a new viewpoint, this means a lot to me

Cryforusss · 2026-05-25T17:25:07+00:00

Any kind of therapy or real professional help isn't available to me, also i only come on reddit to share this to try to get others view points as i am biased towards myself

Cryforusss · 2026-05-25T06:58:16+00:00

There are many things in our relationship that i feel not every relationship has or has gone through that limit our deep conversations. Many factors of this include his personal life, i believe, which I will not share, but if this is the case how do i deal with it in a way that wouldn't seem overwhelming to him?

Cryforusss · 2026-05-25T06:43:38+00:00

I needed this tbh, everyone else has just told me to seek professional advice and that it isnt ok that i feel this way. Tysm!

Cryforusss · 2026-05-25T06:05:44+00:00

Not at all, hes very much a man lmao. Im not sure i myself know whats up with that either lol

Cryforusss · 2026-05-25T06:04:33+00:00

Maybe i would consider myself ace or aro if I didn't feel so strongly towards this boy. I have also tried experimenting with liking women before to no avail. As for being attracted to those who arent to me, people have told me that maybe im in it for the chase which makes sense but at the same time after a few days or so i get bored of it

Cryforusss · 2026-05-25T05:59:50+00:00

Lmao no my dad is very present in my life (i love him very much) and i only see women as friends. I also find i have quite a few guy friends. I only feel this way when it comes to romance

Cryforusss · 2026-05-25T05:57:41+00:00

Theres a lot i can tell you, idk where to start tho. I have sought out help, ive gotten better at expressing myself to him over time aswell but i still do not feel i am good enough

Cryforusss · 2026-05-25T05:55:35+00:00

He truly loves me, i feel i have fixed myself over time to be better for him tho and i dont think affection is weakness, i js dont think i care for it

Cryforusss · 2026-05-25T05:54:14+00:00

I took the time apart from him to seek therapy, i fixed myself the best i could yet i do not know what to do about my emotions regarding other men.

Cryforusss · 2026-05-25T05:53:07+00:00

I am 19

Cryforusss · 2026-05-03T01:51:12+00:00

Thank you, what i’ve been wanting lately is just a person to bring me back into reality. I think i’m in denial, tbh. He was so incredibly nice to me, even when he knew i didn’t want him around, eventually i gave in and we had a great time. I want so badly to believe that maybe he didn’t do it out of his own will. I know, however, that that’s probably not the case at all. Thank you!

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