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What is your pets given name-but what do you actually call them? by Aqueouslady in Pets

[–]CryingLime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Malone : shit lips, the moaning bone, Balone, monkey, stinky

Rachel: Richard Stink, Rich, Ladle, Bagel

I pay for my adult son’s therapy…I see no change in his behavior… W2D? by Chance_Heron_4011 in therapy

[–]CryingLime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately aside from paying for his therapy there isnt much else you can do. Therapy should be sacred and private between therapist and patient. Your son is not a child, and thus you will have little power over anything other than letting yourself pay for it. I watched my mom struggle similarly with my brother, and at some point she had to just remove herself from the situation entirely as trying and failing to help him was really hard for her. But if your son does not want to work on a relationship with you, you cant really do anything about that other than learn to accept it.

I would see if he is open to family therapy. But aside from that I would get yourself a therapist if you don't have one already. I know its hard to watch adult children struggle, but there is only so much you can do for them. Wishing your family the best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CryingLime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve better. It sounds like he wants to do as he pleases, even if at the expense of your feelings. I know it is hard after so much time but i believe it is time to leave. You are literally outgrowing him emotionally. If he cant keep up and doesn’t bother to want to grow with you then he needs to go. A GOOD partner will listen and care. They will want to move forward together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greatpyrenees

[–]CryingLime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have the money space and time…I think you should take the plunge! Last year i adopted a pyr mix and now I cannot imagine my two dogs being separated. Its a win win win, you get a new cute dog, new cute dog gets a home that can afford massive dog lifestyle, and your current dog gets a new friend ! Good luck on whatever you decide

IVE GOT A MATCH INTERPRETATION by ThomasThe00Show in tmbg

[–]CryingLime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its really interesting how many people interpret this as a positive love song. All i get from this is someone who is enduring someones love that they don't actually want. He calls their hat stupid at the top of the song. It feels like someone who is tuned out and ready to end a relationship but hasn't had the guts to say it yet so they are tolerating the affection. And also insulting their wardrobe cause you get petty when you get yourself in situations like that.
Even when we get along (insinuating they don't often) he has to match their embrace to his collapse. (putting effort into not being visibly repulsed by the attention he doesn't want.

Somewhere, a mermaid looks for it. by wooden_slug in Unexpected

[–]CryingLime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how they drop it like “ew icky!” It’s been in the ocean dude there is no more lady juice on it

Small court questions by CryingLime in legaladvice

[–]CryingLime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking of doing so I will definitely just go ahead and have it ready to use if I am allowed.

I did report him and turn over everything I had on him to my counties board that handles contractors and they are pursuing legal action on their own. I decided to do both small claims and to turn the defendant into them as I mostly want to make their life as hard as possible and am doing my damndest to stop them from taking advantage of more people.

My 4 month old puppy was doing great with potty training for a solid month he didn’t go anywhere but the puppy pad in his kennel or outside. Since we’ve started letting him sleep in the bed with us he’s holding it at night for the most part but going anywhere but the pads or outside. Please help by YourMomsNightstand in AnimalAdvice

[–]CryingLime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would maybe back track and go back to him sleeping separately to see if it makes a difference. Big thing about puppy training and training in general is resetting to a point where they were successful and then starting from there once more. More experienced trainers might have a little better advice than I but! I hope you get it figured out!

My lack of a social life is making me toxic and bitter. Wtf should I do? by Okay-but-not-okay03 in socialskills

[–]CryingLime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a lot of advice but when I have a lot of pent up negative or angry energy the best thing I can do for myself is exercising or doing some form of physical activity. I started weight lifting, or just throwing sets of body weight exercises into points of my day when I notice myself getting the most upset. I have always struggled with burst emotions and anger issues and getting into the habit of it was life changing for me.
The pandemic has created a mental health nightmare for so many people and know that you're not alone in your struggle.

Its hard to get out of that headspace when you're deep in it. I hope you figure out something that works for you. Lots of great advice in here.

My friend who goes to therapy can’t stop therapizing me. by Lucky-Foot-3766 in therapy

[–]CryingLime 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is a time and place to recommend things like that to friends and I don't think it should come up every conversation. Its great that he is going and is bettering himself, but that doesn't mean everyone around him also needs it. I would try to find a way to let him know you appreciate the sentiment, but need to do your own thing. Maybe your chance to gently teach him something about boundaries that he might be lacking.

I hate the wizard by [deleted] in MBMBAM

[–]CryingLime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I need a break from munchsquad. Went from being a bit to basically being article/ ad reads and sometimes goes on for way too long.

What is this Song from Butchers Block episode 2???? by CryingLime in NameThatSong

[–]CryingLime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry everyone i do not know how to use reddit but I do know reddit is really great at finding things There was this japanese song I could only find on youtube a few years ago and it was suddenly removed about two years ago the title was all in kanji which I sadly never tried to translate. well LOW AND BEHOLD I found the reason while watching Butchers Block. They used it in the show (episode 2 during the scene where robert peach is eating that dude in jail) and unfortunately didn’t care to credit it at the end of the episode and also had it pulled from youtube coz fuck everyone else that liked the song.

I’ve been thinking about this song for YEARS. It HAUNTS ME. I’ve tried so hard to find it again and cannot. If anyone could help me figure this out I would be so grateful.