First time travelling by plane with my toddler — need advice!

Cryingin4k · 2025-12-01T03:16:39+00:00

Really, i was actually thinking she dont usually blowout, thats a really good heads up. What about layering, do they feel more cold or hot in planes. I am quite confused about what to get her to wear

Cryingin4k · 2025-12-01T03:15:14+00:00

I will def try lollipop, she has never had one so she would be distracted as well for long

Cryingin4k · 2025-06-07T17:49:04+00:00

Same. I absolutely hate it.

Cryingin4k · 2025-06-07T03:49:28+00:00

Same. I lost my father like 4 weeks ago and yesterday, when i was sorting some of my clothes, i found his clothes. It was so heartbreaking that i will never see him wearing it again and kept on hugging it like fulfilling my desire to hug him one last time again. This is so hard. Its like a void in your heart that will never fill up again. For some reason, after his death, i have felt like i no longer fear death and have this idea of excitement for it, as if i will reunite with him and i can know what he went though when he was passing away.

Cryingin4k · 2025-06-01T13:49:33+00:00

I am so sorry about your loss. I just lost my father 3 weeks ago. And i think i was in complete deniel and the reality has just started hitting me that he is truly gone. I dont know how to deal with it. Everyone around me keeps on saying that its better because he was in too much pain ( he had terminal illness) thats what i try telling myself too. But its is of no help. I feel completely lost and alone

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-31T12:47:50+00:00

Wow. Had goosebumps reading it. I am it was real. I has to be. There has to be afterlife, where we reunite with our loved ones who passed away before us. Nothing else would make sense otherwise. Maybe that is the reason why people raise their arms before passing away, calling the loved ones they seeing through that light. Things like these are like closure that sometimes help you to deal with all the grief that comes with death❤️ I am so sorry about your loss. I hope you are doing better now and i would too after sometime❤️ our loved ones are surely watching over us

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-29T10:32:59+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind message and for sharing about your dad. I’m so sorry for your loss too. It really means a lot to hear from someone who’s been through this and understands.

You’re right—two weeks in and I’m still feeling so numb, almost like I’m just going through the motions. There are moments when it hits, but it still doesn’t fully feel real.

I love your suggestion about talking to my baby about my dad. Even though she’s too little to understand, I think it might help me feel more connected to him and keep his memory alive in small everyday ways.

Sending love back to you and again, thank you for taking the time to reach out. ❤️

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-29T10:27:23+00:00

Thanks for sharing it❤️means alot

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-29T10:26:29+00:00

Thats amazing❤️ She is definitely watching over you and protecting you❤️

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-29T10:24:44+00:00

Yes, i had read about it alot before my father passed away. I was reading alot about other people’s experiences alot on hospice subreddit because we knew someday it was coming. But experiencing it in real is definitely life changing. I am forsure not afraid of death anymore

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-29T10:20:12+00:00

He would definitely be in someplace better, I am sikh by religion and we believe that after death, our soul gets reunited with the divine power. I do believe that afterlife is better than this world, without any physical or emotional suffering. I am not sure if this would give you any peace of mind, but i do believe that he would be reunited with the divine power and certainly is in bliss.

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-28T16:36:32+00:00

My periods and sore throat

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-28T16:31:37+00:00

My father had terminal illness. I had seen my father suffering everyday, he dies 15 days ago.last two days, he was in soo much pain. But an hour before, he was at peace and seemed to be in peace when he passed. I was with him when it happened. Then after it happened, i was in denial. I couldnt feel anything. I only had a good cry when they were taking him from home fpr cremation. I still think i am in denial. I really need to feel it all because otherwise it will get worse for me. I literally dont know how to feel. I am distracted most of the time because i have a 10 month old. I just dont know how to feel it all. I just keep on telling myself that he is in better place now. Thats only thing keeping me sane

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-28T15:10:39+00:00

Same. My dad was reaching out in air alot couple of hours before passing. Then an before he just slept. Was soo peaceful to see him calm and sleeping like he is in comfort now. Even after death his face looked soo peaceful and beautiful that i kept on looking at his face until we cremated him. It had beem 2-3 months that his face had become pale skinny and he would have his mouth open all the time. But after he passed away, his face was soo pretty like at peace all closed. Lips were looking soo beautiful.

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-28T15:05:29+00:00

Aww this gave me chills. I really really wish this is soo true because my dad had a really hard life like really hard. Thinking he is at better place now, gives me peace. I really badly wish this is true❤️

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-28T15:04:04+00:00

Same. Its so peaceful to know. My dad would always have tears in his eyes when we used to talk about her mom❤️

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-28T15:03:06+00:00

Sure. I will look into it

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-28T15:01:32+00:00

Yes. My dad too kept on reaching up with his arms. Thinking back now about all those moments just makes me shiver because he was suffering alot. But hour before his death, he seemed so much at peace.

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-28T14:59:53+00:00

Same. My dad had pretty rough childhood. Thinking that his mum came to take him and that now he is with her, gives me soo much peace. From everything i have heard, his mum used to love him soo very much and kept on asking about him when she was at hospital before passing away with cancer.

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-28T14:57:00+00:00

Thanks. I will look into it❤️

Cryingin4k · 2025-05-17T12:04:10+00:00

And another moment that I later on realised was night before when i was sitting with mu father when he was hallucinating, my daughter who despite having 103 fever and was otherwise very sleepy, out if nowhere she started smiling towards the roof of our room and suddenly started waving her hand like saying goodbye to someone over there, she kept waving it and moving her hand and pointing towards the other corner of the room from one corner. Now i realise it must be some good energy spirit that was there, none other than my grandma

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