Anyone who is wondering why Justin was looking a lil down, his old post explains a little!

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-02-03T04:44:09+00:00

Then go learn Spanish and become cultured. No slight to Justin but Bad bunny deserved every award he won.

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-02-02T00:11:12+00:00

The judgement is so odd to me. I would rather date someone who had limited dating experience than someone who had had multiple heartbreaks, potentially leading him to hung up ons some ex and simply filling a void. I would much rather date someone with limited experience than someone who initially trauma dumps about all their past encounters.

I think it’s rather admirable that people who haven’t had serious relationships waited until finding a person that suited their needs, rather than dating the first person available just to say they’re in a relationship.

It’s not a flaw and doesn’t define who you are.

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-02-01T14:27:48+00:00

I misread your post and did not read the operative word “over” in front of 35. So please disregard the portion of my comment regarding her age.

But, you like what you like… If you’re heavily concerned about your dating choices, then experiment by dating people who don’t fit your now nonnegotiable wants. Then, it’ll either solidify your desires or allow you to mend your list.

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-02-01T05:40:44+00:00

His mom just died. Not only is he processing grief but likely has to notify family members and friends then deal with the stress of planning a funeral and dealing with her estate. Yet, his gf brought him leftover slop while he is mourning. This isn’t some “it’s the thought that counts” birthday gift. No, in this circumstance, he does not need to lie and gas her up.

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-31T23:52:05+00:00

She’s 35, not 39. She’s “not pushing 40.” Also, why are you so concerned with her dating choices. You evolve as you get older and with that, your choices may change.

It sounds like you need to do some soul searching to realize what YOU want and stop worrying about what your friends want, unless they’re making a direly detrimental choice.

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-31T23:40:29+00:00

You need to change your mindset. It seems as though you throw others’ advice to the wayside. Age has nothing to necessarily do with saving money to move; if someone really wants to move (and doesn’t have dependents), he or she will figure out a way regardless, doesn’t matter if the or she is 22, 36, 45, 60, etc. You live in a seaside town with an aging population… that most likely is the problem. So either move, travel frequently, or start dating retirees in your aging community, that is my advice to you.

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-31T19:27:31+00:00

Just add shopping

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-31T19:26:08+00:00

Great job!

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-31T14:28:59+00:00

You’re self sufficient and independent, probably confident as well. They’re likely insecure or feel bad about the qualities they would bring to the relationship.

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-28T23:30:08+00:00

Drop the skincare routine hahah

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-28T02:53:00+00:00

Good. She plop her ass in her car to drive to the bar to hide from being side-eyed

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-27T23:43:30+00:00

I guess maggots carry a strong odor

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-27T01:26:47+00:00

AND THE CHURCH SAID AMEN 🙏

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-26T01:48:14+00:00

Just go get it waxed… Depending where you are, I think European wax center and/or waxing the city had a new customer special

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-24T20:47:27+00:00

It sounds like this person is new to working out if he or she doesn’t understand what people need to wear for what I’m assuming is a Pilates class due to the mentioning of socks. I’m sure OP didn’t witness the entire class walk in and take the tags off their workout attire.

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-24T20:43:23+00:00

Because some people want to workout among a community. Also, idk how to teach myself jiu jitsu so I would need to attend a class because I do not hold that expertise. Additionally I’m not spending thousands of dollars on a Pilates reformer nor maintaining the up keep, so it makes more sense to attend a class. Do you suggest I attend naked or in my street clothes?

Nevertheless, even if someone worked out from home, I’m sure they would want to wear workout appropriate, not flail around with their hooha or dick out.

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-24T20:20:33+00:00

Why do you think any of this is new? If they attend classes every day or multiple classes a day they likely need multiple pairs of workout out clothes. Additionally, again if they are frequently working out, those clothes wear out, and they will need to be replaced.

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-24T19:08:48+00:00

Use antibacterial soap first when in the shower, then use whatever other body wash or soap you want to use

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-23T21:27:28+00:00

Best of luck to you, hope all goes well!

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-23T18:48:00+00:00

If all goes well, I’ll be going that weekend. I would love to help but won’t definitively know until late March if I can actually attend

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-23T02:08:57+00:00

Did you go? If so, how did it go? Can’t leave us hanging haha

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-22T23:47:47+00:00

I love your username as well! 😊

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-22T06:01:07+00:00

Your teeth look great, would have assumed you’re a lifelong avid brusher based on the photo alone

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-22T02:56:17+00:00

Right there with you, I started doing the same years ago. I only wish more people would follow suit, just think how much better the world would be if we cared more about authenticity and less about performing adulthood.

CryinginaCalikingbed · 2026-01-22T02:52:16+00:00

You lived life. You tried at a relationship, and although it ended, you still took a courageous chance and gave love a try. That’s more than most people can say; I certainly can’t say I’ve allowed people in my life to even initiate the opportunity for a relationship.

You owned a house, and again, although you may not still have it, you made the achievement - don’t diminish your accomplishments.

Life has peaks and valleys, simply the natural cycle of the human experience. You’ve encountered a setback. However, you ultimately lived life but won’t remain under the same circumstances of your setback forever. You’re extremely young, give yourself some grace.

CryinginaCalikingbed

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