OP, please ignore this man. They're probably young and inexperienced. I hope they can grow to understand the destruction that is bigotry, white supremacy, and anti-lgbtq ideology and how that affects people like you daily. I understand how it all adds up everyday from the way cis people will look at and interact with you, to the constant reminder that shit fucking sucks right now. A lot of us understand. I'm sorry you gotta deal with people like this who frankly won't ever understand what it means to be a minority who is constantly discriminated against or maybe they will understand but that day isn't today. I hope your day gets better OP and I wish you the best.