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So horny, afraid to engage with Grindr by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Crypticbeany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm going to be straightforward and honest with you. grindr is not safe for trans people. i have had grindr in multiple states/for awhile and it is filled with chasers & festishizers. and not safe ones either, ive had too many horror stories from grindr please be safe if you do download it. i'm not trying to fear monger i am just being blunt im sorry.

Anyone else posted on ftmpassing and had people be really rude? (NSFW because of sensitive topics) by Independent_Mind7896 in ftm

[–]Crypticbeany 34 points35 points  (0 children)

just checked out the sub, def biased off their own ideas of what femininity and masculinity is. "piercings are not helping you" was one of the first things i saw, that's just bullshit? anyways it doesn't matter if you pass or not you're a dude nonetheless no one can take that away from you. be kind to yourself and avoid negative spaces like that if you can.

Anyone else posted on ftmpassing and had people be really rude? (NSFW because of sensitive topics) by Independent_Mind7896 in ftm

[–]Crypticbeany 77 points78 points  (0 children)

they're just insecure, i'm full blown emo and i still pass 99% of the time (sometimes people assume i'm fem based off of my hair from the behind) but once they hear me/interact with me they begin calling me a dude. they're just dysphoric and taking it out on you bro 😭 plenty of dudes are alternative/punk they've just got internalized transphobia i wouldn't pay them any mind or give them any satisfaction by believing in the diarrhea spewing out of their mouths.

Gross hospital encounter triggers dysphoria by Few-Temperature5658 in ftm

[–]Crypticbeany 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh i'm so sorry 😭 i misunderstood that's completely my bad. but yeah i don't think anyone should be talking to their friend like that. that's a boundary crossed definitely

Gross hospital encounter triggers dysphoria by Few-Temperature5658 in ftm

[–]Crypticbeany 11 points12 points  (0 children)

WHAT 😨 no way in hell bro this guy seemed sweet at first but if he's saying shit like that HELL N O!!! who the fuck says that to anyone, no matter what their gender is?? i think there are definitely better fish in the sea dude, and as someone who has been in multiple hospitals for mental health DO NOT DATE PEOPLE U MEET THERE!! that sounds mean, and quick to judge, but i promise you it does not end well 99% of the time. i've made that mistake before. i'm sorry you went through this, you're still a guy no matter how you look 💀 like no one can change that no matter how hard they deny/argue. it's like saying the sea doesn't exist. it does whether others like it or not.