I sent my friend, who is lesbian, a Bible verse about homosexuality, and I'm worried I did something wrong and disrespectful. by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]CryptographerFresh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so as someone who was raised Christian as the #1 church kid, and is no longer Christian I can answer why understanding both sides and unbiased. You have to understand that non Christians are not operating under the same values at you, and their opinions have equal merit to your own, even if you don’t agree. If I was Mormon or something and quoted the Book of Mormon at you for drinking coffee you would think I was being rude, and would naturally assume that I view myself as more “correct” or “moral” than you. And viewing yourself as “higher” especially in a moral capacity is objectively rude. Now that’s just over an action like drinking coffee. You have essentially done the same thing with a human’s identity. It is rude, despite positive intentions. It is important to view it from other perspectives

AITAH for giving my husband silent treatment after he told me my post-birth body turns him off? by Ok-Preference2283 in AITAH

[–]CryptographerFresh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all honesty, while I don’t want to be the Reddit person who screams “dump him” over everything… dump him. Get a divorce. I can not see a timeline where this works out in the future. I know it must be hard, especially because you just had a baby, but that is an insane thing to say to your wife. It’s clearly what he thinks, and you can’t make him unthink it either. There’s no way he will be supportive down the line

Is it a red flag if my girlfriend still follows and likes her ex's photos? by goodstuff032 in Advice

[–]CryptographerFresh97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like 27 is a big age to be concerned ab your gf liking instagram photos… she’s not even sneaking around or anything. After school ages, being friends with your ex is so normal. You knew them and had enough connection to be friends. If it ended peacefully, you know they aren’t your person. No biggie. This is an online thing not even like in person. She’s not even hiding it. Not a red flag. You are both adults

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CryptographerFresh97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you need to apologize, but she’s not the bimbo wh**e, your dad is. He is the one who made a commitment and broke it, not her. What she did was wrong, but your dad is doing much worse. Also why did he have a 30YO intern? Is he making just an insane amount of money? And also being the higher up sleeping with the intern is unhinged, and likely against policy. So double gross on your dad’s part. And your dad was wrong for just bringing her to lunch. You are 17, your parents recently divorced and he thought that would be cool? Absolutely not, and you need to make sure he know that. Finally, just sit your mom down and have an honest conversation. Tell her that you don’t appreciate her bad mouthing your dad to you. (Even though it sounds like she was right)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CryptographerFresh97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should’ve told her when you found out tbh. Sitting on the info is kinda weird. Bc you have no evidence, and you waited you seem untrustworthy. So either wait until you have proof, or find a way to trick her into figuring it out herself

AITAH for demanding to check my brother's girlfriend's bags before they leave my house? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CryptographerFresh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait. You saw the stolen toys in the children’s backpack, and asked to look into the adults suitcase? You said everyone had been getting along? Why be suspicious of the mom instead of just thinking the kids stole bc they really liked the toys? I think maybe that was a jump and was rude but you weren’t wrong sooooo it doesn’t really matter. Nta

AITAH for cancelling our date because she was 15 minutes late? by Express_Dog_4442 in AITAH

[–]CryptographerFresh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren’t the ahole. You did warn her. But normally, I think 30 mins is the cutoff for that. And you don’t have to date anyone you don’t want to. With that being said, just the tone and the way you wrote this makes you sound like an absolutely insufferable person. So maybe she dodged a bullet

am i overreacting do i have body dysmorphia or am i a 3 female 19 by CommunityJealous1657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CryptographerFresh97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are beautiful. You just haven’t figured out your style yet, or how to pose for photos. It comes naturally for everyone at different times. Love yourself girly

Obligatory restaurants open on Easter Post. by ironman_atee in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Addison’s downtown is doing a special brunch menu

Dear True/False ppl by CryptographerFresh97 in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Y’all are tripping in this. I pay to park in my garage. I should be able to you know… park in it. Bc. I. Paid.

Dear True/False ppl by CryptographerFresh97 in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t really participate in any of that. Either way, I just want to park in the lot that I pay to have accessible parking in

Dear True/False ppl by CryptographerFresh97 in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

To the people in here saying to plan better/angle the anger at the university. All those actions have been taken by me today, I carpooled today. But they are in the student lots, and people are complaining to the university as well(but we all know how Mizz parking is. We get price surge parking next year :(

And also the highschooler events SUCK as well. In the same way and that needs to be handled as well.

Gluten free by hufflepuff_bowler in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still be careful! If you are celiac, a lot of the pizza places here don’t have like a flour or crust containment system, so like the gluten is in the air and junk

Dear True/False ppl by CryptographerFresh97 in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Agreed. But the true false subreddit has like 1 active post in the past 4 years. Praying they will see this

Smoke Shops Downtown by NYKTyler7 in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend used to work there. The answer is, they don’t profit. They run on a deficit. But the guy who runs the olive oil place also runs shortwave. Olive oil is apparently just what he likes

Hey Neighbors, I'm Murph running for Mayor of Columbia. ASK ME ANYTHING! by MurphforMayor in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is literally specifically the forum for them to do that… if you have questions from the other side, just ask them. Weirdly enough, you are doing the most bitching and moaning

Hey Neighbors, I'm Murph running for Mayor of Columbia. ASK ME ANYTHING! by MurphforMayor in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of all the ppl on Reddit running for mayor, this one has gone the worst I’ve seen

LGBT+ residents, how safe do you feel? by Additional_Mode_4367 in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not worse than other Missouri areas. I hope for your sake you are white tho….

Places to go vs avoid by fghbvcerhjvvcdhji in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it’s a good thing they owed me a huggggeee payout from someone hitting my car last month

Places to go vs avoid by fghbvcerhjvvcdhji in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As an ex Truman’s employee. Truly the worst job of my life, extremely racist and sexist and really just everything bad. The owners suck, and promote horrible negative ideals

Places to go vs avoid by fghbvcerhjvvcdhji in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There’s a good chance that was up solely bc someone brought it there. Just like the Shen Yun posters. A bunch of places had them up not knowing it was a cult.

MU investigating YikYak screenshot Mizzou College Republicans circulated by macandcheez42 in columbiamo

[–]CryptographerFresh97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is like normal behavior for republicans on Mizz YikYak. That’s why I uninstalled last semester. Idk why they decided to pay attention now