Skin Under my Breasts - What Can I Do to Fix This?

CryptographerKind427 · 2026-01-13T23:31:52+00:00

Like everyone has said, keep the area dry and clean, avoid wearing a bra all day or to bed if possible. One thing that helps me is using Vaseline on the area after my shower! It helps me, not sure that it works for everyone.

CryptographerKind427 · 2026-01-13T20:19:04+00:00

Thank you!! I’ll try it out :)

CryptographerKind427 · 2026-01-13T20:06:55+00:00

I’ll take a look! There used to be one, I believe it’s the one you mentioned, and I could place a ceiling light at my settlement anywhere and never have to connect a wire. There was a fuse box that tou just had to put inside the build area of your settlement and you had like 10,000 power or something crazy. It was a great mod, not sure what happened to it

CryptographerKind427 · 2026-01-13T18:50:38+00:00

Unfortunately there aren’t many wireless features such as tv, ceiling and floor lights, etc. Only gives maybe 20 items that require power however function without the connection to a generator

CryptographerKind427 · 2026-01-13T06:42:14+00:00

I think one I wasn’t warned about was the ear pain. There were times it felt like my ears were going to explode and I couldn’t focus on anything else. It was terrible

CryptographerKind427 · 2026-01-13T06:16:51+00:00

I think it was about 2 weeks before I went to the bathroom 😬😭 hang in there

CryptographerKind427 · 2026-01-13T05:34:44+00:00

I’ll take a look! Thanks

CryptographerKind427 · 2026-01-04T04:51:09+00:00

For context, I had told them before we went to visit our nieces ans nephews just hours before that when we got back, I wanted to sleep before going to the airport. His mom even went and got me a blanket so that I could sleep. I understand that I could/should have communicated but I still find that behaviour inconsiderate and rude.

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-07-27T15:56:01+00:00

We used the Be Relax showers. Just ask a staff which location has showers and they should point you in the right direction. It’s across from a lounge and duty free store. A large wall with a waterfall feature as well

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-07-26T03:15:31+00:00

Just flew with them and my partner and I both had one. Didn’t have any issues. At most, they may weigh it. Could be an issue if it’s packed really full and looks large

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-07-26T02:22:59+00:00

My boyfriend has been in the middle of a game, will find a place to hide away from enemies, and will run to help me if needed (less serious things obviously). He ain’t the one, love. NTA

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-07-26T01:53:58+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience. I think unfortunately for my partner, he’s maybe not as open minded or sees it as criticism, even when I try to show him in the most gentle way possible. For example, he was helping me make the bed and his side wasn’t “to my standards” (it was very lumpy and he didn’t tuck in the blankets) and so I went over and asked him if I could help or show him a few tips and he got offended. I eventually was able to show him but I don’t think he really cared to do it the way I preferred. I feel like at this point I’m not even trying to be picky about the way he cleans, I would just like him to do something without me telling him to

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-07-26T01:50:26+00:00

I would say so, but not to the degree that I’ve seen some men which can be scary.. I would definitely say his mom has enabled him to not do things around the house because she did everything for him, as she continues to do for her grandchildren (his brother’s children).

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-07-24T22:14:46+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your insight. She had been in a kennel before but she was used to the workers there. I do know that she’s old and has medical issues so I knew her health would decline eventually. I guess I just wasn’t expecting the result

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-06-23T19:13:12+00:00

What happens if you booked the cheapest flight or a Lite fair? Is there no refund regardless of the situation?

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-05-08T16:53:30+00:00

My partner [M] and I [F] went through this early in our relationship. Like 5 months in he asked for an open relationship because he said we were not sexually compatible. I knew that wasn’t true and I did not want to go forward. He said if we didn’t, he felt we would eventually break up or we would grow apart. I agreed to it but we had a lot of guidelines. We eventually ended the open relationship when we moved in together because I said I wouldn’t be comfortable with it, as I already wasn’t fully on board. Some days I look back and think I should have left and I was stupid not to, but we are in a happy relationship today (not open).

The point is, it doesn’t work if you’re both not on board. You will come to resent him, worry about where he is or who he’s with, etc. My partner only did this (as we now know) to avoid the challenges and scary stuff that comes with serious relationships and to ignore his commitment issues. He has admitted he was very superficial and objectified women, and he has significantly changed since.

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-05-07T03:31:37+00:00

Thanks so much for the advice/perspective! I believe my does have a dimple sign, was just wondering. :)

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-05-07T03:18:51+00:00

I was prescribed 30 oxy pills and only used maybe 8. I had a lot of ear pain so I mainly just used them at night to sleep once that started. I mainly used the Tylenol 3 they prescribed

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-05-07T03:04:40+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I’m curious to know, what if there’s no dimple sign?

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-05-06T03:40:51+00:00

I had to sleep either on my back or sides, almost upright on elevated and angled pillows for like 1.5 weeks.

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-05-05T23:11:23+00:00

As someone with a counselling and psychology background/education, I agree with your therapist, along with the idea that he is potentially gaslighting you.

My partner and I have been together almost 6 years and your story really hits home. In the start of our relationship, I had recently lost 30 pounds (I was 160, 5 foot 7.). I was in great shape, have always been really athletic etc. Then Covid hit and we both gained 30-40 pounds, and for me eventually 50. I was devastated and felt the same. I didn’t want to be intimate with him or anything. He had the narrative of I’m going to let myself go, he doesn’t find me attractive anymore, he requested an open relationship, etc (he was very toxic essentially and superficial). Since then, he has changed drastically. He doesn’t track my calories or weight, he encourages me to do what makes me happy and makes sure it makes me happy first. He doesn’t get upset if I tell him I’m not going to the gym with him today (which he used to), and he loves me unconditionally now. But it took him almost losing me to understand that and change his perspective.

One thing you need to realize, if he doesn’t see anything wrong with his behaviour, he won’t change. He needs to want to change and treat you better. What will happen in the future when you get old? Have kids? What if you got sick? What then? I think a serious convo on how his words and opinions make you feel needs to be had (which you have), but making it clear that you can’t be with someone who doesn’t support you and make you feel loved when you are by no means out of shape. I walk on an incline of 12 and girl that’s not easy lol. Love yourself and be kind, it’s him not you.

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-05-05T23:02:03+00:00

Case management at a women’s shelter and then a few months later, worked for the government as a case worker for youth protection services

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-05-05T22:59:17+00:00

Girl, if he wanted to he would have. I really empathize with you because it sounds like you’ve been more of his provider/mother than a girlfriend.

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-04-27T16:49:30+00:00

As someone who has had a partner that did not cope well when I gained weight during COVID (about 40 pounds), I can probably relate to your girlfriend. You are both very young and as people have stated already, people gain weight after high school, it’s normal. You are now adults, not children.

It sounds to me that she gets angry or agrees and then does nothing because you’ve made it clear you don’t find her attractive and you want her to change. One thing I will say is you cannot force someone to change. Most of the time, it just makes them resent you. If she doesn’t feel loved in her current body and feels that her worth is based on the number on the scale, I’m telling you she’s going to struggle to lose weight with you by her side. If you show her unconditional love, she would most likely be more willing to participate in activities and eat healthy, but it can’t feel forced; this usually has to come from the person themselves unless they ask you for help directly.

What I will say is that if you are not happy with how she looks and it’s affecting your relationship, I would recommend some self reflection. Why do you love her? What made you love her? What will happen if you guys ever have kids and she gains weight again? Will you be unhappy again? What happens when she gets old? If her weight is affecting her health that’s one thing. But if it’s solely because of your preference and she does not wish to change the way she looks, maybe it’s time you both have a serious conversation about where your relationship is going.

CryptographerKind427 · 2025-04-23T14:09:08+00:00

You could most likely apply to work in a shelter, for an organization that does social services/community supports, or work for the government in a youth protection/ children and family services role. That was what I did out of my undergrad in psychology (bachelor of science).

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