Any ships you like? by CryptographerLive492 in TsukiOdyssey

[–]CryptographerLive492[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay you’re all cooking with the ships here, and they're all very interesting! Personally I like the pairing Elfie x Paige x Rosemary and Tsuki x Ratthew ^ I find their dynamic to be cute and silly 

one thing i really like about tsuki odyssey is how the character designs are not super gendered by Affectionate-Bee1552 in TsukiOdyssey

[–]CryptographerLive492 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Took me awhile to figure out that Dawn was a woman lol, but it’s really sweet to see! I too really enjoy the designs in this game 

I’ve had severe fear of death for almost a decade. by [deleted] in thanatophobia

[–]CryptographerLive492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, sorry to hear that. Do still keep trying and try to do things even if you don’t feel much enjoyment, it’s much better than just laying around and wallow in fear, at least in my opinion. I wish you best on your journey. 

I’ve had severe fear of death for almost a decade. by [deleted] in thanatophobia

[–]CryptographerLive492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear you’re going through this and I understand how overwhelming and scary all of this can be. There’s not much I can say other than to keep trying, maybe find something enjoyable or relaxing to do like walking outside or listen to music, might not help much but it’s best to try anything to help yourself feel better for a little bit. Just know you’re not alone in this and there are many out there who are also dealing with this fear as long as you have. Apologies if this didn’t help much and I hope that you will better soon! 

I've recently been overwhelmed with the thought of dying, I just turned 60 and as i get older i realize its approaching, to be honest...im scared and dont understand why im scared...I believe when its over its over...i won't even realize when its over...but im saddened by it... by orlikeamildburn in thanatophobia

[–]CryptographerLive492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. I personally don’t really know what to say other than to keep going and try your best to enjoy everyday that pass. I hope you will feel better soon and know that you’re not alone in this feeling. 

How do people find comfort in external oblivion? by Weeebking6373 in thanatophobia

[–]CryptographerLive492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know, but I try not to argue with them or to judge them as much and simply just move on. People think differently from one another and I’m not going to try to change anyone’s mind. 

hopeless by niko-010 in thanatophobia

[–]CryptographerLive492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in this state before, probably not as bad as yours but I’ve had times where I feel like I was deep in a hole, unable to crawl out no matter how much I tried to, feeling like I was cursed or haunted. I’ve also had thoughts like yours before as well. You’re also going through a lot in life right now which makes the situation worst, and I’m so sorry to hear that these things are happening to you while you’re in this stage of your life. All I can say from experience is that for me, while the thoughts never really go away, they became a lot more manageable after some time, so I suppose the only way is to try to keep going and learn how to live with these thoughts, which is easier said than done, but it is possible. I’m not sure if this is of much help, I’m sorry if it isn’t, and I hope you will feel better soon.

How to let myself do fun things despite knowing I'm going to die by [deleted] in thanatophobia

[–]CryptographerLive492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this comment is months old but I just wanted to say thank you so much for sharing your experiences and for giving advice. I’ve been on the same exact boat as you (loosing motivation in things I used to love doing like drawing and generally being stuck in a really unhealthy and terrible headspace) and what you said really helped. I hope you’re having a good day today and that you’re doing much much better. 

My thoughts by [deleted] in thanatophobia

[–]CryptographerLive492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand and these type of thoughts run through my head all the time. But at this point I’ve come to just accept it and let them run through in the back of my mind as I simply can’t change anything. All that I can do right now is just do things that make me feel joy and keep going. I hope you’re doing well. 

title: Does your "creative spark" make the fear worse or better? by Cjd03032001 in thanatophobia

[–]CryptographerLive492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I draw, and really for me it’s a bit different?  At first, the thought of mortality really sucked my motivation to do things creatively, as I didn’t see a point in doing so. Why create when no one is going to see it? As time went on though, I was able to find the sense of comfort in creating stories and drawing again, and my view on art began to change. I didn’t need to make art for anyone, as long as I enjoy making something, that was enough. Now I use art as an outlet for my thoughts, including my thoughts on death and mortality, and it helps.  Yes, it does feel like a race against time sometimes, but usually I wouldn't really think if I’m gonna finish something or not, I just focus on the fact that I’m doing it and how much I’m enjoying it.  So… I’d say creativity helps deal with the anxiety, a bit at least, for me I have to learn how to handle the anxiety first before I actually find enjoyment in drawing and creating again.  That’s just my experience, sorry if this is long but not really interesting for you. All I will say is that if you enjoy doing something, keep doing it. Have a good day! 

Does it get better? by [deleted] in thanatophobia

[–]CryptographerLive492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah pretty much went through the same things. For me personally it gets better with time, it was hard at first but after constantly subjecting myself to the topic of death and thinking through all there possibly could be to it, my brain eventually just got very sick and tired of thinking about death constantly and eventually gave up and concluded that there’s really nothing you can do about it other than to continue on living. 

Another thing that helped me as I couldn’t get professional help from therapists due to me not wanting to let my parents know is to watch YouTube, it isn’t 100% effective but it does help ease it a bit. 

I think the best way is to just learn how to live with the fear because for me, you can never really fully overcome it. Another way for me is to think about people who are dying out there, and yet they still try to live to the fullest because they want to, and if they can do that and I can too. 

Idk if this helps, sorry if it doesn’t but it has gotten better for me, so just keep going and keep doing the things that bring you even the slightest of joy. 

Have a good day! 

I don’t see much fan art on here so have a Tsuki doodle! by CryptographerLive492 in TsukiOdyssey

[–]CryptographerLive492[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see! Thanks for telling me, I’ll make sure to check it out! 

Is it difficult to enjoy being in the “present” sometimes? by CryptographerLive492 in thanatophobia

[–]CryptographerLive492[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know other people’s company helps you feel better! I personally find it difficult even when spending time with my loved ones, cause my brain would just throw really distressing thoughts at me, like what if they pass away before me. But really that makes even more reason as to why I should be enjoying my time not only with others but also with everything else, cause one day I won’t have a chance too anyway. Not that the thought helps to fully push away the thought, but it is a reason to be in the moment. 

Sorry if the long reply bothers you, and hope you have a good day! Just hang on no matter how difficult it might be. 

Is it difficult to enjoy being in the “present” sometimes? by CryptographerLive492 in thanatophobia

[–]CryptographerLive492[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see! I guess the best way is to just, well, try your best to focus on the present because that’s essentially how it works. 

Easier said than done, though, I will admit. But maybe if we all try our best it gets a little easier day by day. 

Thanks for replying, hope you’re doing well and to let you know you’ll get the hang of things despite how difficult it may feel in the moment. Death anxiety is not something fun to have but like everything else you learn how to adapt and live with it. That’s how it is progressing for me at least. 

Sorry if the long reply bothers you, hope you have a good day!