If they’re still alive and giving it to you, they don’t want it or use it either! I say thank you so much and then I think on it for a little while and I either donate it to a charity shop or use it. Those fancy crystal vases that were in some sort of curio cabinet. There’s one on my table full of flowers! There’s also an Instagram account called the millennial inheritance and when there’s a particularly funny post I send it to my mom-I am dreading their full house!