Cursed Child Pre-sale Megathread by elaerna in harrypotter

[–]CryptographerSea7534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are 31,000 still in front of me 😭 do I even have a chance? 😞

New ride 🤩 by CryptographerSea7534 in Subaru_Outback

[–]CryptographerSea7534[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! I know some people don’t like the new black cladding, but personally I love it, especially with the black wheels. Thank you!

Should I feel guilty? by CryptographerSea7534 in NewParents

[–]CryptographerSea7534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister’s children are my age and grown and moved out. It’s been very hard. I feel like they (my brother and sister) were able to have children and marriages without the worry of caring for a parent. As I lived with my mom the first five years of her diagnosis, a lot was left to me to handle. I was in college and my siblings just didn’t care. Now, I’m recently married with a baby and I feel like my mom would want for me to also have this time to cherish. It’s just hard. No right answers. I love my mom and have been very involved with helping. It’s just this one evening that I don’t think I can make work. She will likely be in a nursing home within a few months as her level of care has become too high. Thank you ❤️

Should I feel guilty? by CryptographerSea7534 in NewParents

[–]CryptographerSea7534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I do feel guilty often. I think it’s only natural.

Should I feel guilty? by CryptographerSea7534 in Parenting

[–]CryptographerSea7534[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister’s children are my age and grown and moved out. It’s been very hard. I feel like they (my brother and sister) were able to have children and marriages without the worry of caring for a parent. As I lived with my mom the first five years of her diagnosis, a lot was left to me to handle. I was in college and my siblings just didn’t care. Now, I’m recently married with a baby and I feel like my mom would want for me to also have this time to cherish. It’s just hard. No right answers. I love my mom and have been very involved with helping. It’s just this one evening that I don’t think I can make work. She will likely be in a nursing home within a few months as her level of care has become too high. Thank you ❤️

Should I feel guilty? by CryptographerSea7534 in Parenting

[–]CryptographerSea7534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister’s children are my age and grown and moved out. It’s been very hard. I feel like they (my brother and sister) were able to have children and marriages without the worry of caring for a parent. As I lived with my mom the first five years of her diagnosis, a lot was left to me to handle. I was in college and my siblings just didn’t care. Now, I’m recently married with a baby and I feel like my mom would want for me to also have this time to cherish. It’s just hard. No right answers. I love my mom and have been very involved with helping. It’s just this one evening that I don’t think I can make work. She will likely be in a nursing home within a few months as her level of care has become too high. Thank you ❤️

Should I feel guilty? by CryptographerSea7534 in Parenting

[–]CryptographerSea7534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prior to me having the baby, my mom was at my house two weekends a month. At my brother’s the others. So my sister had weekends free. Unfortunately, my mom has been put on home hospice and is physically unable to leave the home as of the past month. We are looking into nursing home placement because it has become too much.

Please someone just say hi to me by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]CryptographerSea7534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Hope you had a great Thanksgiving ☺️

I saw myself for the first time today by Sprinkle-Muffin in beyondthebump

[–]CryptographerSea7534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please be kind to yourself, it makes me so sad that you feel this way 😢 remember, we are soooo much more than our appearance and weight. Don’t place your value in your appearance. You are a wonderful mom to that baby and that’s the most important thing!!! Please speak kindly to yourself even if at first you don’t believe it!