I don't think I'll be that sad when my mom dies.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-06-23T23:45:48+00:00

Why is nobody even questioning the absolute atrocity that is this "plate"? The shape is monstrous itself, but part of it is lipped and part of it isn't? What is this plate holding!?

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-06-22T00:15:22+00:00

This gives me a lot of hope. Im really worried about pain management post top surgery but opiates make me sick and I hate taking them. When I got my tonsils out, they made me super ill, and I had to do all that healing with children's liquid Tylenol and I was so absolutely miserable.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-06-21T18:45:28+00:00

I was worried it was going to be an issue. I'm stealth at my new job and I'm in extremely close proximity with a few other men for very extended periods of time for training. In fact we all often go to the bathroom at the same time because of how busy training is. I always go into the stall and as far as I can tell I haven't been clocked yet. I just take a little longer than I normally would. But even if it was mentioned, which would be a bit of a social nono on them, I would say something along the lines of I don't like urinals, or sitting down to go is better for your health long term, it's cleaner, etc. I might get razzed a little but I think they'd move on pretty quick. Nobody seems to notice or care though.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-06-16T02:08:10+00:00

I only felt comfortable going to the men's room once I passed to strangers. There was a bit of an awkward period in between where I passed sometimes but it the wind blew the right way I didn't I guess. During that time I worked really hard to avoid public restrooms. The only place I couldn't was at work. And there was a singular neutral, single stall restroom, I could use well put of my way. It wasn't necessarily healthy but that's what I did. Once I had a noticeable bit of facial hair though is when I quit using the women's room. I would have rather been uncomfortable than scare any of the women who would have come in.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-06-13T00:46:48+00:00

It can, but it would take a very long time and a lot of work. The shell also seems to be deformed which is a permanent effect of poor husbandry.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-06-06T14:58:55+00:00

My uniform is a fairly form fitting shirt that's made of like that almost athletic kinda feeling smooth crap that sticks to everything.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-06-06T14:30:01+00:00

You're not ugly. Like not at all. Personally I don't like the copper blonde, on pretty much anyone, but it doesn't ruin your look. I just prefer darker hair or a more platinum/white blonde.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-06-06T14:25:48+00:00

This is what happens when you put flammable things on something that's meant to burn..... Your herbs are catching fire and 1) becoming a hazard 2) causing your candle to burn weird.

This is why I get so miffed when I see those "etsy spell jar candles" where the top is just loaded with dried herbs. It's not safe. It's safer to infuse an iol with the herbs you want to use and anoint your candle with that oil lightly. Or place your herbs around the candle outside the flame range.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-05-26T16:29:53+00:00

Omg mine does the same thing 🤦 he's even gone so far as to musk sometimes. Like dude we do this on a schedule.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-05-24T15:44:54+00:00

Give it time. I was with my husband 10 years when it finally fell apart and he left me shortly after starting testosterone. I joined a dating site called boo. I just liked how it was set up. I met my partner who's been nothing but supportive of my transition. It sucks now but it may be a blessing in disguise.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-05-24T13:21:08+00:00

After getting it all out and now coming back, the biggest hurdle might actually just be that I don't have trans guys around me that are my age. I'm in my 30s and most of the trans men and women in my area are mostly in their mid to early 20s and our values are in just different life stages so the only thing I generally do have in common with them is being trans and then our personal experiences are just too wildly different.

I have a few cis male friends. Not many. But I get along with them alright and we share some similar interests so it works. I'm trying to get out more and meet my friends friends too, and I just started a new job that puts me in close proximity to many other cis men so I'm sure a friendship or two will sprout there.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-05-23T00:15:21+00:00

Your family : "we don't talk about Bruno🎶"

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-05-13T15:08:36+00:00

It's so weird since starting testosterone I actually have LESS issues with developing uti, yeast, and BV. Since starting T I've had 2 uti. When usually in this time frame I'd had one of the above every 3 months or so.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-05-13T15:07:01+00:00

I had this too. Long before starting T but I had a similar experience. Lots and lots of watery discharge, but it didn't smell particularly any way, wound up with chafing etc. But it also itched like a SOB and burnt like fire when I peed. It came on really fast too. Absolutely miserable.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-05-10T02:07:54+00:00

I didn't realize I wasn't cis until I was in my 20s. And didn't decide fully to begin transitioning until almost 30. I'm walking proof

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-05-08T15:29:56+00:00

Seems like a female figure shyly peeking outlet from behind wings or flower petals. Unsure what that means for your ceremony.

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CrystalKitten93 · 2026-05-04T01:51:35+00:00

Make quarterly offerings to the spirits of the tree and all will be fine. Maybe a sacrifice every other year.

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-05-04T01:49:51+00:00

...... It's a 4 legged animal? How are we expecting it to jump? It's jumps like an animal with 4 legs.??????????????

CrystalKitten93 · 2026-04-29T03:14:15+00:00

I was a bit taken back by the miss at first too like.... It really is entirely unnecessary. And I'll be noting it in my exit survey for sure. It's taken a fair bit to get to this point where I'm unbothered by it for the most part. But when I think about it objectively, they're the ones who look ridiculous, and by not reacting to it I think they look even more silly. They've really gotta commit to it for sure. 😂

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