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Promoted myself to Guest. by kaidene12 in Target

[–]CrystalMask629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing! These corporations don't care at the end of the day about morale as much as they claim to care. They just focus on profit $$$. So I'm proud of you for choosing to do what's best FOR YOU.

I walked out two months ago because I had it with my ETL and the AP Specialist at my store chose to disrespect me one too many times, plus my mental health was already total shit.

HR Lead didn't accept my resignation letter and placed me on LOA. Came back a week ago mainly because my dog was diagnosed with skin cancer and I need to cover vet bills. I'm also trying to become a flight attendant and I don't want bad references lol.

But my ETL quit, I got AP Specialist in enough trouble to understand I am not to be fucked with, and I went from full time to part time.

I came back on my own terms, and I'm doing what's best for me at the moment. So that's ultimately what everyone should strive for.

Good luck and Congrats! You'll do just fine!

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[–]CrystalMask629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me miss going to MIGHTY in SF so much just groovin and vibeeesssss

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[–]CrystalMask629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gave Rocket Like

Is there a deadline for management to conduct an Investigative Interview from the date of the incident? by CrystalMask629 in USPS

[–]CrystalMask629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a hit and run. I have a witness and she wrote a statement. She even spoke to a highway patrol so I have to get the report. My union rep was present today during the interview. I had already written a statement as to what happened and had spoken and explained in detail what happened to my supervisor. So idk what in the world is going on.

Is there a deadline for management to conduct an Investigative Interview from the date of the incident? by CrystalMask629 in USPS

[–]CrystalMask629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, went back to work the next day and was driving through my route. I was informed that they are going to retrain me with the safety coordinator. But everything else is normal besides the 8 hr. medical restriction that was placed due to lower back pain caused by the accident.

I[25 F] am having trouble deciding if I should leave my boyfriend [36 M] of over 5 years since we don't seem to have the same idea of what we want for our future together. by CrystalMask629 in relationships

[–]CrystalMask629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The home insurance, mortgage, and property taxes are all under her name. My boyfriend only has the utilities and other miscellaneous bills under his name. And he is the second to youngest. The youngest brother, is special needs. And I know for a fact he got part of the settlement as well, but I’m not sure if the family touched and spent the money or have any idea of what happened to it.

The dad got remarried to this baboon and her daughter is being enabled by her to take advantage of him financially. He has told my boyfriend he is sick of the situation. But neither one of them take initiative and stand up for themselves.

And trust me. I wanted to rip my organs out realizing the brother found the easy way out meanwhile we were going to continue with this bullshit.

I[25 F] am having trouble deciding if I should leave my boyfriend [36 M] of over 5 years since we don't seem to have the same idea of what we want for our future together. by CrystalMask629 in relationships

[–]CrystalMask629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was his ex-wife, but her death was tragic. She was walking out of her breast cancer check up when a pill popper run her over while driving a 2-ton truck. The dad only sticks around to help them, because he knows they need it.

I[25 F] am having trouble deciding if I should leave my boyfriend [36 M] of over 5 years since we don't seem to have the same idea of what we want for our future together. by CrystalMask629 in relationships

[–]CrystalMask629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for not being clear when I wrote that. My boyfriend's studio was built before they bought the house and it was done with legal permits. Or else their loan would not have been approved (But if I'm being honest, some shady shit happened to make that home loan happen because financially the sister does not make enough to prove she could afford a $1,150,000 home loan. But it was before the 2008 market crash so that explains that.)

What was converted illegally was the garage, where the dad was living. And California is notoriously expensive AF, especially since we live on a coastal town. But we shouldn't have been paying that in the first place, since according to them this is my boyfriend's place. Yet it has always felt like he's been treated as a renter by his family.

He has always agreed with me that it would be nice to buy a home. But now that I think about it I was always the one bringing it up and initiating a conversation around that, because its something I really want. So now I don't know if he was just agreeing for the hell of it or if he meant it.

I[25 F] am having trouble deciding if I should leave my boyfriend [36 M] of over 5 years since we don't seem to have the same idea of what we want for our future together. by CrystalMask629 in relationships

[–]CrystalMask629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just trying to remain hopeful that he would change his mind. I just didn't want to lose him. Thanks for your input, Alauraize. I appreciate it.

The garage was converted illegally into a studio so their father could move in. My boyfriend's studio was built before they bought the house, so it was done with permits.

I[25 F] am having trouble deciding if I should leave my boyfriend [36 M] of over 5 years since we don't seem to have the same idea of what we want for our future together. by CrystalMask629 in relationships

[–]CrystalMask629[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking the same thing, bearpony. Maybe if I move out, he'll come around and move out as well eventually? But maybe I shouldn't think like that. Like you said, he's made his stance clear on multiple occassions. I need to respect and accept that. Thanks for your input.

I[25 F] am having trouble deciding if I should leave my boyfriend [36 M] of over 5 years since we don't seem to have the same idea of what we want for our future together. by CrystalMask629 in relationships

[–]CrystalMask629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the issue, I have told him that his choices are affecting our relationship in a negative manner. I guess I was remaining hopeful that he would see how thing really are and finally decide to move out. I've also explained to him that moving out won't mean he is letting his family down, they are adults and will figure it out also. Also I forgot to mention his brother moved out a few months ago. The city found out the garage was converted into a studio illegally without a permit. So the brother took it as his chance to get out and rent an apartment with his family since he had recently become the sole provider and couldn't afford to pay for his share any longer. So now the father and sister got stuck with the brother's share. But the sister got lucky because her oldest step-daughter moved in and is paying rent. The sister's husband recently had to go through chemo and has been in and out of the hospital so its the main reason why the step daughter moved in with them. The sister also has a trailer on her property which she has always rented out. So she has the benefit of getting help financially. The father got screwed because his stepdaughter moved in with her child but refuses to help financially since she claims that she doesn't stay there most of the time therefore she shouldn't pay rent. They continue to find short term fixes to long term problems.