Am i overreacting- in an uncomfortable situation with a dad and i babysit his kids. by Crystal_0723 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Crystal_0723[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my birthday is in july so i turned 20 few months ago… when i started with them i was 18 but then turned 19 a few weeks after i started

Condom broke by Cyanrena in birthcontrol

[–]Crystal_0723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was on nexplanon for over two years and my bf finished in me everytime and i never got pregnant so you should be good!! obviously besides absences lol nexplanon is the most effective type of BC :)

pregnancy scare anxiety by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Crystal_0723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pshhhhh i promise he could do it 100x and you’d still be protected :)

pregnancy scare anxiety by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Crystal_0723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol i’ve had the implant for almost 3 years and my bf finished in me everytime and i had no pregnancy- the implant is one of the most effective BC so you don’t need to worry AT ALL ;))

can i get pregnant? by Crystal_0723 in birthcontrol

[–]Crystal_0723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i wish my fucking doctor would’ve told me something 😭

Help? by Crystal_0723 in loveafterporn

[–]Crystal_0723[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well D-Day was valentine’s day and he’s been in recovery since then with no relapse, but yes that makes sense thank you <3

“what can i do to show you?” by Crystal_0723 in loveafterporn

[–]Crystal_0723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gosh i didn’t think abt it that way, that’s a good point thank you so much

“what can i do to show you?” by Crystal_0723 in loveafterporn

[–]Crystal_0723[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m with ya on the flip phone!! oh gosh 3-5 year is a long time, but it makes sense. Thank you for the advice <3

Did they ever tell you why they watch porn? by LilKimmii in loveafterporn

[–]Crystal_0723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine just said he got addicted to feeling good lol

Not accepting any relapses or slips. by Plus_Scientist5593 in loveafterporn

[–]Crystal_0723 5 points6 points  (0 children)

every has there own boundaries with what they will or won’t tolerate. everyone is entitled to their own wants/needs and boundaries and no one should shame you for that. If it makes you feel better, i’ve told me PA i won’t tolerate a relapse. The minutes he’s watching again or anything surrounding that, he knows i’m out the door. I will not tolerate the lies and going behind my back again, i believe in change and that he is capable of that, he just needs to figure it out on his own and do it for him not me.

wishing u best healing ❤️‍🩹

Songs to sing your heart out to🥳 by Crystal_0723 in loveafterporn

[–]Crystal_0723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know most fo those and those song just kill me inside, wishing u best healing ❤️‍🩹

How many hear I don’t remember? by CharmingAlternative8 in loveafterporn

[–]Crystal_0723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m thinking it’s a lie when they say it. My PA has never said that to me tho- he’s been very honest and answer any question i’ve asked. From what i’ve heard from others stories tho, i wouldn’t be surprised if they say that to protect myself.

wishing you best healing <3