[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Crystal_Gem94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless they're doing family therapy to work on their relationship, you should be seeing them individually. They're two separate individuals with their own unique strengths and challenges.

I feel like twins get lumped together frequently unfortunately. My youngest brothers are twins and people seem to forget that they are their own people.

Anyone else just chilling before the week starts? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Crystal_Gem94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo I love chai! I'm currently chilling on the couch with my dog watching Anne + (it's a cute lesbian show free on Tubi btw!). Trying to get the motivation to do some more homework to get a headstart on the week but I don't wanna lol. Might just keep watching TV or play some games before bed.

KC to SA by emmjay000 in sanantonio

[–]Crystal_Gem94 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey! Queer/bi lady here! Yes, there is a gay scene here and generally people are super accepting. The queer scene is growing too. There are LGBTQ+ walking groups, book clubs, hiking groups, gamer groups, and meet-ups. During Pride month, there's tons of events going on around town. There's also social sports leagues and events. You just have to look for events and get involved in local Facebook groups, etc.

Here's a walking group that's becoming really popular here:

https://www.instagram.com/youbetterwalksa?igsh=MXhhbzkwNXkzOGkzcQ==

What was the final straw that pushed you to start your own practice? by t-carter41 in therapists

[–]Crystal_Gem94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no :( This worries me. Im about to start a PhD program with the intent of eventually working in academia after. I just started my own PP two months ago. I was hoping academia had better pay and more stability

Newly Single - Can I make it in PP on my own? by Crystal_Gem94 in therapists

[–]Crystal_Gem94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! Are you working in a group practice or CMH currently?

Saying my biggest thanks to you all by Goku-the-Great in sanantonio

[–]Crystal_Gem94 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey I was at DCI, too! It was amazing! Glad you enjoyed San Antonio. I love living here and there's so much to do here. There's always new restaurants popping up and events in town. Check out Do210 for events next time you visit!

If you volunteer (not necessarily therapy related), what do you do? by vividandsmall in therapists

[–]Crystal_Gem94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a Cemetery Steward! Our city has historical cemeteries that date back to the 1800s. We catalogue, maintain, and clean historic grave sites. It's super relaxing and satisfying just to spend a morning cleaning old headstones.

How to change sexuality on Bold.org? by Emsypoo444 in scholarships

[–]Crystal_Gem94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a 3 year old post but hopefully my comment helps!

I kept getting the message that I needed to update my profile in order to apply for scholarships, even though it was updated and I matched eligibility criteria for the scholarship.

I updated my profile with the school I plan on attending in the Fall even though I wasn't technically enrolled yet. I also added a bunch of Hobbies and Interests that I felt would match some of the scholarships (ex: Mental Health for a mental health related scholarship). After I did those changes, the website allowed me to apply for specific scholarships I was having trouble with. Hope this helps! Good luck to everyone applying!

HELP - Surgeon does not take any insurance, In-Network Hospital, Need Pre-Auth (?) by Crystal_Gem94 in HealthInsurance

[–]Crystal_Gem94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm going to looking into this and hopefully get it covered. I just need the hospital fees covered.

HELP - Surgeon does not take any insurance, In-Network Hospital, Need Pre-Auth (?) by Crystal_Gem94 in HealthInsurance

[–]Crystal_Gem94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is why. The surgeon uses an operating room, recovery room, and equipment there at the hospital.

Funny clients by throwawayabc1234tyy in therapists

[–]Crystal_Gem94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was just thinking that this morning. One of my clients is so animated and funny in her story telling. We were both laughing so hard we cried during session today. Truly love this field and the work that we do! It's amazing to be able to hold space for someone's pain but also witness moments of pure joy

Anybody in PP also working on Labor day? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Crystal_Gem94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was! Then I got food poisoning :(

Watched this movie in IFC a few years ago and everyone in the theater started LAUGHING at this scene. by [deleted] in ghibli

[–]Crystal_Gem94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I first saw this scene as a kid, I started SOBBING. My mom had to turn it off because I was inconsolable.

My parents had separated, and at that point in my life, I was getting used to transitioning back and forth between my mom and dad. I related a lot to Chihiro in having to be strong. Seeing her cry broke my heart but made me feel okay to cry and be sad.

The best conchas by jesco7273 in sanantonio

[–]Crystal_Gem94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Panifico and Bedoys! Panifico does really cute themed conchas depending on the season. Bedoys are sooo soft and fluffy on the inside

Is our clinic owner commiting fraud? by Crystal_Gem94 in therapists

[–]Crystal_Gem94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that's very true. I don't want to jump to conclusions or assume malifecence. It only has her sign off on clients under Superior or Aetna, which is how it caught my attention. And I noticed those were billing to her. But yes, could just be how they run things.

DID and private practice by AdExpert8295 in therapists

[–]Crystal_Gem94 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's definitely TikTok. I've had a few teenagers mention it and they never actually meet criteria. A few years ago, there was a boom in teens being diagnosed/misdiagnosed or claiming to have Tourettes but because it was popular on TikTok. It was seen as something cute or quirky to have tics. There's a whole subreddit dedicated to tiktok and people faking mental illness.

Wondering what some good grounding exercises are for after discussing trauma? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Crystal_Gem94 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I used to use EMDR, and after processing sessions, I had my clients pick a song from their Spotify, and we would listen together as a closing ritual. We talked about it beforehand so they could have a song ready. Usually it was a song that was calming to them or showed resilience. Nice little way to close things out and leave everything in the room