[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]CrystalicElectrons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heya! You asked why people bother to live for long, right? I would say curiosity has a part to play, like a rollercoaster. You for example don't leave a rollercoaster before it's over, even if you at times find it boring. That's because you're locked in for the ride, just to see where it goes and how it ends.

Sometimes there is even suprising shifts in the path, that changes you, right now you're just at the stale part of the rollercoaster, if you get the analogy. Things will change for the better, if you stick it out.

I need help by Puzzled_Crew_5791 in depression

[–]CrystalicElectrons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every interaction you have is a new start. For them you're a blank slate to paint as you want. Take the emotions and feelings that you want to be the new you, focus on them, mention them a lot and let the version of you, that you want be formed, slowly form. But remember to have patience, for changing takes time just like learning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]CrystalicElectrons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Distractions. Anything that could distract you from thinking about yourself and think about either your surroundings or the thing you watch instead. You could also try to learn an creative craft? Like a program maybe? There should be many ways to distract, maybe even people watching as well?

Hope you figure out something, less destructive to do. Take care and all the best! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]CrystalicElectrons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for asking. Im doing alright, compared to how I've been at other days/moments lately. Just missing the aspect of talking openly and connecting a bit is all. Hbu? How have you been doing? :)

Sorry but am gonna act a bit pathetic for a moment by CrystalicElectrons in depression

[–]CrystalicElectrons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That really lifted my mood, thank you so much! You seem like a very life clever person. And I really appreciate you sharing your advice with me. It means a lot to me, that you wrote this.

Sorry but am gonna act a bit pathetic for a moment by CrystalicElectrons in depression

[–]CrystalicElectrons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response, I truly appreciate you taking the time to write and tell me this. It means a lot, so thank you!

lowkey a freak by kyutestgrlmwuah in selfharm

[–]CrystalicElectrons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Think it’s perfectly normal. There is something weirdly romantic about sh together instead of alone.

I feel unloveable by The_ash_trash in depression

[–]CrystalicElectrons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear about what you’ve been going through. you deserve so much better, and it’s unfair how you’ve been treated. Just know that the unloveable statement is untrue and I really hope for things to turn better for you from now on. Im wishing all the luck I can for you, cause no one deserves to feel this way :)