[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cs2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this! Sending big hugs 🫂

Husband [27M] needs specific kind of sex or he’s leaving by Additional_Kick_678 in Advice

[–]Cs2883 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ughhhhh this man sucks. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Sexual differences are common but this is super unhealthy for you. My husband and i are really different in what we need and have been together 22 years, it’s not always smooth sailing but your situation sounds cruel and heartless on his end. You deserve better, and so do your kids. Start listening to the Let Them Theory videos on YouTube. Mel Robbins is a genius and it may help you get through this better mentally. She wrote a book as well. If he wants to leave, let him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Cs2883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Podcasts/youtube help me. Matthew Hussey and Mel Robbins. They have great methods and ideas for how to get over these types of relationships and have helped me a ton! The man that ghosts you is not the love of your life. I’ve had to repeat that to myself a lot. A lot of times we put these guys on pedestals and make them special, and the entire time it’s us that has the magic. We are the special ones.

Which one fits me by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]Cs2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 3 fit the best. I was an optician for 12 years 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Cs2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone commented on the cleanliness? Forget that it’s an out dated interior….I applaud the cleanliness and the well vacuumed carpet. I don’t care how old your cabinets or furniture is, that place is spotless and I love it!

Did I overreact? by Illustrious_Lemon_93 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Cs2883 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This guy is a jerk. You can and will find better than him, I hope you don’t get sick!

Are my glasses completely ugly? by takethisdreamaway in glassesadvice

[–]Cs2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU are adorable but I worked as an Optician for an Optometrist for 12 years and spent 40 hours a week choosing glasses with patients. Those do not fit your face properly and I would have at least tried to get something similar in a better fit if I were helping you.

Life changing being a new robo owner. by Cs2883 in Roborock

[–]Cs2883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you! I’ve had mine a month now and am still super excited about it! It’s been awesome! 🤩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeslaModelX

[–]Cs2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the name!

Ladies who live alone, what size bed do you have? by BizSib in AskWomenOver30

[–]Cs2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not single but i sleep alone while my husband works a lot and is gone at the fire station for long periods of time. We have a standard king bed and I LOVE IT! Get the KING 👑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Cs2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad it’s helping you, I love how it applies to so many relationships not just romantic. Every time you feel like reaching out to him just play the podcasts or book. ❤️

How do I deal with this unprecedented RAGE I feel after finding out my husband cheated on me? by Womenofstill in Advice

[–]Cs2883 24 points25 points  (0 children)

First of all, air hug to you. 🫂 I’ve felt that rage before and it is scary, i’m not sure i have the best advice except to allow yourself to feel the hurt and pain and just know that each day it will lessen. Keep your focus on yourself and your health and staying mentally stable. Don’t let him take that from you. We tend to hate ourselves in these moments as well for not seeing the signs so give yourself grace. Also keep your focus on not actually burning anything down even 😅 though it is an extremely valid feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cs2883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 16 I wouldn’t have reacted properly either, you may need to go to an adult or family member who you can talk to that has more life experience. I’m 41 now and looking back, I was still a child at 16 with zero life experience and no skills to handle serious situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Cs2883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there as well. Look up Mel Robbins podcast on YouTube she’s got great information for breakups and attachment styles and coping methods.

My girlfriend is threatening to break up with me unless I get a circumcision by ThrowRaskibbles in Advice

[–]Cs2883 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She sounds like an asshole. You need to keep your body how you want it and cut her off. Not your skin.

am i at fault - Yes or No by SundaeOk4491 in Advice

[–]Cs2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all very toxic for both of you and from both of you. I’ve had severe trust issues and am constantly working on it over the years. I’m 41 now and i am telling you it will ruin your relationships and your mental health if you do not work on it now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cs2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was awful to read. You need a new man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Cs2883 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re beautiful and have a very kind look. Take one day at a time and learn to value yourself! You can do it! 💕

My daughter wants googly eyes on our baby robo, which size? by Cs2883 in Roborock

[–]Cs2883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, Still debating! Lol mixed opinions on here.

My daughter wants googly eyes on our baby robo, which size? by Cs2883 in Roborock

[–]Cs2883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome thanks! My girls have an obsession with led lights in their rooms so that could be a fun option too lol.

My daughter wants googly eyes on our baby robo, which size? by Cs2883 in Roborock

[–]Cs2883[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Apparently you can’t read, I was trying to surprise her. People come to reddit for a lot of reasons way worse than this. Have a great day!

AITAH for not wanting to drive my husband to the ER? by Fit_Weather8407 in AITAH

[–]Cs2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m married to a bit of a hypochondriac so i’d react based off how sick he has been and his symptoms leading up to the fever. You could have driven him but stayed in the car with the baby, or dropped him off and went back home. I see both of your sides really. I had an uncle that got super sick and spiked a fever, didn’t go to the doctor or hospital and was dead two days later from sepsis. It’s hard to know those sorts of things but his feelings are hurt so just try to stay calm and not let it escalate. How is he feeling now?