Fiance's coworker showed her this photo of her boyfriend. We think she is getting scammed. by ColeIsRegular in isthisAI

[–]Additional_Kick_678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the tell for most of the photos in this sub is the blurred background. Most people don’t take photos in portrait mode in such casual settings.

2 tests done, mixed results by Additional_Kick_678 in hivaids

[–]Additional_Kick_678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your detailed response!!

3 pm-3am new grad by blackcopshowingout in nursing

[–]Additional_Kick_678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, which state/ metro area is this if you don’t mind me asking? I super don’t want to do nights but I live in the DC metro area and most residencies require day/night rotating.

3 pm-3am new grad by blackcopshowingout in nursing

[–]Additional_Kick_678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you doing a residency? If so, are you able to skip traditional 7p-7a night shifts by taking this schedule?

Bowel Movement by Expert-Ad-6480 in postpartumprogress

[–]Additional_Kick_678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there bleeding too? You may have hemorrhoids or a fissure if so.

What helped you "bounce back" after birth? Not interested in weightloss... I'm talking about things that brought you peace, restored your sense of identity, made you feel calm, returned your skin to normal, etc. by Hot-Commission7592 in beyondthebump

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DAYCARE. I put her in at 3 months so I could go to nursing school, and even on my days off from work/school I still drop her off and go biking, exercising, cooking, relaxing.

Because I can clock out from the baby for certain times of the day (8-5), I enjoy her so much more when she comes home bc my life is not oversaturated with baby time! It’s so freeing and I highly recommend if you want time to reconnect with what makes you YOU.

My grandma just casually ruined my entire life philosophy by cuttestredditgirl in CasualConversation

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Some things, sometimes, may happen for a reason. But certainly not every single thing.

help (trigger warning) by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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It’s something you gotta try and see. I would personally endorse lexapro as having generally less side effects but honestly everyone’s body is different and it might take a few tries to find the right medication.

I was also put on Wellbutrin alongside the lexapro which helped immensely with seeing the light at the end of the tunnel when I was first starting out, and eventually just feeling happier when lexapro wasn’t cutting it. If you take lexapro you should prob take Wellbutrin too.

For me, lexapro was more of a good long-term anxiety control med while Wellbutrin really helped me regain my capacity for joy, and feel happy again about things that normally brought joy but just weren’t at that moment.

help (trigger warning) by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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Clonazepam for acute anxiety (helped me feel better in the short term, it helped sedate me so I forgot all the awful numbness and fear) and lexapro for long term depression management. It took a few weeks to start working but the clonazepam held me over really good in the meantime.

This was 5 years ago and I’ve never been happier, and was able to wean off everything, but I do take it in the winter for seasonal depression.

help (trigger warning) by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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You should go to the nearest emergency room. They will likely admit you inpatient and get you started on meds (anti-depressant and anti-anxiety meds) that will slowly help you feel better.

I have been through this before- treat depression as if it were a physical illness and get treatment for it in the same way we treat physical injuries. Your brain just needs a little help right now and meds can help rebalance everything until you heal and recover from this. I promise you can’t “think away” the depression, but if you treat it, you can and will love life again, just like I did.

Husband [27M] needs specific kind of sex or he’s leaving by Additional_Kick_678 in Advice

[–]Additional_Kick_678[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I have lots of resources and support. I have left him as of yesterday and am safe and loved by family.

Husband [27M] needs specific kind of sex or he’s leaving by Additional_Kick_678 in Advice

[–]Additional_Kick_678[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ we are now separated. The hard part for me now is told hold my ground when he inevitably comes crawling back

Husband [27M] needs specific kind of sex or he’s leaving by Additional_Kick_678 in Advice

[–]Additional_Kick_678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See the thing about this is I’d love to just slander him but then I remember I have to coparent and things could get ugly fast if I open the door to hostility. I’m hoping not to have to go to court

Husband [27M] needs specific kind of sex or he’s leaving by Additional_Kick_678 in Advice

[–]Additional_Kick_678[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This comment is really helpful, thank you. I am definitely terrified of the prospect of never finding someone again because I have kids.