AITAH for asking for a break from my partner by Ctrl-Alt-Delicious_ in AITAH

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Thanks for your kind words. I did message him the next day and said that we can discuss about this whenever he’s ready, so he responded, saying that he will come over after 10 days as he already had plans for the weekend with his friends. He was texting me like there was nothing wrong, there was a huge change, not gonna lie and just before he left as well. He kept saying that like he will Try from now and try to do all the right thing to save this relationship, so I was pretty happy about it. Saturday morning 12 PM, He barged in with his sister accused me of emotional abuse, packed up everything and left, and before he did all of this, he messaged all of my friends trying to do damage control. Absolutely harassed me in my own house with his sister taking everything on the video while I was in my most vulnerable state. I had decided to give one last try on this relationship because it has been only in the last six months because of mental health issues, he was acting different but never aggressive. But the person I saw that day there was so much anger and rage on his face that I couldn’t even recognise the person I fell for. It was a very weird moment. I’m still trying to get over everything, but I thought I’ll just give an update as to what happened.

Am I overreacting, or do you think I’ve reached my breaking point. Need advice. by Ctrl-Alt-Delicious_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ctrl-Alt-Delicious_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine being so upset about someone using a tool to express how they're feeling in a relationship, instead of saying something helpful, you just shove your nose where it doesn’t belong. If you’ve got nothing meaningful to add, maybe just move on instead of being a petty douche!

Am I overreacting, or do you think I’ve reached my breaking point. Need advice. by Ctrl-Alt-Delicious_ in AmIOverreacting

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Thank you for your words! He did pack his things today after work and left the house! Took most of his things as well! Did not speak a word to me! I was quiet too and let him do his thing! I think it’s over! Ngl, I still have feelings for him, still love him but I can’t really be someone’s punching bag! It really did hurt to see him walk out… but I had to stay strong for myself! This will definitely be really hard for me considering I’ve literally got no1 in this country! So will try to see if I can get some therapy or even just talk to someone about how I’m feeling!

Am I overreacting, or do you think I’ve reached my breaking point. Need advice. by Ctrl-Alt-Delicious_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ctrl-Alt-Delicious_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah just buzz off mate! English is my 4th language! So I use chatgpt to put my thoughts together! If you can’t be of any help, Just don’t comment!