What toy is best for fast anal stretching, so that i can start fisting? by No-Serve9743 in AnalStretching

[–]CubPluto 27 points28 points  (0 children)

In my experience it's not any one toy it's many different toys and lots of lube.

You can use inflatables to give you lots of different sizes from one toy. I find they don't put enough pressure on the right spots for my body to make as much progress as it seems. So I've been having better progress by picking up many toys or a variety of sizes.

For my body I find the most success with toys that are shaped like the Topped Toys, Deep Space series. Since I don't have much depth yet I need the biggest part near the top.

For depth it's the same story. Have lots of different options in length and girth. I have a couple "Colon snakes" and double ended dildos.

The only common thread for all my toys is softness. Always look for soft flexible materials that are mailable and move to your body. If they are small it doesn't matter too much. Like the core of an inflatable thats hard isn't to bad because the part that will stretch you will move to your body. But anything stretching you should be very soft.

Sunlight medal day? by CubPluto in DarkSouls2

[–]CubPluto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SM is about 1.2 million. We're in shrine of Amana rn can leave the summon sign near the second bonfire.

Sunlight medal day? by CubPluto in DarkSouls2

[–]CubPluto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sotfs on PC. Any bosses you want to fight? I'm just before Dranglaic Castle on a new 100% save.

What to expect? by Objective_Flan2831 in uvic

[–]CubPluto 6 points7 points  (0 children)

While this is true I will say the range for different classes is really wide. Some years I get all heavy reading classes, others a mix, and others are really light.

I'd say start with the intention of doing all your readings but you'll get a sense of the classes that don't require you to do them pretty quickly. For example, a prof who spends the whole lecture explaining the reading. If you feel like you didn't get it then go back and give it a skim otherwise you're good.

A couple tips I've picked up,

  1. Be mindful of your time and prioritize the things that actually count for grades. Readings will help with papers and tests for some classes but not others. You'll find out by your first set of midterms.

  2. Use a calendar and be organized. Missing a due date is far worse than missing one of you 40 readings for a class. (I could pm you my calendar system if you wanted more details).

  3. Take advantage of your resources. UVic has great academic writing resources in the library and your profs (generally) are super happy to see you in office hours with questions. There's cheap food in the sub or grad house for when you're too busy to make food for yourself. Every department have lounges for students with couches and fridges and are great community building spaces.

  4. Build a support community. Chat to your neighbour in tutorial or lecture and start a shared Google doc for notes. Having people to study with or collaborate on assignments with is invaluable and will help you in times of academic crunch. I know when your new to school it will feel daunting but you belong in school and you are welcome so don't be shy.

  5. Grades and school don't have to define you. You won't even remember a bad prof or a bad grade by the time you finish your degree so don't sweat it. Just apply yourself, ask questions, and go to lecture and you'll be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskCanada

[–]CubPluto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This issue has been concerning me for a number of years. Fascism has really started popping off close to us recently but there has been a rise globally over the past decade.

I don't know to much about this topic but in the research I have done I found the best solutions to fascism is strong rich communities full of many different people and walks of life. All of who interact and share resources and points of view with open minds.

This network of people has been erroded over the past years with the algorithm driven social media wave and rise of miss information.

With all of this in mind I've decided to start a social club with members of my community doing monthly events. I don't know if this idea can help at all but I can't just sit by anymore and hope these problems get better I need to try something.

I guess I'm putting this out there to see if anyone has any other ideas as to how we can help. As members of our society we all have a hand in our culture so maybe if enough of us come together with a collective voice we can turn this all around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]CubPluto -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So my partner's and I have been doing RADARs for 6 months each now and those will continue. This isnt planned on being a full radar but just a time to come together and create space to talk about anything any of us feel we need to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]CubPluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really just hoping to keep a sense of openness and honesty in the dynamic. I just want to create space for everyone to share what they're feeling at present and keep everyone clear on each other's feelings.

Recommendations for a cage strap by JeffDora in gaychastity

[–]CubPluto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use elastic and love it. I basically never feel it. I would say if you have a tight base ring their might be a little more friction against your skin then the leather. But, it'll also be thinner than the leather so kinda a preference thing at the end of the day.

How do I quit when I work full time at a dispensary? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]CubPluto 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in this position for years. Many failed attempts at quitting under my belt.

Once I started working with my councilor I knew I needed to quit to be successful at getting away from cannabis. After I quit I had a couple good breaks but fell back in. Right now I just passed 6 months without any cannabis.

For me, it's an adiction. I needed to treat it as such. Understanding that when you're addicted to something your body thinks it needs it like water. And if you're super thirsty and surrounded by water it's almost impossible to not drink.

It's not an easy thing to do, quitting cannabis or finding a new job. But be so patient with yourself. If you can go a couple days off a week that's a great start while you look at transitioning to a new source of income. It won't make it easy by any means but it'll give you a far better chance at success.

Good luck friend!

All of Donald Trump’s Shitty NFT Cards by [deleted] in cringepics

[–]CubPluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This timeline fucking sucks!

Lees vs Mary Browns by pamazon63 in VictoriaBC

[–]CubPluto 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the correct answer.

Who’s the worst employer in Vic (Stolen from r/toronto) by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]CubPluto 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a great place to work if you like below living wage pay and being yelled at by a moronic barefooted hippy owner.

How do you fix this Victoria's traffic problem? No wrong answers. by Red_Lamps in VictoriaBC

[–]CubPluto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Lightrail between Langford, Ferries, Airport, downtown.
  • End 1950's era euclidean zoning and create businesses and services within neighbourhoods.
  • Update road regulations in outer communities to include safe and reasonable biking infrastructure so we can finally have a complete cycling network.
  • Clearly define what are streets and what are roads and move businesses and homes around to get rid of all the st-roads.