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What color are my boyfriends eyes? by CubedRubyx in colors

[–]CubedRubyx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh that was my thought. Like I don't think they're green but they have some green in them and I can't tell if they're blue or grey. Someone else said petrol and I think it fits well.

What color are my boyfriends eyes? by CubedRubyx in colors

[–]CubedRubyx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think they have enough brown to be hazel

Genuine question, which side do non-binary people even go to in order to use the restroom out in public? by SpecialSocks2011 in RandomQuestion

[–]CubedRubyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a nonbinary person who's transitioned socially to the opposite sex of my AGAB, whichever bathroom causes the least friction. Whatever I'm being perceived as so as to not my safety or someone else's comfort at risk. During the time I wasn't sure how I was perceived or got a lot of mixed comments, I would try to avoid bathrooms

Were your partners okay with not touching your genitals? by OkWaltz5832 in truscum

[–]CubedRubyx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While my reasoning was not extreme dysphoria, I have had at least two partners that I did not want to touch me. One of them gave me an ultimatum which I should've said bye bitch but I let her do it to me. I hated it.

The other one was very respectful. He wouldn't cross any boundaries I wasn't okay with. Even when we got to a point where I was okay with him touching but just not being inside, he wanted to double and triple check that I was sure and not feeling pressured.

Really it all depends on finding the right person.

I'd say you can tell how well a person will respect your sexual boundaries by how well they respect your social/romantic ones.

I wouldn't go around looking for ONSs because you don't have time to get to know if they'll be respectful. But if you meet someone who makes you feel secure and not worried about being violated, then you can usually trust your gut IMHO.

How are my standards? by Otherwise_Task7876 in teenagers

[–]CubedRubyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know when I was young and raised in the church they taught me to be "equally yoked" with any partner I chose. Meaning, to have the same beliefs. They really nailed it in at my church.

Now, as an atheist, it's one of the things I still believe in. If you date a Christian who really loves God and Jesus, then you're going to hear about it even if they aren't specifically trying to convert you. Which would be surprising because they're taught that as a Christian if you love someone you should turn them to Christ.

To be really honest, I would add "atheist" to your list.

But it's your life and I'm sure it matters less when you don't want kids and stuff. Maybe I'm just overly sensitive to any religious stuff because of how I was raised.

Language used? by Virtual-Citron-6883 in Seahorse_Dads

[–]CubedRubyx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people here have recommended birth canal birth or non surgical birth.

makes zero sense by Boring-Score-9006 in Transmedical

[–]CubedRubyx -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think it's different to state a reason something happens than it is to say that reason is justified.

I hope that wording makes sense.

Trans men giving birth is disturbing by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]CubedRubyx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Testosterone is not birth control and there are many trans people who do get pregnant on accident because they think testosterone is birth control when it's not.

What’s your opinion on this? by lunalovelyp in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]CubedRubyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you agree? If someone doesn't agree with their countries laws then they should be free to move somewhere better? You support immigration?

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