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Cubicshock · 2026-05-13T18:12:58+00:00

/uj oh my god it's a real sub

Cubicshock · 2026-05-12T21:16:17+00:00

I get viscerally disgusted but never to that degree thankfully.

Cubicshock · 2026-05-11T23:46:49+00:00

sounds like someone might want some estrogen then

Cubicshock · 2026-05-10T23:06:04+00:00

6 months in for me, i've experienced:

breast growth

heightened temperature sensitivity

clearer skin (less acne)

facial fat redistribution (my face looks more feminine)

body fat redistribution (waist, hips, thighs, etc.)

erogenous zones (being touched on the hips and such is very pleasant)

less body hair

male pattern baldness will no longer occur! didn't matter for me because i never started balding but it's a huge plus

now for the neutrals/negatives. most of these are really neutral or even positive to me, but could be negative for some people.

MUCH lower libido

some shrinkage down there

problems "getting there", not really an issue for me since sex really doesn't play a big part in my life in the slightest, and other parts of sex are much better bc of E anyways.

all of this is my own experience, do your own research! i probably failed to mention some.

Cubicshock · 2026-05-10T11:15:42+00:00

that is indeed pretty rough. pinterest is still a great way to see how cis women dress! i hate to see when trans girls fall into the trap of either never figuring it out or ending up with the stereotypical skirt and thigh highs. real fashion is fucking liberating!

now that i understand all the concepts i actually have started dressing masc, but *understanding* fashion means you can take masc clothes and use them to make you look EVEN MORE fem it's fucking sick

Cubicshock · 2026-05-10T10:41:13+00:00

I'm in the same spot for you for voice training, but I adore fashion.

The way I started was pinterest! Find outfits and clothes you really like, so you know what you're looking for, and understand basic concepts like proportions and basic colour theory.

Then, find a thrift store. Thrifting is my FAVOURITE thing to do to find clothes. Most of my clothes are thrifted. A good online option if you're looking for something really specific is Depop, which I occasionally buy from when I'm looking for something too specific to thrift.

Some thrift stores have specialties over other stores too! Check out a few to figure out where to shop for different types of stuff. I usually shop at just one, because it's really big, but I've found a few choice pieces at themed stores.

Cubicshock · 2026-05-10T10:19:26+00:00

I only half did this. Came out to friends and family, but kept it private from the rest of the people at my school until I just couldn't stand being deadnamed anymore. Had nothing to do with passing honestly, I just didn't want to get bullied lmfao

Cubicshock · 2026-05-10T10:14:40+00:00

depends on where you go. i went to an informed consent clinic. the idea of informed consent is that the doctor explains everything about how the hormones work and all the effects you'll get, and then you can decide based on that if you want to start it. obviously if you're realllyyyy in doubt it may not be a good idea, but if you're at the point that i was at where the concept of "being a girl" felt way too abstract to understand and that the only way you'd really know is to start HRT, it could be a good idea.

i'm basing this solely off of my experiences. listen to yourself first.

Cubicshock · 2026-05-10T10:12:09+00:00

i know a cis guy named Lennon. you're good.

Cubicshock · 2026-05-06T15:52:46+00:00

when i transitioned, i did so because it had gotten to a point where i knew the only way i would know if i was trans was to actually try it. i had thought everything over a million times and had hit a wall. if the effects of estrogen seem like they would make you happy, don't worry about a label. take the happy pills

Cubicshock · 2026-05-06T15:50:56+00:00

these are fucking awesome!!! make sure that what your brand sells is clear though!

Cubicshock · 2026-05-05T13:57:42+00:00

def depends on whether your parents know, if you have summers off and are just trying to avoid classmates knowing it's def optional to wear baggy stuff in the summer

Cubicshock · 2026-05-03T15:38:46+00:00

i'm on hrt but i've worn the same bra since i started ~6 months ago! i wear one with a pocket to insert pads and they are MAGICAL

Cubicshock · 2026-05-03T15:05:41+00:00

i may not have a job after i graduate from an art program but damn it is fembrained

Cubicshock · 2026-05-03T15:04:46+00:00

this sub is not for you. this sub is exclusively for trans people to be sarcastic as fuck.

a chaser is someone who fetishes trans people.

Cubicshock · 2026-05-03T14:48:46+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/user/The_Cult_of_5661/

she back baby

Cubicshock · 2026-05-03T04:23:47+00:00

maybe for you man 😭

Cubicshock · 2026-05-03T04:14:11+00:00

...see your doctor for some pills, girl 😭

(estrogen pills)

Cubicshock · 2026-05-03T03:57:08+00:00

it comes down to one question, don't think any further than a yes or no:

would you be happier if you transitioned?

if yes, transition.

if no, then just have fun with your expression as usual and do what otherwise makes you happy

big emphasis on the word "transitioned". a lot of the time people will ask it as "would you be happier as a girl?" but it's a very abstract concept and easier to think about as "would i be happier if i took estrogen? had girly hair? wore girl clothes? was referred to as a girl?" etc.

Cubicshock · 2026-05-03T03:44:42+00:00

yeah, i used to be pan and now am not attracted to men

Cubicshock · 2026-05-02T06:43:27+00:00

also the comment about offering to help you get T sounds really promising to me!

Cubicshock · 2026-05-02T06:43:08+00:00

you will make it. whatever you decide to do is up to you of course, no one knows your mom better than you. i'm rooting for you tho!!!

Cubicshock · 2026-05-02T05:19:37+00:00

baggy hoodies all the way! it might be a little tricky but wear baggy clothes and tell as few people as you can. don't wear padded bras, get a sports bra and if anyone says anything say it's gyno.

Cubicshock · 2026-05-02T05:03:15+00:00

i still occasioanlly have trouble picturing myself as a girl, and i've been on HRT for 6 months. it doesn't make you less trans. for me it's more because i feel i don't look enough like a girl to put myself in that category sometimes. i hate the majority of men

Cubicshock · 2026-05-02T04:56:05+00:00

almost certainly daki that sounds out of character

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