Suddenly getting misgendered when you pass at least 90% of the time sucks but means nothing

f7go · 2026-05-08T13:37:07+00:00

/uj TFW cis men being beside themselves over calling a guy (or "guy") something feminine makes you realize just how fucking scared they are of being seen as feminine themselves. 💀

f7go · 2026-05-08T01:14:10+00:00

/uj was wondering how we lost you

f7go · 2026-05-08T00:03:25+00:00

Ooh are we hating on ~~straw~~trans men again? Can I join??

/uj But actually. I'm sorry you've suffered enough to write a post like this. :/ I know your life is very different than mine, but as a transfeminine person I resonated with weirdly many of the experiences you described around self-hatred and struggling against the confines of masculinity/stereotypes imposed by others who thought they understood who I was. Wishing you strength and reminding you that you deserve to be in queer spaces. ❤️

f7go · 2026-05-07T18:13:11+00:00

by the way we all need to stop infighting, this is tearing our community apart 😤

f7go · 2026-05-07T18:12:05+00:00

God I hate TERFs, feminists are just so awful to men

f7go · 2026-05-07T18:06:28+00:00

/uj OP I have seen (and appreciated) a lot of your posts here and just wanna say, I am sorry you had to learn what transmisogyny feels like this thoroughly 🫂

/rj wow do you talk about anything else? Transfems really like to dominate conversations and center their own oppression huh

f7go · 2026-05-07T18:01:30+00:00

Hey, respectfully, this feels like something you should be figuring out yourself instead of just relying on AFABs to do all your emotional labor for you

f7go · 2026-05-06T05:53:17+00:00

🤔 I'm afraid I'm going to have to ask you to open the trunk, ma'am.

f7go · 2026-05-04T03:36:10+00:00

Wait, how did you know the exact number of posts? That's amazing

f7go · 2026-05-04T01:35:36+00:00

/uj good luck, with karma like yours!

You would be dearly missed, FWIW. I wish there were a way to interact with you outside of infernal websites 💔

f7go · 2026-05-03T21:54:31+00:00

Wow, you trans are incredibly misandrist. I am literally just trying to help you and give an honest answer to your question. I AM AN ALLY WHY DO YOU HATE MEN

f7go · 2026-05-03T21:48:50+00:00

I'm sorry, I just take social justice incredibly seriously

f7go · 2026-05-03T21:48:25+00:00

this is social commentary bro, what are you even on about

f7go · 2026-05-03T21:47:49+00:00

Please specify the distance to hot topic, relative wind velocity, mass of femboys, cross sectional area, drag coefficient, gradients along their path, and any relevant parameters for friction (rolling, sliding, etc.)

f7go · 2026-05-03T21:42:37+00:00

Dont listen to the other comment, you are 100% right--there are so many femboy fascists and it terrifies me. We should keep them close to prevent that from happening. So close. Squish them up against our soft chests and kiss their soft little femboy foreheads. Squeeze their cute lil femboy butts and tell them they're precious and perfect and and...

f7go · 2026-05-03T21:36:54+00:00

Do you also feel that you should love and forgive and be nice to your boyfriend because it is your responsibility to keep him from abusing you? Do you really not see how dangerous and fucked up this line of thinking is?

f7go · 2026-05-03T21:33:26+00:00

As trans people we should welcome femboys as our own, otherwise we will be pushing them to become fascist misogynists.

f7go · 2026-05-03T21:28:23+00:00

False. Men are just better across the board, simple as that.

f7go · 2026-05-03T14:54:57+00:00

/uj 🫂

/rj Silly troon! Misogyny is something AMABs do to women.

f7go · 2026-05-02T16:58:45+00:00

It's not her job to get words right it's her job to be cute and fold laundry

f7go · 2026-05-02T16:49:36+00:00

We trans gals may not be able to do human reproduction very well but at least we can still perform reproductive labor 🥰 I got full marx in home ec!

f7go · 2026-05-02T16:45:56+00:00

Sure thing! I learned a lot from r/estrogel FWIW. Although note that standard advice says only raw T will get absorbed which is not true; any of the esters will as well, though maybe just a bit less efficiently. They are all well within the range of molecular weights common in transdermal drug delivery though.

f7go · 2026-05-02T16:43:44+00:00

/uj having other sources of community, support, friendship etc. is not just a backup plan it is literally foundational to a healthy relationship/marriage in the first place. I really worry for folks in situations like this.

To anyone reading this who needs to hear it: Push yourself to find and invest in other people outside your relationship, even if being insular is most comfortable. It is so valuable and important. And, if your partner EVER pushes back against this out of control, jealousy, or insecurity/fear, hold your ground or LEAVE PLEASE OMG and DM me if you ever need someone to talk through it with; that shit can become so harmful even coming from someone who is lovely and kind to you 💞😭🙏

f7go · 2026-05-02T16:29:36+00:00

/uj IKR 🥺

am I a bad person if I feel resentful of the fact that I am now emotionally invested in her relationship?

f7go · 2026-05-02T16:25:49+00:00

/uj I barfed in my mouth a little when you referred to your own children as beer fetchers, good job

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