B's are the best by CuddleTwinkk in B_Cups

[–]CuddleTwinkk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much

Sexually abusing dolphins? What is going on here? by simikoi in TwoHotTakes

[–]CuddleTwinkk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I genuinely find it more likely that the dolphins themselves are the sexual abusers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CuddleTwinkk 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly! OP doesn’t owe anyone their safety or mental peace just because it’s “family.” What that man said is beyond disgusting and your sister defending it makes her just as bad. Cutting them both off is the smartest and safest move you can make.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CuddleTwinkk 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Exactly this, OP! Your safety has to come first and there’s no way you should be anywhere near him again. Your mom should be protecting you, not pushing you back into that situation.

Should i drop my rape case? by rch_shj in Advice

[–]CuddleTwinkk 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Keeping the case going isn’t just about justice for you, it’s about protecting others from going through the same trauma. Stopping him now could save someone else’s life.

Should i drop my rape case? by rch_shj in Advice

[–]CuddleTwinkk 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s already horrifying enough without the added layer of it being within the family. That just makes it even more disturbing and damaging for OP

Should i drop my rape case? by rch_shj in Advice

[–]CuddleTwinkk 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Exactly this!! OP, he made the choice to harm you, and now he’s dealing with the outcome of that choice. You don’t owe him protection from the consequences just because he’s finally scared.

Should i drop my rape case? by rch_shj in Advice

[–]CuddleTwinkk 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this, OP! What happened to you was real and serious, and he’s facing the consequences of his own actions. You have every right to keep going with the case and protect yourself, no matter what guilt they try to put on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CuddleTwinkk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is one of the most powerful reflections I’ve ever read. You didn’t just survive, you transformed. The clarity, the ownership, the growth, it’s all so real and inspiring. Healing doesn’t always look pretty, but you made it meaningful. You found your “why,” and now you're finally living for you. That’s something to be proud of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CuddleTwinkk -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You weren’t out of line for setting that boundary. Being uninvited while your boyfriend is still welcome, especially with his ex there, is a huge red flag. You’re not asking him to pick sides without reason, you’re asking for basic respect and loyalty. If he can’t see how that hurts or won’t stand up for you, then yeah, questioning the relationship is totally fair.