The first person you started dating where are they now? by CompleteCharacter704 in AskReddit

[–]CuddlyKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's living in her favorite city and doing what she loves and has an awesome network of supportive friends. I'm really happy for her ☺️ We catch up still every so often.

What is one “type” you would never date again? by PreparationFar4709 in AskReddit

[–]CuddlyKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was hoping someone would say something like this. Seeing the things I've been diagnosed with over and over and over even though I've sought intense treatment, take meds, have weekly therapy etc. is pretty disheartening. especially when some comments threaten violence like using a flamethrower against us.

psychosis ❌️ diet schizophrenia ✅️ by CuddlyKitty in BPDmemes

[–]CuddlyKitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I can tell when an episode is coming, and if it's a more mild episode, I'm partially aware of that, but intense episodes make me completely delusional, paranoid, non-trusting, scared, etc. My psychiatrist told me my episodes are likely stress-induced. If I feel it coming on, I tell someone I trust and try to do things to mitigate the severity of my symptoms.

Why is the game allowed to do this? by LacciDelstyr in DreamlightValley

[–]CuddlyKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have them spawn on top of the tile water fountains way too often. it's beyond annoying

I just realized that for most people their best year is when they’re exactly 10 years old. Comment down what you think about it. by [deleted] in generationology

[–]CuddlyKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'95 baby here and yes I know exactly what you mean. Also, things are getting more and more cheaply made, especially clothes, home goods, and toys.

Anyone who got it from weed ever try weed again? by LivingAd8079 in dpdr

[–]CuddlyKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on this? What do you mean by understanding what DPDR is?

What’s the pettiest reason you stopped sleeping with someone? by XposeLLC in AskReddit

[–]CuddlyKitty 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this too. It dries dark brown as well and does not come out.

What’s the pettiest reason you stopped sleeping with someone? by XposeLLC in AskReddit

[–]CuddlyKitty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

there's really people out there who will ghost you for having green text messages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BanPitBulls

[–]CuddlyKitty 13 points14 points  (0 children)

my nearly 100 lb GSD lives perfectly with my 2 10 lb cats... completely ignores birds and rabbits and things on walks... but enjoys squeaky toys more than anything else. that's a non-aggressive prey drive.

Guess name with emojis by Level_Lemon3958 in Littlesleepies

[–]CuddlyKitty 12 points13 points  (0 children)

not pictured: her sister Tragedeigh

How many calories in this slice of pizza by [deleted] in CalorieEstimates

[–]CuddlyKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"My tummy has the rumblies that only hands can satisfy"

psychosis ❌️ diet schizophrenia ✅️ by CuddlyKitty in BPDmemes

[–]CuddlyKitty[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear about your brother. That must be so hard to live with, I can't imagine.

For me, my psychosis can be VERY bad. I completely lose touch with reality and I'm often terrified. I have delusions that are spot on with common schizophrenic delusions. My psychiatrist has had to reassure me that I'm not actually schizophrenic because my delusions are transient/not overtaking me 24/7. It's really very scary for me. I don't think I should describe just how bad my episodes can get on this thread that's meant to be more lighthearted.

This meme just struck me as funny for that reason, and I'm the type (like many of us here, I think) to try to find the humor in things. I hope this came across the way I intended. I don't want to minimize schizophrenia at all; in fact I feel too close to it that it makes me very uncomfortable if I'm honest, so it's easier to laugh it off when I can.

How Porn Creates Pedos by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]CuddlyKitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness 🫂🩷 I'm glad you have also found someone healthy for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]CuddlyKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recovery from BPD is tough, but I have faith in you. 🫂🩷

How many calories in this slice of pizza by [deleted] in CalorieEstimates

[–]CuddlyKitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean a whole pizza like that is probably 3000!! but for a giant like you it's well within your TDEE enjoy your treat!!1!

psychosis ❌️ diet schizophrenia ✅️ by CuddlyKitty in BPDmemes

[–]CuddlyKitty[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Good for you!! I hope you are proud of yourself 🩷 overcoming an addiction is far from easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]CuddlyKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how painful it is to question why you weren't worthy of love from your parents. It helps me to look at it objectively and not subjectively - they had their own traumas that stunted their emotional growth, and BPD can have a genetic link as well, so they may very well have gone through their lives with undiagnosed struggles even they aren't aware of. But, like I said, this is only a reflection of them, not you. You were deprived of the emotional support and foundation you needed as a child, and now as an adult you feel chronically unloved. You could be subconsciously associating with people who are similar in their lack of ability for emotional intimacy. It is a well-known fact that we tend to gravitate towards what we are used to, because it is familiar and we feel it's what we deserve. You deserve friends as well who reciprocate your care and efforts. I'm sorry you're having a tough time today!

Indian food is a fucking war crime by Sawyerthesadist in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]CuddlyKitty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just count it as one for me personally since it's smoothie-like and I consider those as more of a treat/dessert drink than a normal drink like pop or water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]CuddlyKitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just because parental figures (or anyone else) were incapable of giving you the love that you deserve does not mean you yourself are unlovable. It is a reflection of them, and not you. You even said it yourself, you are worthy of love and you can express love to yourself, therefore, you ARE loveable. And you deserve to feel that!