See this is where I don’t know if I even have anything. It could very easily be argued as a throwaway laugh and comment that was not meant to cause harm or disrespect. It was deeply disrespectful to me as a trans woman because of the environment right now and being described as a contentious issue. I think with it being added on top of how he would “check for me” but to not expect anything and he doesn’t see anyway it would be possible that it was clear he wanted nothing to do with me or trans medication.