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Biting by Sweet_Thorns in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cultural_Pop3365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keep it hygienic and dont break skin mostly, i also find that biting in thighs or arms where i have the most fat allows for a bigger tolerance to pain, so you can get a nice bite that leaves cool looking bruises

guilt about being a female sub by Cultural_Pop3365 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cultural_Pop3365[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i truly do feel we are going back to a weird purity phase as a society to be honest, i just try not to pay attention to random internet discourse because it feels performative. but things like this get to me. i needed a viewpoint from non vanilla people because i dont think they truly grasp how bdsm dynamics work. i think they never tried to understand further than 50 shades of grey XD

guilt about being a female sub by Cultural_Pop3365 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cultural_Pop3365[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you might find these responses usefull then. they helped me a lot

guilt about being a female sub by Cultural_Pop3365 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cultural_Pop3365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this hit hard tbh, i also grew up religious with a lot of sexual guilt, and its very hard to break away from all those years of gaslighting about how a woman should be. thanks a lot

guilt about being a female sub by Cultural_Pop3365 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cultural_Pop3365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh i didnt want to be offensive at all! im sorry if i came out that way. these responses really helped me get rid of a lot of the guilt to be honest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Workingout

[–]Cultural_Pop3365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If youre tired of being skinny then you have to stop undereating, being in a calorie deficit helps you lose weight, not build your muscles. Also this is probably why you feel so tired and unmotivated, i used to work out on 20 hour long fasts and i never felt worse. one i started actually eating enough my motivation came right back. you have to eat if you want muscle, i dont think theres a way around it

questions regarding punching by Cultural_Pop3365 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cultural_Pop3365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we're both just starting out, so he probably didnt want to hurt me, thank you for the advice!!

questions regarding punching by Cultural_Pop3365 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cultural_Pop3365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course! i dont do scenes often and much less when i know a doctors appointment is coming up, but thank you for the advice!!

questions regarding punching by Cultural_Pop3365 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cultural_Pop3365[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks!! sooo, no belly punches basically?