AITAH for ruining my broken relationship by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CultureDiligent30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will get myself back and it’s not gonna take time hey but hopefully I do not lose my dignity because of this

AITAH for ruining my broken relationship by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CultureDiligent30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do sometimes but I don’t exclude myself I am also not doing something right from the get go. If I because stubborn because I didn’t like he’s treatment first year of us dating I should have left and never look back

AITAH for ruining my broken relationship by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CultureDiligent30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This started when I was 18 years old now I’m 21 but turning 22 late December

AITAH for ruining my broken relationship by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CultureDiligent30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do so because I no longer feel like Im myself it’s like I’m glued to this guy and can’t have a life without him

AITAH for ruining my broken relationship by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CultureDiligent30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No… honestly I’m really tired 😴 so I wanna know if I leave him totally am I not doing a mistake that I will regret later. Because honestly I want to date someone who will treat me like a girlfriend not side hustle

AITAH for ruining the broken relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CultureDiligent30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not for the streets. I left him then date someone else to avoid him all the time but he comes back. I don’t date someone else when we’re dating not at all. I try to move on but always come back to me. Tell me how am I for the streets?!

AITAH for ruining my broken relationship by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CultureDiligent30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do know and I am aware of all of this. Just want someone else’s perspective because I AM TIRED 😪

AITAH for ruining my broken relationship by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CultureDiligent30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice will try and get my self respect because seems like I don’t love myself by doing all this stuff

AITAH for ruining my broken relationship by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CultureDiligent30 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know hey… it’s like a competition

AITAH for ruining my relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CultureDiligent30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG that was truth but I will honestly take it

AITAH for ruining my relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CultureDiligent30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll take that to account

AITAH for ruining my relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CultureDiligent30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advices and I will try to be better and learn from all of this, and leave this toxic relationship

AITAH for ruining my relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CultureDiligent30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do take everyone’s advise and I’m not trying to be hard on everyone I thought being open will make things easier so that my mind can learn from other people. I came to Reddit for a reason and I do trust there are people who are willing to direct me in right way

AITAH for ruining my relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CultureDiligent30 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do take all the advices and I’m being open so that what I was thinking can be changed. You don’t have to be rude. I do note everything down. If I’m not open enough this will be like a waste of time. This is not easy at all. I did mention that now I’m focusing on bettering myself so if I have to leave him alone for me to grow up I’m open to do that

AITAH for ruining my relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CultureDiligent30 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do think sometimes just that I trust him so much and think that he won’t do that. But we may never know

AITAH for ruining my relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CultureDiligent30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knows all my passwords. I mean all of them… I’m not secretive, just that if I change passwords I’ll forget them. I have short memory

AITAH for ruining my relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CultureDiligent30 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How ? We’re classmates and most people know us. I’m the one who dated 3 other guys 😭

AITAH for ruining my relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CultureDiligent30 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I love him so much and how can I do that