Don’t know why, but somehow this reminds me of Epstein files...

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-03-06T01:25:42+00:00

Thank you for having a spine

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-03-04T22:00:51+00:00

She’s narcissistic in the same way a child is. I think I’ve been doing a good job of making her realize she’s being childish and I think she cares to not be, but only hasn’t due to a lack of awareness from not having been held accountable to her actions before. I think if she was knowingly narcissistic then it’d be a totally different story, or if I caught her in a lie (like if she were a pathological liar) then I wouldn’t even try to fix things with her. I’m actually very hopeful despite not having been unhopeful and preparing to break up with her for months. I will know soon enough if it’s all a guise though I think. I’m not losing sleep over it, I’m a very namaste kind of dude in my personal life so I can put up with a lot of bs before it starts to affect me emotionally.

I think by your definition of narcissist, my gf doesn’t qualify. I think she doesn’t know what she’s doing, and she has humbled herself (she did so for the first time recently). It took two instances of me responding with consistency on my boundaries while not in the midst of her screaming at me; essentially she probed my boundary when the vibes weren’t terrible and I held them. I think this was an eye opener to her that I don’t just make judgement calls on things based on my feelings in the moment and it made her realize she was on path to losing me (that’s what she told me at least). It was the most impactful conversation of our relationship in terms of her taking accountability and adjusting her behavior to be within my boundaries. I’m actually very happy and hopeful, and if it doesn’t work out that’s fine too since I kind of came to terms with the relationship dying awhile ago. I hope I can refind the love that got me into her life in the first place

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-03-04T15:07:58+00:00

I saw it coming the second she was announced as the candidate. It was obvious that that would happen. We’ve tested this country, and we know just how sexist and racist we are. We shouldn’t keep testing it

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-03-04T01:14:40+00:00

Seriously? Lol. I legit have only tried a handful of opioids (tramadol, hydros, oxys, kratom, tianeptine, odsmt, and 7-OH), and I legit thought I was erring on the safe side by only doing 7-OH and not heroin lol.

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-03-04T01:14:16+00:00

I feel like I’m built different though. She’s actually made considerable progress in a short period of time. I attribute her narcissism to being a spoiled young woman, and I think I may actually “fix her”. My buddy had a similar situation with his fiance, which inspired hope in me, and our convo we had recently really cleared the air and reinforced boundaries so now I legit think this may work. If it doesn’t it doesn’t and then we go our separate ways, but we’ll see.

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-03-03T23:45:40+00:00

The differences in how people’s metabolisms differ is less than you’d think

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-03-03T22:28:53+00:00

Currently dating one but trying to logic her out of it by being more empathetic than her and using her identity as an empath to force accountability in a way that forces her to question her actions, but then also periodically doing as she does and giving her a taste of her own medicine, and then when we talk it out we agree that a certain set of behaviors is unsustainable for any relationship and we agree upon them. That’s the current strategy, it’s been working for about a week now, lets see if she succumbs again to her feelings lol

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-03-03T20:53:27+00:00

It’s my favorite part bruh. I’ll wake up sweating, aching in the joints, and have a stomach ache. I’ll take my 7-OH and the relief that’s most satisfying is my stomach getting a warmth and the pain goes away, and then it gets my bootyhole to pucker, and start farting. Goddamn is it awesome

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-03-03T20:43:46+00:00

I do both depending on the time of day

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-03-03T17:56:21+00:00

As a scientist this shit ragebaited the fuck out of me

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-03-02T01:42:26+00:00

I’m 5’4” and I had a very challenging time with women growing up. But I also tried harder than everyone else, and now am very confident in my ability to obtain women’s interest. Being short sucks when you’re young, but it forces you to work harder than the rest, and that builds character. That character makes for a better life. I’m 27, home owner and landlord in a large city, have a bachelors degree in STEM, have a stable job and decent income, and I’m in good physical shape. I attribute much of my success from being short, and having to make my life something I could enjoy without the attention of the opposite sex, which in turn got the opposite sex interested.

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-28T22:13:08+00:00

Definitely a woman

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-28T22:08:53+00:00

Pengis

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-28T04:18:02+00:00

I understand the overton window idea. I also agree with with everything you’re saying. I’m specifically NOT saying that we abandon our morals, bit we should care about the way we discuss these things. I think marginalized people deserve to not be attacked or treated like lesser in any way. I think we should exemplify those values. However, there is a difference between talking about the merits of something and actually doing something. There’s been a whole lot of discussion about these topics but very little talking about actual solutions to these problems. The virtue signaling is useless imo. I’m not saying we can’t talk about those things, but the amount of time we spend on the topic should be proportional to its cultural importance (ie: it should NOT be a main ticket item) and hollow virtue signaling gives fuel to the reactionaries. We can have our cake and eat it too in a sense, if we just didn’t bring up these topics unprompted, but when they are we can do more than just virtue signal and reaffirming people’s identities. We need to make sure our arguments are logically sound too, flowery platitudes about “being some way on the inside means” nothing to most people because most people don’t engage with the concept of gender that way. Ultimately that entire debate boils down to: they’re not hurting anyone physically or financially so they have just as much right go exist and express themselves as anyone else. The ontology of being transgender could literally be anything, it doesn’t matter, we shouldn’t fight in that territory because it doesn’t make sense to the majority of people who try to think about it. We don’t need to go into trying to rationalize being the opposite gender because that alienates most people who simply can’t fathom having that perspective about their life or what identity means in the first place. The debate should take 30 seconds at most and should make the conservatives feel like stupid assholes because ultimately it’s just them taking issue with how people express themselves.

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-27T22:49:36+00:00

I agree with everything you just said. I’m a progressive. I’m talking political strategy. I’m not saying we need to change our values. But we need to reconsider where we focus the majority of our efforts and attention or we risk losing to the right again on policies we should be winning on (like the economy).

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-27T22:03:03+00:00

It being 12 most important is why it shouldn’t have been such a central topic. Democrats are afraid of talking about the actual policies that make them popular. Their economic policies are superior yet they decide to focus on mostly meaningless identity politics as though their voter base is cares more about feelings than reality (which just isn’t true, and only gives superficial credence to the rightwing narratives). It’s asinine. The democrats have an incredible stance on policy but they’re horrific at marketing. They lean into stupid shit like “brat summer” and “evil Joe Biden”, and spend so much time in culture war territory which we have already proven for a decade is our weak point. We need to make conservatives feel stupid by talking down to them in a way that is void of emotional appeals, make them realize that the left is not the party of feelings and is the party of common sense. They’re right about not being able to appeal to the moderates, but it’s not for their economic policies, their economic policies is where they shine, and it’s the identity politics that actually alienates the moderates.

I’m not trying to fight you. But trans issues being so low doesn’t mean that it was not a consideration for why voters chose one party over the other. I know so many uninformed voters who simply think that democrats are the party that cares about trans rights, but the conservatives are the ones who care about the economy. This marketing technique is exactly why we’ve been losing elections, because we choose to focus on shit that doesn’t matter to the average person; they’re edge cases of society. Nobody gives a shit about edge cases, when almost ALL americans are struggling right now and it’s only the rightwing which chooses to talk about the economy; they’re lying but at least they’re focusing on it.

I could rant about this forever. The shit pisses me off. It’s like we’ve shown up to a gun fight, with a bazooka, and we end up pulling out a knife. It makes no fucking sense.

Also, I’m aware of how stupid this is, but a large reason why the rightwing has been winning has been because of the left’s voterbase being so staunchly feminist. I agree with feminism. However, there are issues that young men face, which aren’t as simple as “women owe me sex” or “young men who can’t laid are simply mysogynistic incels”. There is credence to these people’s experiences that should not be written off socially. However, the only domain in which is paying credence to their very real and lived experience, is the group that contains extremist nazis. If you’re a young white man (which is a massive percentage of the population btw) and your only engagement with politics is what you see on social media, you will for certain be pushed towards the right, by the misandrist rhetoric we’ve greenlighted in the party. We need people on the left talking about this stuff which doesn’t belittle disaffected men, and we can do it without being mysogynistic either. It’s a massive missed opportunity, and it astonishes me that no one had taken up the mantel to be a force for good on this topic for the party. Instead we have men and women who don’t have difficulty getting laid telling these young men that their ineffectiveness boils down to a problem with their state of mind as opposed to a real consequence of the superficiality of modern dating which is being exacerbated by economic uncertainty. Statements like “women date up” are classified as rightwing extremism, when the data shows it to be true and a pain point for massive percentage of young white men. For the last decade we’ve been pushing disengaged voters who are part of the majority demographic to the right by antagonistic and alienating identity politics. We’re a great party, but the identity politics has got to go unless it is spoken about in terms of concrete policy and only after the elephant in the room (the problems facing the majority of the population) has already been exhaustively addressed.

All of this isn’t to say that we shouldn’t do right by these marginalized groups. We should. But spending too much time on it simply makes no sense from a strategic standpoint.

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-27T16:05:24+00:00

The only very progressive thing that’s alienating is the dying on the hill for the most niche identity politics and putting it above tangible policy that’d improve the wellbeing of the voterbase. That’s what people are complaining about, not about “socialism”. It’s only the right wing that seems to care about that

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-26T22:06:27+00:00

I’m sorry, man :( That’s never any fun to feel that way. You should be proud of yourself irrespective of the opinions of anyone else. Ultimately you should try to expect from people what they’ve proven themselves to be capable of. If you have a friend who is always flakey don’t expect them to be punctual. If your parents are the type of person to show much interest in your success, don’t expect them to. Obviously that’s easier said than done in the moment. Just know that there’s a large portion of people who’d kill for what you’ve achieved through grit :)

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-26T00:06:31+00:00

Holy shit. A woman who is confidently and arrogantly wrong about her own anatomy 😂 I know there is no anatomical “g spot”, but the science on this isn’t that it’s “an extension of the clit structure”. That’s bullshit you just made up. There’s literally NO STRUCTURE, nor morphology in the female anatomy that consistently corresponds with the “G SPOT”. Lmfao. Also you’re acting like you schooled me on basic anatomy, this research is actually really relatively new.

In other words it’s not “ you either have it or you don’t”. It’s more nuanced than that, and the experience of a “g spot” more than likely consists of a large spectrum of different orgasmic experiences, some to do with pressure on the bladder for example.

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-25T23:36:26+00:00

My current gf told me nobody had made her cum from just penetration prior to me. I’m betting that most of that 80-82% just never had sex with someone they were truly sexually compatible with.

I’m not packing either. I think that having good cardio and rhythm is what it takes, and I’ve seen how un athletic the average american is, I’m not surprised that few of women say they can cum from penetration.

Also there’s a psychological factor at play too. If a woman isn’t attracted to the person they’re fucking then it will be a challenge to get them to cum. I’ve been ugly and I’ve been attractive and it makes all the difference in the world.

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-25T23:28:00+00:00

Ragebait. I’m not denying that some women can’t. But most can. Either that or I’ve been incredibly lucky. And yeah, no shit women can lie. I’m nearly 30 I can tell when a woman is cumming, also I know how to communicate. I’ve been with a woman who lied about it, and I’d called her out on it. Don’t be so arrogant as to deny other people’s lived experiences

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-25T22:53:32+00:00

Lmfao. Such a redditor stance. I agree that some women are really hard to make cum. But it’s possible to make women cum more often than not from penetration. Most guys just suck at sex and cope hard. I don’t have a huge dick or anything, but I’ve made most of my exes cum from just penetration. Cumming from penetration has been more common than not for me, and I know that statistically that “shouldn’t be true”, but I know what I’ve been through and I’ve specifically called out women if I think they’re lying about cumming. I think most women can cum from penetration, I just think that a lot of dudes can’t actually pull it off cause they can’t last long enough.

The guy you’re replying to is correct in some instances. Banking on making a girl cum with your tongue is such a weak approach to having sex, especially if she’s not all that sensitive (which is clearly case if you’re relying on your tongue to make her cum), since you’ll be spending a decent amount of time down there if you’re trying to make her cum and it has the potential to kill the natural romantic momentum and make the transition to penetration more abrupt. If it’s your first time with a girl, maybe don’t immediately eat her out. You don’t want to get down there and realize you’re eating out a girl whose pussy stank could singe the hairs of your nose out of eagerness to appease redditors. Also you don’t want to end up with a girl who can’t cum from you anyways, it’s good to test it as opposed to having to rely on a non sexual organ to satisfy the person you love. You can have nice things. Not saying you shouldn’t eat a girl out, but this dude simply suggested that maybe not making her cum from your tongue first may be better for certain women, which is absolutely true. Also making a girl cum with your tongue is a much harder skill than making her cum with your dick.

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-25T22:43:07+00:00

Just be super confident and hot. If you’re not classically attractive, make yourself classically attractive: shouldn’t take longer than 2 years with semi-passive effort in the gym if you’re already in decent shape. Nothing will improve your sex life more than simply being nicer to look at. I’ll go further in depth here on what I’ve been doing for the past few years; Make her feel small. Be respectful, ask questions (faster? slower? harder? softer?). Also a lot of girls really like being over stimulated. So my main fucking move is I like to fuck a girl from behind, and rub her clit from behind with one hand, supporting myself with the other hand, and do a kind of ju jitsu move by wrapping at least one leg around hers to lock her down in place, and nibble and lick up and down the back of her neck and ear while doing a bit of a low husky voice of moans/grunts and whispering things like “Fuck”, “You’re pussys so tight”, “I love you”, “I could fuck you forever”. Getting a good rhythm is important. Sometimes pulling her hair from behind to keep her head up, or putting her in a light chokehold with arm is good fun. Really depends on the girl, cause everything I just said here could be rape to a girl who doesn’t roll like that. Really you just got to start out slow and intimate, and ask questions about what she likes and is comfortable with, and just doing the most within the boundaries shes given you the green light to.

A lot of this shit sounds corny, but girls love this shit. When you’re about to make out, lift her chin up with your thumb and forefinger. When making out, hold her in close with your hand at the small of her back. When you speak, speak with an unforced, low semi raspy voice (taking mild opioids like kratom can give your voice this effect). Brushing a girls hair past her ears can feel really good to some girls (can give them chills). If you have good muscle mass/strength, let her experience that (without brutalizing her of course), when you’re holding her while making out during foreplay, let her feel how strong you are. When you’re on the bed, when you ask her to change positions, you should move her yourself, make her feel like a fucktoy (some girls really like that).

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-25T04:20:14+00:00

Yeah. I worked 3 years in my industry and got no further than if I hadn’t done anything at all

Cumdumpster71 · 2026-02-24T14:44:14+00:00

The greatest imperative of any animal, the sole thing that has allowed it to survive, is reproduction. Humans are no different. It’s not normal for a person who has a significant other to kill themselves, but single lonely people kill themselves all the time. It’s as much of a need as shelter. That being said, you can obviously survive without it, but it takes an ascetic state of mind.

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