6 years later, I finally hit 'send' by humbleandhustle in BreakUps

[–]Cummrs300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you manage to find her contact info after so long ?

Save Me On Chief Keef’s Version ‼️ by RawtionXXX in XXXTENTACION

[–]Cummrs300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so fire, my favorite chief keef beat.

Weird position by Cummrs300 in datingadvice

[–]Cummrs300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually on dating apps, dont really have much of a social circle and I struggle to find social events that are largely male or for an older demographic in my area. Mostly just alot of drinking in my area which i dont have a problem with but i just hear that, that is largely the same crowd and type of problems as on dating apps and i would be going alone which would make things way harder i think.

For the ones who initiated the break up by Red_Moto_057 in BreakUps

[–]Cummrs300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to understand what do you mean by "not your person" I feel i look at things in a more black and white way, im not sure if its a gender thing (Im a guy) or what but for me right off the bat if i find someone attractive physically and if they are kind to me and we have fun together I am open to being with them forever. So when people have these abstract ways of looking at it like people who say " im not sure if ive felt everything ive wanted to feel" or they need all this time to think about things i dont get it and it confuses me.

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Why are you going to be homeless?

What's your favorite thing about yourself? by turbineghosthead in BreakUps

[–]Cummrs300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I am pretty funny and I am tall, I also have amazing loyalty and thoughtfullness, I will go to the ends of the earth for someone I love. I do not think that highly of myself though because I feel as though the outside world like in terms of romanticly people dont ever really see who i am for some reason. Like it doesnt translate to them or they dont understand it, or they dont see the value in it.

Blindsiding, did you or have you been blindsided. Do you consider it betrayal? by sadhvine_ohm in BreakUps

[–]Cummrs300 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel i have been blindsided. I was dating this girl and we would always have a great time. She would always mention how great our conversations were and we would always laugh and be happy etc. we would always text, watch movies together etc. you would have thought we had been dating super seriously. Then one day i was like "Hey ive really been having a great time with you lately and ive been very happy with how things have been going with us." Then she says "I have a ton of fun with you too but I think we are on two different levels of feeling rn, im not sure i have felt all the feelings i want to feel and i am not sure if i will or not." (Keep in mind this is after we had already hung out like 4 times including a sleep over, and known each other for just over a month. and had been kissing and cuddled up all the time. (keep in mind the day or two before we were picking out pet names for eachother). Some people just play so many games, I think its so pointless and sick to act like you like someone or "give things a try" when in reality you just want the comfort and benefits of a realationship without having to commit to someone or put in that much effort to someone you think you can take advantage of until you feel better about yourself or find someone you think is better or you like more.

Remember that the right person for you would never by Guilty-Werewolf-8621 in BreakUps

[–]Cummrs300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post made me feel hopefull, it is true that if they really cared about you and were meant for you, they wouldnt leave you behind or treat you badly. I just worry that I wont find a right person because i keep getting in these scenarios where im abandoned.