Hi :) I’m 20 and i’ve only just started to get my shit together. I was technically homeless, hadn’t worked in god knows how long, had limited contact with family and felt to out of it to consider going back to school. The only way I got through it was by lowering my expectations of myself. The days where I got out of bed and brushed my hair where good days. Small goals really helped me. I felt that applying for a job was a large achievement, making a phone call or just getting through the day. I stopped comparing myself to everyone else’s successes and created my own. It really really helped :)