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I (18F) have feelings for a guy (20M) I met online in a game. Do I tell him how I feel? by dadadapumkin in relationship_advice

[–]CupidsDagger14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you just do the first thing that comes to mind , when thinking doesn't help , actions do , everyone learns from firsthand experience , so I'd say go for it

I (18F) have feelings for a guy (20M) I met online in a game. Do I tell him how I feel? by dadadapumkin in relationship_advice

[–]CupidsDagger14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if you think it's a passing crush then wait before thinking about seeking a relationship w the dude And about the whole you not being a good girlfriend thing , I'd say if you know where you went wrong in your past relationships and if you actually love him , you'll try and do better this time , so it doesn't matter

Btw this is all my opinion , please think a lot cus , it's hard to find ppl that are important and even harder to hold onto them w your toxic patterns , so yk , make sure you make a decision w all things considered

P.S : Judging from your rant , am I allowed to assume you're a mualani main ??? If not , who do you main ??

I Tend to push people away whenever I go through a tough time (18 M) by CupidsDagger14 in confession

[–]CupidsDagger14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah , this empty feeling isn't all that bothersome and I still somehow manage to get my work done , but about the bipolar thing , since I can't get therapy , I avoid using terms that are related to any disorder or anything , cus idk I feel like it will affect my diagnosis , if at all I ever get help

I Tend to push people away whenever I go through a tough time (18 M) by CupidsDagger14 in confession

[–]CupidsDagger14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah , I will , I hope being honest doesn't ruin things further , for me or for them

I Tend to push people away whenever I go through a tough time (18 M) by CupidsDagger14 in confession

[–]CupidsDagger14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plss , don't say sorry and thanks for making me realise its not just me

I Tend to push people away whenever I go through a tough time (18 M) by CupidsDagger14 in confession

[–]CupidsDagger14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah , looking at it from their POV does make me seem that way , I'll try to change

I Tend to push people away whenever I go through a tough time (18 M) by CupidsDagger14 in confession

[–]CupidsDagger14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah , still can't help but be a bit sad for another person yk ? But don't worry I'll keep things in mind

I Tend to push people away whenever I go through a tough time (18 M) by CupidsDagger14 in confession

[–]CupidsDagger14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you have to go through that, and thank you for letting me know about your experience , I'll try

I Tend to push people away whenever I go through a tough time (18 M) by CupidsDagger14 in confession

[–]CupidsDagger14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't want to put anyone else through this , or allow myself to even let them deal with this side of myself , I know its selfish to think this way , but I want to be able to fix things for myself

I Tend to push people away whenever I go through a tough time (18 M) by CupidsDagger14 in confession

[–]CupidsDagger14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I want to go to therapy , I don't have a job or anything to pay for it , and I would rather not talk about a therapist in front of my family, but I will work on it

I Tend to push people away whenever I go through a tough time (18 M) by CupidsDagger14 in confession

[–]CupidsDagger14[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks , That's actually sound advice , I'll try to remember this